Are Indian Men the least desired on Earth?

[Anonymous]

Are Indian Men the least desired on Earth?

I mean most girls refuse to look at them twice and indian girls strongly go after white and even black men and other non indians, but how true is all this?

[anongirl821]

I live in a place where the South Asian population is at 49% and I do not find any men of that race attractive. They were always either rude, perverted or , judgmental with their standards that were so high that they could reach the ceiling. The excess body hair that is determined by genetics also, is not attractive to me. I'm not trying to be racist, I am just sharing my own opinion.

[BradyLames]

lol you're not that racist girl from Brampton are you?

lol,,, you should die

Hairy men who act like real men are not to be hated... Why dont you date one of these girly white boys who will turn into shemales when theyre older lol

[RationalLioness]

I would have thought Asian men were if I were to generalize. I don't know though. I wouldn't care either.

You just be the best you you can be and don't care about what the majority wants. In the end, it doesn't matter because there are many women out there who love Indian men.

[Asker]

r u one of them?

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Hrithik Roshan

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Nuff said

[MyUsernameRules]

He doesn't even look like the average Indian guy. Looks more Caucasian or Middle Eastern than your average South Asian.

[MyUsernameRules]

Which kinda proves that an Indian guy has to be light skinned light your average Caucasian or Middle Eastern guy to be considered attractive by girls. And this is very true.

[Print]

He could be dark skinned he just has to be masculine but that's just my type :)

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@MyUsernameRules

[Superstardom]

Are you fucking retarded? Hrithik Roshan is one in a billion. He looks Caucasian, brown hair, hazel eyes and looks like brad pitt. You can’t compare him to any average indian human being. I remember i showed one of my italian friends who is in his early 50s, named Joe, he used to come a coffe place in Queens, NY. I showed him the picture of hrithik, i told him look at this European actor, he said he looks like Brad pitt. Then I laughed and said he is an indian actor, he says no way. This just goes to show you that you indian men can’t give hrithik is an example, he is one in a billion and looks Caucasian.

Your average indian looks like that currycel Aziz Ansari.

[JudeJericho]

i know a lot of guys who do well with all types of girls, the guys r indian and the girls range from white, latina, black and by the way almost all indian guys get indian girls lol i mean even the worst looking ones end up with good looking girls so I don't know why ur complaining

[MyUsernameRules]

It's very true. Girls don't find Indian guys attractive at all. For an Indian guy, he has to be either really light skinned, tall around 6 foot, rich, or completely muscular for him to have a chance dating out. Girls just aren't attracted to our features and skin tone.

[bubbletrouble]

That's not the case where I live. First of all most Indian girls prefer to date Indian guys and 2, I have seen some darker ones date out. I think it boils down to reputation. The americanized ones have it easier than ones that aren't.

[MyUsernameRules]

I've never lived in an area where there were many Indian girls but I do know in areas where are a lot of Indians, the girls will stick to Indian guys. But that's only the girls who choose to date and the ones who do choose to date usually date only the ones who are rich that drive fancy cars like BMW, Mercedes, etc, tall, or really light skinned. If they can't find an Indian guy like that then they don't date and wait for an arranged marriage to a guy who is very likely to be rich like what their parents dream of their daughters. I'm Americanized without any stereotypical Indian traits and I know many other Indian guys like that yet their chances with girls are very low because they don't fit in any of those categories which are required for Indian guys to attract girls. There were few Indian girls in my High School and they either dated white guys or didn't date at all. And other South Asian girls like Paki girls only dated South Asian guys who were rich.

[MyUsernameRules]

@bubbletrouble

[bubbletrouble]

Hmmmm that's strange. All the Indian girls where I live all strongly preferred Indian guys but I do know what you mean by those Indian girls dating patterns. Light skinned Indian, tall and rich. They are trying to get to a white guy as close as possible. I see it with black girls dating lighter skinned black guys. Those ones are less thuggish and look white in the face quite frankly. But anyways have you tried visiting another city?

[MyUsernameRules]

I've lived in New York, Illinois, and now Michigan and that is what I've noticed in them. Indian girls are probably the pickiest girls out there and to girls in general, a guy's skin color means a lot to them.

[Asker]

don't think skin color is such a big factor, in the Caribbean here in Trinidad, a lot of black guys are getting indian girls, and it's so much so for years that the indian population have dropped 10 % and the African population also while the mixed increased to 20 % it's just that indian guys generally be it with black or white guys are struggling globally the only two countries i've known indian guys to do well in are parts of NY (my cousin married a white) and Ireland and Sweden

[MyUsernameRules]

Black guys do well everywhere. That's the thing though. I bet Indian guys can't get a black girl in the Caribbeans while the Indian girls are going for black guys. Girls tend to not be attracted to brown or dark skinned Indian guys. Girls find our features to be completely attractive and our skin color has a lot to do with it. Lighter the better for them and the reason why black guys tend to be successful is because of the whole big dick stereotype. Nothing against them though but everyone knows that's true.

[YourFutureEx]

I am kinda light skinned, is there any hope for me? O_O

[MyUsernameRules]

@YourFutureEx You're in India so you're fine. Even then, Indian girls in India also either date guys who are really light, tall, rich, muscular, etc or don't date usually from what I noticed being in India. There are a whole bunch of single guys there while almost every girl is either taken or aren't dating but looking forward to arranged marriage instead.

[YourFutureEx]

Honestly, you're right. But the demand for light skin is more from guys as compared to girls. Other than that, I agree.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Indian men do have a certain way of acting that can be a strong turn off, I'll be completely honest.

As racist as it may sound, some of the strangest and most unsettling people on the internet that I've encountered have been Indian (I'm talking about non-westernised Indians, as plenty of Westernised Indians I know are fine). I honestly think it's just a cultural thing as opposed to them just being different, obviously to an Englishman like me they're gonna seem different.

[DanteSparda]

Why do you want to throw mud at each and every Indian men?
I'm an Indian , a doctor too.
Currently focus on my post graduation and I had my fair share in dating.
The problem is not with your ethnicity, problem is with how do you approach a woman.

[DanteSparda]

*focusing

[dartmaul15]

good point there. The problem is just that if a lot of people from a group approach women in one way, then people will start to asume that everyone in that group aproach women like that.
It's stereotyping, but statistically it's real.

THAT is the core of the problem. The fact that many indian men are crepy as hell, and downright perverts. to quote my teacher; "i couldn't even walk outside with my husband, without them oogling or trying to grab me in some way". She dressed like what a westener would consider fancy.

So yeah... not everyone's like that, but sadly you've developed a rep for it... And the policy in india regarding women isn't exactly helping...

[DanteSparda]

@dartmaul15 - "but sadly YOU'VE developed a rep for it... " that's stereotyping as well.

[dartmaul15]

@DanteSparda firstly, i reffered to indians as a whole. So yes, it is stereotyping, but that's a moot point because we od it about EVERYONE! Good luck finding a group that's not stereotyped in some way, both positive and negative.

And maybe we should listen more to the stereotypes instead of saying "not me" (like you're doing now)? because after all the stereotypes show how OHERS see you. It may not be acurate, but it's still how you're seen.
And indians are seen as perverts and creepy.

You can nitpick details all you want, but that does not change how the world sees you. Because we look at India, and sees a country where women are treated as objects, and where it seems like men can do anything they want to a woman, and we see your laws evidently supporting that belief. would YOU trust a guy from a country with that rep? Would you, if you were a woman, willingly walk into the arms of a man coming from a country treating women like that?

They're suspicious with a reason, i'd say

[YourFutureEx]

@dartmaul15 - What kind of approaching are you talking about? Plus, there is an another group, a group of girls which are (being) approached by (so-called pervert) Indian guys
What if they approach the group of Norwegian, American or British etc. ladies? The outcome might be different because of cultural and traditional difference. They might like the way they approached them and won't call them pervs or creeps
THAT is not the fact why some ("many" for you) of the Indian men are creepy as hell. Actually, the children here are taught to stay away from the opposite sex. They can't even become friends easily and if they do, they'll be surrounded by the speculations of the family and society. And "successful" (which turns into marriage) dating is non-existent here, thanks to arranged marriage culture. Only 10% of the marriages aren't arranged
So, men turn to internet (h-wood movies, porn, live chat rooms and sites like GAG) to consolidate their sexual desires and drive.) -continued

[YourFutureEx]

then they find it out that how easy it is in YOUR culture to get a girl (which is obviously not true) because it is SHOWN in your media and movies. Same goes for our media too. In America, there are three times more rape anually as compared to India but they aren't highlighted like India. Furthermore, you can blame the population too.
Of course, Indians stare at foreigners like creeps but here ARE laws which prohibit eye-teasing (you cannot stare at a girl for more than 30 second without her consent). Such new laws ameliorated the condition of the women in India. You can check the statistics, homework for you, friend!

[dartmaul15]

@yourutureex not saying how it is, i'm saying how the west THINK it is. And sadly that's the ONLY thing that matter, and the ONLY thing the western world judge by.
NOBODY will bother to look up a country's social norms to find out if he was legit creepy, or if it's just how society is there. NOBODY.
So there you have a cultural clash, that to the wst comes off as creepy.

As for the rules I mentioned; martial rape (to take one example) is not a criminal ofence in India. And as you said, arranged marriage. I don't know about you, but i'd not tolerate living under that rule as a woman. Indeed it seems more and more Indian women are fed up with that bullshit too XD

So as much as you want to explain it, there IS this problem of Indian cuture clashing with the western culture (especially when it comes to how women are treated, and how you court), and that comes off as crepy to the west. You just have to deal with it, because women are NOT going to give up their freedom for a guy

[YourFutureEx]

@dartmaul15 - Okay so even you believe that IT IS NOT the thing here but you guys just THINK that IT IS here and that's what it matters. Huh? Why does it even matter what you think or not lol. We (Indians) don't care what do you (westerners) think haha.

And yes I agree that marital rape is allowed but a girl can oppose this with her will and if he got violent, he'd be sued under domestic violence which is taken extremely seriously. There are even special helpline number for women regarding this.

[dartmaul15]

@YourFutureEx "there are even special helplines for this" We have that too, you know XD

yes, it's how we think it is that matters. Because it's what part of India that's shown to the world we see, it's the part that's comminucated we see. And what we see is what we judge.
That is why first impression is important, and why how others see you is so important. It doesn't matter for shit how you really are if you dress creepy. Everyone will see you as a creep, and nobody will bother to get to really know yo.
THAT is why the labels you're put under matter.

You don't care, and we don't care. And that's why the west doesn't give a flying fuck about western men. Because indian men have an all too frequent tendency to not give a flying fuck about western women. They refuse to adapt.
And that's a situation western women refuse, they refuse to be de only one compromicing. Hence why indian men will not have a chance with western women, not even for quick fucks.

[YourFutureEx]

@dartmaul15 "We have that too, you know XD" so it makes us same 😇

You are talking about our impressions, but western culture has bad impressions too (like having sex with anyone on the streets and changing boyfriends etc)
So it is balanced on both sides.

Plus, we have a lot of blondies married here 😋

[dartmaul15]

@YourFutureEx yeah that's true.

We are seen as easy to other people (like you guys), but that's no excuse to expect any girl to fuck you, is it XD

Anyway, yeah... I beleive we've more or less sorted out why westerners doesn't want indians; clashing cultures

[YourFutureEx]

@dartmaul15 I can agree on culture thing but I'm not getting your sense with the usage of words like "any"

[whiteflowers]

Yeah I think girls always go for whites more than Indians and Asians for some reason.

[Asker]

u mean girls in general, who do they go for in order whites, latinos, black, asian? like all girls generally an who would a south Asian guy have a best chance of getting with, other than other south Asian girls becuase that's normal of them sicne they marry out the least

[whiteflowers]

Not in general but you can say the most go for whites even if they know that the will reject her she will continue going to white guys instead of trying to go for another guy from any other race. @Asker

[whiteflowers]

The guy *

[Anonymous]

Not where I'm from, they get get as many girls as black and white guys do. I swear my Indian mates had more girls than me!

I think it depends where you are...

[Anonymous]

I think the issue I have with Indian men is their poor social skills. Most of the guys who send me creepy/perverted messages are guys from India. This tends to make women not want to talk to them.

[bubbletrouble]

In terms of reputation maybe. I personally don't think they are at the bottom.

[MyUsernameRules]

Lol we are at the bottom. Hands down.

[MyUsernameRules]

Not the light skinned Indians and South Asians though but the brown and dark skinned Indian guys for sure are at the bottom.

[Anonymous]

I've heard among men, Asians have the hardest time on dating sites so I would assume it's Asians.

[Anonymous]

Generally, yes. I've met dozens upon dozens of Indian men, not one appealed to me.

[ixi10]

No. Not for me. There are les desirable men

[throwit]

I think they can be extremely good looking

[Katieharrison]

I think some of them are attractive

[miserybusiness]

Yeah, probably.

[LovesTVDx]

Pfttt not at all lol

[Asker]

would u date one?

[LovesTVDx]

Yeah aslong as he met my dating criteria; respectful, feminist, nice, funny