Do you think it's possible for a guy to be Nice, Muscular, AND intelligent?

[Anonymous]

And by intelligent, I don't just mean like common sense. I mean someone who can hold a very deep intelligent conversation with you about philosophy, religion, politics, science, etc and is ambitious, while being a nice guy who is also good looking and muscular. I'm a sweet guy who is very intelligent, ambitious, and slightly muscular but I don't know if I'm good looking in terms of face. I guess you can say a guy like Tony Stark (minus the billionaire status).

[Anonymous]

Um...you have just described my boyfriend...so yes.

My boyfriend is extremely attractive (to me) and is a swimmer, so he has the muscles :)

Also, he's the biggest sweetheart I have ever met. He treats me like a princess and goes out of his way to make me smile and is genuinely kind to everyone...unless they really don't deserve it, of course.

And, he's intelligent. He and I have very in depth, intellectual conversations about very serious topics sometimes. He can state and defend his opinion very smoothly. He is objective and is currently debating attending one of the Ivy league schools for law. He has excluded Princeton thus far, but the rest are fair game.

I would say he has the three qualities you described and yes, he does exist :)

[Sbsbdicjf]

Why would someone downvote this?

:/

[Opinion Owner]

@Sbsbdicjf 'cause they probably think I'm making it up just to win this question lol

[Sbsbdicjf]

Hmmmm

that's weird.

[harveykinkle]

don't understand why we live in a world where we can't be everything.

If we're ugly we're considered smart and nice.

If we're attractive we're considered stupid and dumb.

Yes, you CAN be all threee!

[soooch]

Well if you say who you say you are, then I'm sure that guys like you exist! (But they are rare, so while they excel in these areas, they may not in others! :) But yes, yes they do.

[Asker]

well I'm intelligent, sweet and muscular but not great face :(

[Shyguy_1988]

Yes of course. That's like saying there can't be a girl who is gorgeous and intellectual. I know they're out there, I have a crush on one actually... but I like to think of myself as an intellectual as well, always think and can defend my beliefs, love thinking games of any sort, reading and learning. Working out and staying fit is always important to me and my lifestyle. I'm also a nice person, or sweet so I've been told. I am shy and reserved though, so meeting new people doesn't happen often, I'm very independent.

[Alessus]

Well why couldn't they exist? There is no reason they couldn't exist and I know a few guys that are like this. I think it's a question of morals. If you have a morality that makes you try your best at everything you do, then this type of result is usually what you achieve. And of course it depends how you measure these type of traits.

[Daniel121]

I would describe myself as all of those and I don't think i'm wrong, so yes it is. Not to e arrogant but I'd say it was rare, most guys who are cut and muscular are arrogant or have spent too long on their bodies and not long enough sharpening their minds

[TheNewClassic]

Oh yes it is!

But I only met one guy like this and he was in class with me. He was perfection. Everyone loved him and he seriously had no flaws. His personality was amazing, he tried to help others, he didn't look down on other people, he treated everyone equally. He was just amazing!

[KendraJeann]

If you look like Robert Downey Jr, then you're obviously super attractive. And I do believe guys can be smart, really sweet, and good looking..Everyone has their flaws, but I know plenty of guys that are like that. You just need to accept yourself for who you are

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend. He is very nice (both to me and even strangers on the street), he is a martial arts teacher and, even though he doesn't have a college degree, we can have conversations for hours, about politics, religion, the weather, whatever.

So yes, very much possible. Can't see why not.

[Anonymous]

This is from a guy so it may be flawed. But I think you should just be who you are. There is no point in contorting yourself for the pleasure of other people. It might take you awhile to find someone whom you love and who loves you back, but if you maintain your path you'll be far more successful than if you stray from the path. I'm not muscular, but I'm smart and attractive and nice, I guess. Has it worked out yet? No but it might work out in the future. You can't fully detach yourself from the expectations of others, but you can detach yourself ENOUGH to be who you want to be.

[tadpole25]

All three are possible if you work toward them.

Most people don't want to work for them because they'd rather watch TV than go to the gym or read books. And they'd rather blame people than try to relate to them.

[AnonymousGlRL]

You may lack confidence because of your face but remember a good personality can make up for some of the looks. Put your best foot forward, show the girl how cultured and intelligent you are and you should be fine. Fit and muscular body helps too.

[BERRYawesome]

Yes of course but every time I run into someone under all those categories they tend to be cocky pricks. I have yet to meet someone under all three who is loving and friendly.

[DutchAtheist]

Well, I am.

But it might be slightly rare.

Just as finding a girl that is kind, attractive and intelligent, bit harder to find than dumb skanky bitches.

[Anonymous]

Maybe. I think it's rare to have everything. A lot of times with girls, if they're hot they're either really stupid cause the guys give attention regardless. Plus a lot of times if a girl is hot they're stuck up and think they're better than others. Mainly this is due to guys only caring about their looks and nothing else so it takes a lot to break through their barrier. Which I guess I can't blame them.

[Apope16]

Im the same way dude. When I was just skinny I could have deeper conversations with average looking chics. Now that im muscular, hot chocs looks at me but most are airheads.

[Apope16]

*chics

[Anonymous]

Yeah a guy can be everything. My boyfriend is. He was valedictorian at our high school, he's been hitting the gym to, as he says, "get JACKED", and he's the bestest friend ever–not only to me but to his life-long best friends. We've been going out for five years now and lemme tell you, guys like this are keepers :3

[Hasabrain]

Nice and muscular yes! intelligent no! You either care more about your physique or more about your intelligence, I've never seen those two combined into one person. That's my opinion no offence to any guys who have all three of those qualities.

[Anonymous]

Yeah you could have all three, just guys with brains tend not to exercise as much xD I could exercise and become muscular and I'd be all three but my girlfriend doesn't like muscular guys and I can't really be bothered to xD (I'm fit but not muscular)

Cos being intelligent may be genetic and perhaps you can't change that but the others anyone can be if they want so intelligent people can be them all

[helloyes]

i have it all minus the intelligent. I'm really smart if that counts, get good grades but I'm not interested in intelligent conversations that isn't about sports or girls

[RedSmartie]

Possible but really hard to find. Of course it would be great but most girls don't expect all of that.

[dominiquois]

Yes. Why wouldn't it be?
It's like men asking if its possible for a beautiful girl to be nice and intelligent.
Dont judge a book by its cover.

[JOSHisAdude]

Its as easy as this:

Exercise our brain.

Exercise your muscles.

Be a nice guy.

Done.

[kheserthorpe]

If there's some law preventing it, that would explain my painfully slow results at the gym.

[TrentLevito23]

It definitely is. If you manage your time wisely, you can study, workout, and being nice and kind is just natural. Open doors, give a friendly "Hello" and give good eye contact when talking to anyone.