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This is a very good question but honestly it all depends. If a guy is coming on strong and his intention is just sex girls can sense/smell that and they may be creeped out, grossed out or just feeling "ehhh creepy" but if the guy is sweet and innocent and the girl can tell that he just wants a relationship she may find it either desperate or she has no opnion.
For instance there was this guy who liked me. I could tell he did. At first I couldn't tell if he was dressing up for me but I let it go out of my head but when he started coming onto me and even tried kissing me I was like "Ahh.. sorry don't like you in that way." I didn't think he was desperate I thought it was sweet but he just wasn't my type or somebody I could see myself with long term lol xD but if a guy is coming off desperate like "Baby I need you" you may think "Hmm maybe I'm not the only one maybe he's so desperate he's just hitting up every girl cause he just wants sex really bad" I don't know girls can assume anything.
Coming on strong it really depends I think on the guys intentions. GIrls can kind of sense intentions more than anything. If a guy has good intentions a girl may not have a problem with it unless she tells him to quit (cause she has a boyfriend or whatever reason) ad she may get annoyed or feeling creeped out it really depends on whose coming on strong, their intentions and the girls interest level.. if a girl is interested in a guy there's no such thing as coming on strong if they're bnoth flirting back and forth in fact she may fall in love with him but if the guy is a creeper or somebody whose after sex or way too old for her or whatever reason in her mind.. she may get creeped out
I had an experience a bit like the first answer.
I gave a guy my number, he invited me to see his shop. I told him I had a flat tire but that I would TRY to come by.
2 minutes later he texts that he really wants me to see his shop, and he sends 5 more texts within a minute. I didn't respond right away because my phone was inside the car and I was in the process trying to reach someone. He then texts me a minute or two later saying "You gave me your word that you were going to come!" and he sent 4, 5 more texts along with that pretty much indicating that I lied to him. Mind you, he knew I had a flat and was stranded in a deserted, dark area at 3 a.m. He sent these 12+ texts within maybe 5 minutes.
I called him and told him that I said I would "try" and that I was still waiting for help. I told him I would call when I was done. 6 or so minutes later he texts asking if I was done
That was it. I could deal with it. We had just met. He came off Inconsiderate, Pushy, Emotionally/Mentally Unstable, and Scary.
Found my number in the phone book under my fathers name, call twice everyday. When no one answers, leaves message of breathing on answering machine. Continue to add me after the friend request has been declined 30 times. No exaggerations, this happened.
In a more likely realm, just not giving me space. You don't need to talk to me 24/7 is we aren't dating. If we are dating, coming on too strong would be like discussing marriage plans and children plans within two months of dating.
going up to a random girl and say you want F@CK!
brb sloot says yes and we smash because I am a aesthetic c@nt
good luck 2 you son
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Well too strong is whenever a girl doesn't like the guy, but he is still hitting on her.
For example behavior from my male friends that I wouldn't date like:
*trying to message me every day on some instant msger
*always liking almost every FB post I make (like a stalker)
*keep trying to invite me to something almost like a date (like just two of us, or some AVEC kinda parties
It's never too soon, but you should take things nice and slow, go talk over some coffee/tea etc. I think every time I went to a movie with some guy I didn't know 90% of the time it was awkward and ended up like basically feeling like I'm just watching a movie by myself and happen to sit next to some guy. I firmly believe in like knowing someone as a friend and then dating kind of thing. I think all the other ways have totally failed for me cos guys I don't know end up being not nice, or weirdos.
In high school I had a guy who would call me and I'd tell him I was doing home work and fifteen minutes later he'd call me and be like "Are you done?" Like I don't know what teachers he had but in my school we got more than fifteen minutes of homework.
Another huge turn off for me is a lot of physical compliments early on. Like I've been told I have nice eyes and guys will often be like "You know you have beautiful eyes," and that's perfectly fine but I had one guy be like "Your eyes are gorgeous, I'd love to have them looking at me every time I wake up in the morning."
My ex used to text me three times a day asking how my day was - but all of these messages were when I was at work so I couldn't reply anyway. That bugged me.
He said he missed me all the time, if I hadn't seen him for a few days he went on and on about missing me so much. Every time I went out to training or something it'd be "you can come over after", "stop and say hi for five minutes on your way past."
I couldn't have two minutes to myself without him wanting to talk or know what I was doing. If I said I wanted time to myself he assumed he'd done something wrong, sulked for a bit, then tried to make it up to me.
You see why we broke up...!
Most of these examples are good. A guy trying to make plans that are out of context of how long you've been dating is another. Like, on your second date, he starts trying to plan a weekend trip with you that is two months in the future. Implying or coercing committment that she isn't invested in freaks out most girls -- the same way that it freaks out guys.
I don't think it's ever too soon to ask a girl out -- but to make the date in context of the interaction between you. Short, cheap and informal.
One time when I was 15, I dated this guy. And he would call 10-13 times if I didn't pick up the phone if I was at a movie theater or at my friend's place. And he proposed to me with his dead mother's ring. And then threatened to kill us both if I broke up with him.
That's coming on too strong, I think.
Also, don't force her to do any sexual things she's not ready for. Don't talk about marriage and children right away.
A guy that comes to me without even asking my name and wants to hang out with me then insults me if I say no. This is what I call " coming on too strong" and being an a**hole, but there is also when a guy always do sexual jokes or when they keep texting or calling incessantly.
One time I was at work a random guy walked in the store
Straight to me, he sounded so desperate asking for my
Number I kept on saying NO NO No he wouldn't give up
And kept on asking... The worse part is that he didn't
Seem shy at all either! Yukk
That's definitely coming tooooo strong for me...
A guy decided on our first date to start trying to kiss me and he was all over me in his car. This was after we had class together about 4 or more months early. Then he basically told me he wanted to sleep with me. That is a guy coming on strong and being sleazy as well.
I have had guys tell me that they have really strong feelings for me and whatnot after only knowing me for less than a week. I mean, I guess they were just being honest and it is a little flattering, but I felt that was a little much after knowing so little about me.
I have had friends complain about guys who text them too much. That one has never really bothered me though. Id rather a guy that text me a little too much than a guy who didn't text at all.
I met someone, a long time ago, gave him my number (now learned my lesson, don't do that anymore) and he texted me 10 times in a night. Even when I stopped answering, he kept on texting like 3-4 times without me replying.
Inviting a girl some place that you know but don't define whether or not it's a date and then wondering if she would also be up for hanging out some other time, too, the majority of your conversation has been online.
Well I once dated this guy who would call me at weird hours of the night and talk about himself... and when I would give him a hug he wouldn't let go and would rub himself on me. It weirded me out.
A Guy that just won't stop calling or texting when you have told him you were busy!
Calling and texting me obsessively, getting angry when I didn't reply or answer immediately, making sexual jokes constantly, offering to help me do everything. All very annoying.
sending a million texts without waiting for me to respond
Pee on her to mark your territory.
When you tell him no and he won't quit.
If you're not hot and rich, its "hello."
getting closer to her and putting his pants down
way too many examples unfortuneately
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