You should know that before you even read this MyTake of mine, that there is going to be a lot of rambling within it. But you need to keep in mind that It'll be focusing on the "WHOLE PICTURE", not what's just right in front of us. Which would include the next couple of guys/girls that __ will probably be "approaching" shortly after us. Well, it's about time to get this show on the road.
I've never turned down anyone that has had enough courage to "approach" me. Since not only did I give __ a "CONFIDENCE BOOST" MY "FELLOW MEN" would also have a shot at her now. Since she'd think "HEY I GOT ___ NUMBER, so why can't I get ____ also?". Like the say #TeamWorkMakeTheDreamWork right?
So rather I found her to be "CUTE" or even "UNATTRACTIVE". None of that would even matter at that point in time since I'd thinking about the next man/woman "UNLIKE MOST" people these days. it also gives us all a chance at finding that so-called special someone, right? because everybody would be actively searching OR getting a chance at it.
For that to happen everybody must feel comfortable with/around each other. Which could happen quite easily IMHO If people chose to "THINK" about the next person's feelings for a moment/quit being selfish.
Ya know, before "REJECTING" them as usual on top bringing their self-esteem down to an all time low. Once that happens __ usually falls into a pit of despair thinking "Will I be alone forever?" all because of what a couple of people have done to them (rejection wise)
That girl/boy might have been a rated 4+ in your eyes, but she could have been someone else's legit rated 8+. See that's the thing though, those 2 will probably never be together now since ___ chose to quit searching after being shot down so much which is kind of sad.
I guess what I'm trying to say is this "while it might not mean anything to you personally, it can mean the world to them". I've seen it happen 1st hand when I gave this girl my number in the 8th grade.
That girl blushed so hard, started hopping up and down and even told the whole gym in the morning assembly (No BS). Now I'm not going to lie the girl wasn't that great looking. But hey "in the end I did a good deed/IT FELT GREAT" simply by seeing the effect that I could had someone (#^ ^#). With next to little sweat off my back, so hey why not help brighten someone's day up?
Keep in mind that there was NOTHING in the rulebook saying that I had to date her (I didn't). Heck, I didn't even have to give her my number, tbh I only DID IT to make her happy. On top of making her "THINK" that she scored me for the long haul.
When I knew that I was only going to talk to her for about 4 phone calls and leave it at that. NOW BEFORE YOU SAY "Mist you're JERK" how?
I mean hey, at least that girl is going to wonder "what did I do wrong". INSTEAD of not getting any PLAY AT ALL to begin with from the person that she approached, right? which would be worse "no play" OR "play that lead nowhere?" LOL