You confront him, there is no nice way away about it. you are the wife and he is your husband. when you are married and you have such issues you talk about these problems. you don't keep it in until you grow bitter and resentful and then you decide to blurt things out cuz now you going to cause a real problems and your marriage. please don't be that kind of woman because you're afraid to step up and be his wife. don't be afraid to confront your husband with a problem you know you don't agree with. and he has no business to be going to someplace like that. what's next you having sex on the beach with a woman too? and you going to be in agreeance with it? I pray not. all you have to do is just ask him how he been to a nudist beach yes or no. was this done when he was on his business trip yes or no. and then if he decides to ask you how you got that information all you got to do is just tell him that one of his friends told you. you don't have to get into details exactly who, what matters is that you found out. but there is never a nice way to confront such matters when you are married. that is just marriage life and you have to learn to accept it. if you confront him about it you do so in a respectful manner you don't Hound him. and definitely don't raise your voice unless something was said that warrants it.
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If he controls what you wear and do that is not someone you want to be with. I've seen that turn to abuse later. If he can do what he wants and not you that is terrible. I say you should tell him you know about the trip.
Be blunt. "How was the nudist beach? I'd like to try one with you next time."
If he freaks out, he's either hiding something, or that's a red flag on this whole relationship as he might be the controlling type.
Since you have never been, you might think it's like the movies - full of hot, young, naked women.
In reality, there are a lot of old, fat, and/or ugly people of both sexes. Sure, there are a few hot women, but they are the exception, not the rule.
Until you get the whole story, don't jump to any conclusions.
It was a chance to experience something that doesn't happen everyday. Nude beaches are not about sex, exhibitionism, or voyeurism. They are about the freedom of being nude. I suggest asking him if you can go to one together next time.
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Wear something sexy then when he protests bring up the nude beach incident & hit him with his hypocrisy.
Ask him if he did anything fun or interesting on the trip if he tells you the truth leave it alone if he doesn't tell him that you know that he went to a nude beach and ask him why he didn't tell you
Bah it's fine
It's a little funky but whateves. It's just walking around naked. Which I think is his right towards his own body
If he wants to free the nutsack, i guess he can without consulting you (as mean as it may sound)I'd like to visit a nudist beach too.
He was probably curious.He was curious and doesn't want other men seeing your birthday suit.
His friend is a snitch ! Tell him you want to go with him next time.
if you're asking should I... you don't mind him seeing other ladies fully naked. with that I'll say just don't bothered
Cheating at its finest
You sure the friend is telling the truth?
no big deal, why are you playing with his friends
cofront him now
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