What race do you prefer to date?

[LexiNinja]

Now lets keep it real, everyone has their own preferences, whether it has to do with looks, status, personality, etc. Whatever the case may be. Maybe you're open-minded and you don't care, but I know some men and women prefer a certain race..at least me knowing first hand, one of my friends I know, only likes white guys. Coming from her, I guess she only finds them to be attractive, which is odd to me, because she'll make comments saying she'll find a black guy attractive, but wouldn't date them. One instance she told me that she didn't want to date a black guy because she doesn't want her "future" child to have a rough life and go through what her dad went through. Her dad is actually in jail because because of a scenario that had to do with him and a white guy. Which I think is ignorant to base everything of what happened to your dad, on a whole new relationship with a guy a certain race, but that's whole other story. Anywho, I don't have a preference, I'll date anyone regarding race, obviously I'd have to find him attractive. But as far as race is concerned, It's not important. What do you prefer?

[rmdkj]

I honestly don't have a preference. I have been attracted to girls of all races. If I get with a girl outside my own race, it's due to that we share a lot of things in common and can relate, and nothing to do with the color of their skin or any racial stereotypes. I used to tell my friends I wasn't really attracted to Hispanic girls. Later that week, a girlfriend of mine introduced me to one. One month later, we got together and we both had strong feelings for each other.

So, in conclusion, color of skin doesn't mean anything to me. As long as we can relate and have many things in common, then you are already at the top of my list.

[Prof_Don]

I frankly don't have a preference. If she has a face that is "kissable", isn't bigger than me size-wise, and get along and have fun together, that's 2/3 of my requirements.

The other 1/3 of my "requirements" are what I call "intangibles". The vibes and emotions with the person, as well as "connection".

Race doesn't apply...ive been interested in and been involved with various races of female. :)

P.S. and yes, as a black male, I have received some flack from females in my race for my preference, or should I say...lack of preference.

[LexiNinja]

"Lack of preference" Aha at least you're not picky, like most people c:

[vishna]

When it comes to dating I have absolutely no preference at all. I could date an Asian guy and be happy or a black guy or a white guy and everything in between and it just doesn't matter.

I want to find someone to love me and love them back ethnicity doesn't matter.

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=BhtgINeaJWg&list=UU6nSFpj9HTCZ5t-N3Rm3-HA&index=7&feature=plcp

In the end..I see it all as pointless anyways...after learning about the base woman 'eve' and the base common ancestor from most likely Taiwan..I see them all as relatives O__o

[Siri137]

What's the name of that book by Bill Bryson? It had no title.

[Anonymous]

from my previous experience, if just "date" date, then all races, but if it is for serious relationship, then Asian guys.not being racist, but just feel closer to my own race for the values and mindset.PS: maybe it is because I was born and stay in asia for more than 20 yrs, so feel more comfortable with asians. when dating black or white, just feel it is a bit hard to build a strong emotional connection, I mean STRONG...but I should say dating Asians is relatively cozy and sweet, dating whites and blacks are more fun and playful.

[kdizzleforizzle91]

I'm not the slightest bit racist and have had close friends of many different races/ethnic backgrounds, but as far as men I usually find attractive romantically or sexually, I prefer guys who are either white or tan (this could include Mexican, South American, Asian, etc.).

[sammisay]

Why do people always start off with the " I'm not racist, I have __ friends " lol it generally follows with a subliminal discriminatory remark/phrase etc. lol Btw- I don't mean you, just when you said that it got me thinking about it.

[LexiNinja]

Aha right, I was actually thinking the same thing. ^-^ I mean, to each their own, but I guess they don't want to offend anyone..

[taster]

cannot have a preference and still not be rascist? If someone prefers blacks does not mean they are rascist towards Asians?

[kdizzleforizzle91]

You're right, but there are some people who confuse simple preferences for being racist or thinking certain races are superior. I just wanted to clear it up.

[Anonymous]

I am indian female and i prefer attractive and super liberal south Asian guy when it comes to dating but that only because of similar culture other than that i have no preference i am open to non south Asian guy of any race if he is egalitarian and not racist against indian

[razelove]

Asian or white. 1st or 2nd generation Asian is the preference by far.

If you'd have asked me at 20 or so I wouldn't have had any, more so I was just getting with whoever would have me. The preference started kicking in after experiences with every other race specifically in dating, ONS and NSA.

Except Native Americans, I've never been with an indigenous race, so that is a blank.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am Caucasian and most of the women I have dated duting my lifetime have also been Caucasian, but I have dated Asian, Hispanic, and Amercan Indian women.

[William4447]

how r you with indian women i thought that they are separated from whites

[OlderAndWiser]

@William4447 Not all American Indians live on a reservation.

[RingOfFire]

I've dated women of pretty much every race and probably half the nationalities in the world. I never got married, so I guess you could say I didn't prefer any of them. 😂

But what I wanted to address is the assumed notion that if someone doesn't like dating people of certain races that makes them a racist. There are some people, particularly people of a certain political persuasion, who want you to believe that. The entire world is about race to them. Race, race, race, race, race. And if you dare criticize someone of a certain race, no matter how valid your criticism is, you are shouted down as a racist.

This kind of ideology is ruining our country.

Attraction knows no race. You are either attracted to certain characteristics or you are not. The subliminal message that you are a racist just because you don't find a certain skin color, or certain common features or even culture of people of a certain race attractive is ruining our society. Let people like what they like and not like what they don't like for whatever reason they choose without harassing them. That is what liberty is all about.

[William4447]

well that not true u can like a hair type or u can like this person cuz of this personality trait or identity

its not racist to not like a race but
i like black girls and i think the skintones are pretty and thats not wrong that is what everybdoy does whethey they admit or not

[RingOfFire]

You have a right to like what you like and other people have a right not to like it. That is what freedom is all about.

[William4447]

dats what im saying but u still have to respect people like i dont particularly find Asians attractive but i would never call them ugly.

[RingOfFire]

Of course. You have a right to your feelings and thoughts. But you don't have a right to proactively disrespect people or cause the harm.

Personally I find many Asian women very attractive.

[taster]

I would not rule any race or ethnicity out. Living on the central northern plains I have not been around a lot of other races/cultures and such. Very few blacks, for instance, in the greater Dakotas..I would probably be more comfortable with my own type of background (which is white...3/4 mixed UK and 1/4 German) But, like most guys, the initial attraction is looks and there are pretty blacks ( I saw one online tonight that could have her way with me!), Asians, Hispanics..so nothing would be off the table...(:(:(:

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have dated and was in a relationship with absolutely the best representative of Asians, who for me was the most attractive man in the world, I turned down all other guys because of him, white or black, when we got into dating each other.

I dated blond blue eyed German, Swedish and American. They were all very attractive and beautiful.

I got asked out by 2 gorgeous black guys in the past couple months but I wasn’t ready to date.

I mean, I have met the best of all races and all are nice in their own ways. I wouldn’t like to limit myself on who I might date in future.

I did feel flattered and happy that all of them found something attractive in me.

I think all races can be very attractive, it’s impossible to say one is better than another. It’s just who you get along with the best.

[kholland65]

White and white only since that is what I am. Not because I'm racist, I'm just not attracted to other races all that much. Plus I don't think I would marry someone of a different race so to me, dating someone of another race would seem pointless.

[TheDigitalSaint]

I don't have a strong preference. I've dated lots of flavors of girls.

[Prof_Don]

i like the way he worded this 8-)

[TheDigitalSaint]

Vanilla, chocolate, vanilla/chocolate, pecan, etc. As long as the ice cream is good, the ice cream is good.

[sugarDIVINE]

the way you wrote that was sexy HOT

[TheDigitalSaint]

You know it.

[LexiNinja]

Aha nice to know you like icecream ^.^

[armyguy176]

Latinas or white girls. I would date anyone else. there are a few girls of other races who I've seen and found attractive, but very few and far between. I also know a black girl who only dates white guys.

[rfanm]

White or asian, but I've liked people of other races so it doesn't really mean much to me. As long as I can relate to them in some way culturally, it's not a big deal.

[MartinMarsh]

I find gorgeous women in all races, but if I had to rank my favs it'd be:

Asian

White/Latina

Black

Yellow Fever all day.

[kambo_trick3y]

This mans on the right track.

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[MartinMarsh]

I salute you, good sir

[nubianstar]

wow what a typical black ass hole. black girls are last on your list really? black men like you are the reason the black family is failing

[MartinMarsh]

The first thing I literally said was that "I find gorgeous women in ALL RACES."

That list basically shows which race I tend to find more attractive women in; and not just based on looks either.

"The Black Family?"

Please, spare me. Mixed is where its at and where we're all heading.

[LexiNinja]

Your statement is a total contradiction. I'm not trying to argue but you say you find women from other races to be 'goregous' but now you're saying "Mixed is where it's at and where we're all heading". o.o If anything, I didn't think because a girl is 'mixed, that made her more 'better or qualifiable as a candidate to date. But hey, this is YOUR preference.

[MartinMarsh]

I said I can find attractive girls in all races, but we have to be real here. The majority of the population (in the US at least) will be mixed not too long from now. I also like mixed cause its like having best of both worlds.

That's just my preference

[Nova28]

I don't know why people attack others over preference. The man said he likes Asians first but he is basically saying.. HOT IS HOT.. simple. As for the mixed race comment that's because the man is smart. Lets face the traditional family no longer exists. The age of the Hybrids is here haha

Preference

Asian

Latin

and then all others but HOT is HOT

[nubianstar]

"martin Marsh" you are so a contradiction. I don't understand black guys like you that put other races over yours. black guys judge black womens looks like they didn't have anything to do with it. how can you dislike something that you help create

[MartinMarsh]

We agree to disagree. Lets just leave it at that.

[nubianstar]

i bet you are one of those token black guys who only hangs around white people and date non black girls and bash black girls in front of your white friends.

[MartinMarsh]

Whatever helps you sleep at night, sweetheart.

; ]

[Konnour]

I'm biased.

I live in a country where 100% of the population is white. So obviously I prefer dating white girls.

But even if I would live in a mixed place I'd still prefer white girls over others.

[Lupianwolf]

Indian(is that a race?) girls because I'm Indian,

It's not that I don't like other races or my parents would mind

it's just that all the girls I have crushed on have been my own race

[Konnour]

It's not a race, it's ethnicity.

[RolandCuthbert]

I am going to be as real with you as I can be.

I just like women.

And I mean all kinds. Shapes, sizes, colors, cultures, etc. That just ain't nothing like a woman. I don't get the whole race thing.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/qNz_t-wE5VQ

[ImperfectDVM]

I love all races, really!

But, I prefer white guys.

[Anonymous]

White and brown skin. I have brown skin and would prefer if her skin color isn't too much darker than mine. Her's could be a couple of tint levels higher than mine though.

[LexiNinja]

Oh wow, didn't know preciseness in 'skin tone' played a role in it either.. ^-^

[Opinion Owner]

Idk how common it's with guys, but one of my male coworkers shares this same idea :)

[WhiteSky]

I'm open to all ethnicities, but I have to say I like guys with tans...

Latinos are my favorite! :)

I'm Asian btw

[Anonymous]

If you link race and culture, then white or asian.

I've once dated a beautiful black but her family and her whole neigborhood didn't approuve of our relationship, as if they were racist toward any white approaching her.

Also, black generally have monstruous asses and arabs tends to gain a lot of fat.

[Stacyzee]

Honestly, I like all races equally and don't have a preference.

Black and Hispanic guys attract me the most.

But, that doesn't mean I don't find any races attractive and wouldn't date them.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

My own race, which is black.I also like Latinos like prs, Panamanians, etc.you gotta have a little black in you, even if its far back like 3 or4 generations

[Anonymous]

Wow, I did not expect White guys to be so popular.

I would not count it as a preference because it is not as if I choose who I date based on race but I almost usually find the guys I'm attracted to are either Black or Hispanic.