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The BIG, GIGANTIC issue with a transgender bathroom... is burden of proof.
How is someone supposed to "prove" they are transgender if a sexual crime happens in that bathroom?
If a sexual crime occurs, it occurs. There would be no need to prove anything except that it happened to a jury so the person can hopefully be put away in jail.
I'm very sorry but i think it could help in the next years but everybody can accept you and your gender but nobody canget used to it easily. It is still weird to someone who has heard of it but never seen it before.
I, for an example, would get shocked if i see someone peeing with an... i don't know what or a women who is pulling a penis out to pee next to me.
That's all an example.
My opinion is that they should get an own toiletroom.
Besides that my opinion about this whole gender mystery is that people who having a new gender act like people are used to it as soon as the law or the media accept it. For them, have a look at homosexuality and see how people are still not used to it or in worser case against it. So actually i think they should be careful because "this gender mystery is new in this world" and people should get used to it first.
Its a bathroom and its ridiculous to expect every establishment to spend the money to put in a third bathroom, just as its absurd to claim some kind of sexual deviation will occur by having a transgender person use the bathroom of thier choice. By that reasoning gay and lesbian only bathrooms should exist as well, because you know how often bathroom rape/molestation occurs. Its a stupid issue no one (should) care its a bathroom.
If you have two X chromosomes, use the womens room. If you have an X and a Y chromosome, use the men's room. The rest is just cosmetics, you are what your DNA says you are.
Transgender is a mental illness, and is a disability. Those who suffer from it need counciling not affirmation. When we start letting people live their trans-gender/abled/whatever delusions we lose our ability to call it under threat of being called transphobic or whatever the new dumbass word for this shit is.
Lest we forget post-ops have a 40% suicide rate - makes sense.
You're just incredibly ignorant and misinformed. I doubt you ever cared to read about transgenderism. By the way, homosexuality was also considered a mental illness until 20 years ago.
@BlueCoyote so let's let people just choose their gender, age, race, height, eye color based on whatever they want for whatever day they want cause there are 36 genders and LGBT includes every letter of the alphabet. Let me pick my new pronouns quick before your rebuttals - I'd like to be known as "they" in the fist person and "shisunhui" in the third, after my mixed gender half-goat pet who is happily married to a houseplant.
Ever think maybe these people are just gay and don't know it because they're so self absorbed they think it's acceptable to run logic to its grave?
Being transgender is NOT a choice and considering it a choice is incredibly condescending. Do you REALLY think gay and transgender people want/choose to be the way they are? "Oh yeah cool, I love getting called a faggot or being bullied at school for wearing girls' clothes! Great choice I made! Hurray!" Most gay and especially trans people wish they weren't the way they are because they are being shat on every day.
And seriously, if you think transgender people might be gay, you don't understand anything about sexual identity and sexual orientation because the two are NOT the same. One is how you see yourself and the other is what kind of people you prefer to have sex with. Just because a girl feels unhappy in her body doesn't mean she's into boobs and pussy. These two are absolutely not related. In fact, there are transgender people who are straight and there are transgender people who are gay.
@BlueCoyote
Never witnessed a gay person get bullied in my life - in fact the ones I know suffer from the self inflicted misery of STDs since being gay is mostly just about the sex. But I'll take you at your word.
Nope, in one video the dude said he was an eight year old girl, yet he got a job as a snowplow driver, left his wife and kids and got some dumbass family to adopt him wherein he played with their granddaughter all day and had sex with biker guys. When his seven year old playmate said she wanted to be the older sis, he became six, when you cater to these dumb delusions it's the same as affirming alcoholism.
You clearly don't understand shit about trans people, or any LGBTQ issues for that matter. If you actually cared to do any research before making statements like this as though they're fact, you'd know that being transgender is not in fact a mental illness or a disability.
@cipher42 OH GOOD ANOTHER WHITE KNIGHT!
Everyone says that! Everyone says, "well if you read about LGBBTQQIAAPLMNOABC issues you'd know."
Call it comfortable bliss, The crazy matrix of logic-less cultural Marxism is not a rabbit-hole I want to explore. You SJW guys are like trying to solve this dumb puzzle that makes no sense to anyone and when you finally twist the logic to a comfortable narrative you go, "Ohh, look what I've done!" And normal people go, "Great, now get back in the basement and play your video games."
I mean, if you wanna go ahead and live in ignorance, that's your prerogative. But don't try and tell me that I'm the one who's ignoring logic when your opinion directly conflicts with that of the actual experts on the subject. Are you gonna deny global warming too now? Whatever, you do you, but I just felt I'd let you know that the relevant experts on this do in fact agree with me, not you.
It's not necessary to have a own bathroom for them. If the transgender person pass as the gender they identify themselves as, they can use the bathroom that match their gender identity in my opinion. If they doesn't pass and wants to avoid people staring at them, using a gender neutral bathroom is a option.
Just use whatever you identify as. Who the fuck cares lol this is the type of bs that is ruining people. Why would we need a separate bathroom for a small minority? Go with whatever genitalia you have, and if anyone has an issue with it, tell them to fuck off
Just watch the whole god damn episode.
couchtuner.city/5/south-park-s18-e3-the-cissy/
I thought that they would ban that episode for being ati-trans
*anti-trans
@QuestionMan South Park has done more extreme things than that.
Yeah I heard they received threats for a Mohammed joke.
@QuestionMan well yeah that, but I'm talking about things like Christopher Reeve sucking out the insides/blood of fetuses to gain strength from their stem cells.
Why don't people use the bathrooms that they identify with? People keep bitching about potential assault or people taking advantage but what is stopping someone of any gender of any bathroom today? It isn't like there's a gender scanner or a DNA test before entry. People are being fucking ridiculous.
No thats some dumbshit right there, you are either man or woman no matter what you change to , you were born a man therefore you are a man, you were born a woman therefore you are woman, so stop being stupid and asking for special treatment about everything, suck it up and move on youv dont deserve a special treatment , what next? building schools for unicorns? get real people you're fukcing idiotic
There should be men's restrooms, women's restrooms, and gender neutral restrooms. Men can go to men's and gender neutral restrooms.
Women can go to women's and gender neutral restrooms.
People go to the bathroom they identify with.
When people start transitioning, they get weird looks if their isn't a gender neutral bathroom. It's not ideal, and the solution is simple.
Okay. Someone correct me if I'm wrong but why can't trans people just use whatever restroom assigned to the gender they're passing as? Like if you look like a guy go to the guys restroom and if you're passing as a girl go to the girl's restroom. I don't get why this is an issue.
Not every transgender person "passes" as the gender they identify as, though. A lot of transgender people are still in their "transformation" stage and might not have had any surgeries yet. Also there's the issue of people simply being offended by transgender people, so naturally transgender people are kinda afraid of using public bathrooms in the first place.
@lumos But even without surgery no one is going to look very hard at an androgynous person, right?
A lot of transgender people don't even look androgynous. And you can't just assume that nobody will make a fuss over it.
@lumos Huh. interesting. I only know one trans person IRL and he was always pretty androgynous even before he switched so I guess I just assumed it would be the same for everyone else.
Yeah, it's not. Every transgender person's story and situation is different, and not all of them live in very liberal or otherwise open-minded places, which is why they might be afraid to use the public bathrooms. They don't want to attract that sort of negative attention. And the fact that it's even a possibility that conflict will arise is enough for them to try to avoid public bathrooms entirely.
Why does it really even matter? Having the restroom option there and available won't change or hurt anything, it's just an option. They can still choose to ignore it and go to whichever bathroom they want to go to.
I don't really care which bathroom they use honestly, I think they should just all have stalls and at that point it wouldn't make much of a difference to me.
I would have no problem with their existence - My only grievance would be designating them transgender bathrooms - I would call them unisex bathrooms and I would use them to stop people saying everyone that uses them is transgender - Maybe in time society might feel more comfortable with allowing people to use the bathroom of the gender they identify with rather than what they were born as.
im not sure there r enough transgendered folks to justify the expenses and universality, but also having it separate just sounds like its a blow at them. once transition has begun, i think they should just start going to the restroom of the gender they are becoming/feel set in. if they at least are starting to look like the gender, it will likely not create disturbance to other bathroom goers who aren't gonna question it
Not if they're going to be spending our tax money to build it. I don't care if a transgender comes into the girls bathroom, but don't "check me out" or try to flirt with me. I don't see why anyone should have a problem with this in the first place. If you're that worried just use the single family washroom.
You're gonna have a lot of wackos who use it as an opportunity to rape.
I really, really don't think that would happen. There's nothing stopping people from going into the other bathroom right now.
@ForeverYours39 you wouldn't stand out as much if on the outside you look like you belong there.
@Queen_KZ there are a lot more actual transgender/transsexual people who do belong there. However, people who are perverts and disgusting that want to sexuality assault and rape women aren't going to be stopped by a women's room. They obviously already don't care about breaking laws.
@ForeverYours39 no, it's not going to stop them I think it just makes it easier for them. If you notice a guy going into the girls bathroom it stands out but if it becomes the norm for guys to be there because they're transgender some guys (the ones that arent) may take advantage of this because they no longer stand out for being there. You'll dismiss their presence as people outside the restroom would. Everyone would pay less attention.
@Queen_KZ Which is exactly my point. They're just gonna take advantage of the situation. The Force is strong with you.
@Queen_KZ I guess I have more faith in men.
in my opinion this is the biggest issue I have (said the same thing with different words in my opinion)
@ForeverYours39 And it's great that you have that faith, seeing as most women have flippant attitudes towards men, but you still have to be realistic. Rapes would also include transgender women (women wanting to turn male) trying to assault other women too. Not just men.
They should NOT get special privileges just because they decided they wanted to changer sex or gender or whatever. Like that's on them their problem this is fucking ridiculous. Are these Transgenders going to pay for a third bathroom? Probably not. As a women I should not be going into a bathroom with a man. I should feel safe.
Real transgender people do not choose to identify as man, woman, or otherwise. It's how their brain works. You didn't choose to identify as a woman just like you didn't choose to identify as whatever your sexuality is. If a MTF person wants to shit in the same bathroom that you do, it's not gonna hurt you. And if they fucking do you can press charges on them just like any other person.
@ForeverYours39 your just saying this because I bet your transgender. A person who wants to change their gender should NOT FUCKING get special privileges. Let's say I want to be a cat. Should they make bathrooms for cats now in public? Will I be banned from stores that dont allow pets. Come on now. It has nothing to do with their brain they just want to be a girl or a guy because they aren't happy with themselves. Identity crisis. They think being a different gender will change their problem. We'll it won't get some counseling for christ sake!!!
Honestly I'd rather they got psychological treatment for their mental condition.
Failing that I feel they should be in the bathroom of their current outwards-physical sex.
That is to say that pre-op they're still their birth sex and after, even if never an actual man or woman, they should be in the one where their body now makes the most sense outwards.
What mental condition? The only mental condition related to being transgender is the dysphoria associated with having the "wrong" body, which not all trans people even experience. And even then, the current accepted treatment is hormone replacement therapy and gender reassignment surgery.
@cipher42 It is a common fact that near all transgender people suffer from a personality crisis and disorder. The vast majority of them have furthermore been the victims of extensive bullying.
They might truly feel as if they want to be the other gender, but that does not change it. I have a friend who truly believes that he is a husky. And he really wishes it was true.
He is still human.
Firstly, cite your sources. If said personality crisis/disorder invalidates their identity, why are most major psychological associated not of that opinion?
Secondly, you seem to fundamentally misunderstand what gender even means. Gender is not a biological fact, it is a social construct. Sex and gender are not the same thing, and if you don't even understand that then you clearly can't on this subject with any authority whatsoever.
@cipher42 I understand perfectly well that sex and gender have different meanings to you and nitpicking about terminology I used correctly does not in any way validate your opinion. So you can take your patronizing domineering techniques somewhere else - Especially if you do not plan to use them correctly.
As for sources, feel free to research it yourself. Ask any teenage psychologist or anyone specialized in the field. Convincing you is very low on my to-do list.
If you understand the difference, why do you make the husky comparison? Species is a biological construct, gender is a social one. Obviously the two can't be compared in the way you're trying to compare them.
Yeah, I have researched it. You need to cite your sources. If it's so easy to find information on, surely you can't be lazy enough to refuse to provide said info. Making some lame excuse about why you are not responsible for backing up your own arguments just makes your position look all the less legitimate.
I'm pretty sure it's not even illegal for you to use the opposite sex bathroom.
I don't care either way who is using the bathroom I use. As long as that person is being respectful like everyone else and isn't peeking or being disgusting, then who the fuck cares.
There is too much fucking ignorance in this post. I don't understand how the majority commenting on here are people who think being trans is a choice or a mental disorder. It's ridiculous. You people are adults. Fucking educate yourselves!
Being transgender is NOT a choice.
Your genitals do NOT decide your gender.
Gender is a social construct.
In the ancient times they didn't even consider male and female to be different sexes. Granted it was because they didn't know anything about anatomy. However, there ideas about gender were so different. The thought of a binary system didn't even cross their minds. You were either feminine or masculine or somewhere in the spectrum of gender. The binary system didn't come along until much, much later.