How to find "THE ONE"?

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I never thought this day would come where I’d wake up lying next to; “The One”. I have always dreamed of them and exactly what they would possess, their character, their values, their morals, their spiritually, their out look on life and love. But most importantly I always wondered how they would love and treat me. Would they be able to live up to my standards? I never thought it was possible to find them. After all my attempts and failures, I thought that it was something that I would never be blessed with having. To my amazement it happened!



The first thing I did was stop looking and I started spending more time with myself and my thoughts. I had to start really getting to know myself again and started having fun with me. I spoiled me and tried new things, it was fun. I started loving myself more than I had ever done before. I stopped putting everything and everyone before me. I know it sounds weird coming from a single mother of two saying I stopped putting my children before myself, but I did. I made sure I was happy and stress free first and end return my children were happy and stress free. I still attended to them and their needs but I didn’t make them my life and loss myself in my children because I couldn’t see that, that is not a life. I had to find my own life and teach my children how to have a life of their own and not depend on someone else to create a life for them. You can’t depend on others for your happiness, it just doesn’t work! They will not always be there, not to mention that’s a lot of pressure and work for someone to think about you all the time and whether or not you’re happy and fulfilled.


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The next step was recognizing when “The One” walked into my life. We will always have an image of what “The One” will look like and when it doesn’t arrive in the package we envisioned we often times over look them and miss out. I have to admit; I almost didn’t recognize them and almost missed out on my blessing. It was a normal day and I was pretty much going about my day routinely when my eyes were opened for me. Sitting in my own home, enjoying the comforts of my bed, a nice

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of wine, and one of my favorite television shows I realized just how in love with me I was. It was perfect! I had been seeing myself for a while and it was working out so well. I didn’t realize how happy I had been. I was “The One”, and I never even knew it. I never lied to myself, I never hurt me, and I always put me first. Everything I had ever wanted was right here with me all the time. Like most I had been looking on the outside for what was already on the inside. I was everything that I needed. I was complete.


How to find "THE ONE"?



As people we look for someone to complete us. It is not possible for someone to complete you they can merely compliment you and all your good qualities while helping to improve the things that are not so good. In order to have someone else in your life you must already be happy and in love with yourself. If you already have then it makes it all the more easy for the person meant for you to see you, love you the way you deserve, and appreciate you for you. After all how you feel and see yourself emanates from you and others can clearly see that. The more you love and appreciate yourself the more attractive you become to others. We have to be “The One” for ourselves in order to fine the person that is meant to compliment us. Don’t be scared to fall in love with yourself and treat yourself good. You have to know what you like and enjoy so that you can be happy and if you are happy then others in your life will automatically be happy. Love yourself and be “The One”. I did.


"I love me, some me!"

How to find "THE ONE"?
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