Do you think your crush is out of your league?

[Anonymous]

be honest. do you think you can honestly get that guy or girl you've had your eyes on for the past 2 weeks? are they out of your league?

yes. i have zero chance.

yeah i have very little chance.

yes but i probably have a chance.

no they're in my league.

nope i can get them easy.

[Anonymous]

The guy I'm really interested in is a grade below me and not very popular at all, he's super shy and I've never seen him really express much emotion even around his friends but I think that's what has attracted me to him so much. He seems like the strong silent type who doesn't like being the center of attention and from the very little I've seen of him he is the type of low key guy I really like. Never seen him even talking with a girl before except for one who's a family friends so I know for a fact I don't have much competition, but this all makes it super hard for me to approach him. I know he probably won't approach me because although I believe he's noticed me before I can tell he's extremely shy, and I feel so apprehensive about approaching him because I'm a bit shy too. We have nothing except a club in common and have no similar friends because he's not very popular and I'm more in with the popular group so I don't have much to approach him over. I have no idea how to approach someone because I always just let people approach me. I know if I actually worked up the nerve and approached him he would be interested in me but it's really hard.

[RachelBrigs]

Hmm.. the guy I most recently liked (like? ) is definitely out of my league in terms of attractiveness. At least in my opinion. Jesus H Christ he's gorgeous.

As far as chances go- I guess I had a good one, we had a "fling" over the summer, apparently he liked me but now he doesn't. I guess. I honestly have no idea. Its a long stupid story.

[jessicorn]

i think its a bit stupid to say that someone is out of someone's league... & if a guy reject a girl or a girl rejects a guy for that reason... i'd just say they need to grow up.

[M_A_X]

I don't think you know what people mean when they say "out of my league"

[jessicorn]

@M_A_X ofc i know as i've heard I don't know how many guys say that to me or my friends. or my friends said that about other guys

[M_A_X]

Okay, well you know Brad PItt? He's out of your league lol

[jessicorn]

@M_A_X he's only out of my league cause he's married lmao

[M_A_X]

No, he's out of your league because you could never do anything to be with him.

[Asker]

he is out of your league honey. don't be in denial.

[jessicorn]

lmao no

[LorcaNovena]

I don't believe in league systems.

This is the fallacy of people with low self esteems who put women and men on pedestals. No woman is out of my league, no matter who she is or where she is. She may not be interested in me, she may not be attracted to me, that's fine, but she is no superior to me and I am not inferior to her, we are equals.

When you grasp this concept is when you can approach any woman and declare your interest with problems.

[Anonymous]

https://youtu.be/bbDUj_PMdUk

This song comes to mind. I HAD a chance I believe but she absolutely hates me now.

So 0 chance here. Crying and typing 😭!

[Asker]

why does she hate you?

[Opinion Owner]

Grand gesture of feelings for her! Just stopped talking to me.

So it's not a definite... well, eh I'm pretty sure she Hates me. Silence says it all.

[WolfsHowl]

I'm not really interested in the chase right now but women whom I believe I had no business even looking at give me the glances.

I saw a hot blonde from work try to eyeball my name badge as I asked her what she was looking for.

A tall Taylor Swift look alike looks toward me as she works out in the gym with lipstick on her lips.

Truth be told, right now I'm pretty content with my porn, haha.

[timmy111]

Love that last line, in tears

[vishna]

I know everyone is going to think this is a lame answer. But my crush is my boyfriend, and he thinks I'm perfect and I think he's perfect.

[Anonymous]

What crush?

Well, when I had one, I don't think he was out of my league or whatever. I asked him if he wanted to hang out, he had a girlfriend. No problem, I agreed to date this other guy. Then the crush guy 3 months later asks me out after he broke up with his girlfriend.

[NonCreativeUsername]

To other guys, I think of myself as higher on the scale than them (Probably not to girls, I'm the "rocker" type guy with longish curly hair etc.) but when I see a girl I like my confidence droops to an all time low.

[Anonymous]

my frist crush was. but it was whatever she was a really good friend anyways. but when i say she's gorgeous, that was an understatement. she was like a cross between jessica alba and i think maybe emma watson.

the 2nd one is also a really good friend. not nearly as pretty, but hey, whatever.

[quietleah]

yeah,
we are both freshmen
I am quiet and shy and kinda uncomfortable around boys.

He is comfortable with eveyone and is confident (not arrogant) and is really popular.

[DarkHumorRUs]

I mean... SOME guys get the girl out of their league. And I bet almost every guy would honestly believe their girlfriend is better looking than them.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

We're friends with benefits... but being his girlfriend is impossible.

[Asker]

why?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

He's a player, I like freedom... we can't be in a serious relationships.
Besides, we don't live in the same city

[Asker]

At 16?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

yeah

[Asker]

Like you guys have sex with no strings attached?

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Nah, we only make out eveytime we see each other.. Handjob, fingering lol
That's it

[teawrecks]

I don't have a crush anymore, BUT, my most recent former crush? Nah, I wouldn't say he was out of my league.

[Kirah]

There's no such thing as "leagues", and anyone who thinks so isn't boyfriend/girlfriend material anyway.

[MissNowhere]

He was out of my league but I still got him... it's called BLACK MAGIC YO

[Alexious]

I don't have one, but that has always been the case. Yes. Otherwise at least one of them would have said yes.

[sjoes006]

I always feel like my boyfriend is out of my league.

[BraidsGirl]

Out of my league, I don't think so, if I'm his type is a different question,

[K1ll3r98]

she deserves better than me but i still think i would have a chance if i tried

[Kay211]

Don't have one right now, but I do always think that when I have one.

[PizzaGuy22]

yea that's why I have lowered my expectations of it going anywhere other than just some girl in my class

[ConsultantIsBack]

Unless she is famous, she is in my league 😎😎 that's how I live my life!!

[Anonymous]

She's in a relationship now, but something between B and C when she wasn't. We have quite a lot in common when it comes to personality, interests and opinions, but obviously not everything, and besides that I don't think she finds me attractive.

[convo_king89]

yea usually isn't that how its works... u have a crush on him/her cuz he/she is way above ur level.