Ladies, would you date a 25 year old male virgin?

Question

I'm 25 and a virgin. I've never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl or been on a date. I pretty much have little to no experience when it comes to romance or intimacy. I'm quite shy I must admit, it can take me a bit of time to feel really comfortable with people.

I was wondering how many of you ladies would date a guy like me? 

What would you think if you'd meet a guy my age and discovered that he is still a virgin? How would you react?

Would it be a turn-off/deal breaker? 

Thanks in advance!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know in the USA it doesn't sound so bad compared to where I live, the UK.

I got laid at 19, only because I kind of beat the system & picked up a girl I was not attracted to. I can attest, as I got older it got increasingly more difficult to find a girl who wanted to sleep with me, particularly, after 18.

One girl gave the analogy "Would you let someone drive your car if they've never passed their test? How do you feel if that car was your genitals?" Which is a bit of a crude way of putting it, but true. They could be worried you might hurt them or be bad at sex.

Not trying to be rude. But older male virgins are usually virgins for a reason (not handsome, bad interaction skills, low social status, still lives with his parents & no car). Not necessarily, but often.

Forget dating. Go out with your male friends to a bar, if you bring a couple female friends it can make you seem less er 'predatorial'. Whenever a girl is lent over the table on her own. Offer to buy her a drink. I know you're shy, but thats not always a disadvantage, just as long as you make the approach.

My one piece of advice; If you're worried something you might say could sound goofy, best just not say anything at all.

Klaatu51 · Accepted Answer

dude why don't you get a prostitute then to have sex, if you're shy as you admit?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm 24 and I'm a Virgin as well and I never had a bf and never kissed a guy and I don't have good dating exspirince ether but i did once try dating guys once online on the game imvu and playstationnetwork on the PS3 and I never wanted to date because I wanted to be single but I stayed anyways because I kept getting asked out and wanted it to stop so the only way I was able to get that to stop was to date then I stoped and dasided I liked being single because I knew a relationship would be to hard for me

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would, but it might be kind of a weird relationship because I'm kind of the same way. I'm pretty shy and take a while to open up. I'm 23 and also never been on a date, had a boyfriend, or kissed anyone. I wouldn't judge a guy for being the same way but I'm not sure what it would be like for 2 shy people to be together. I know I usually need someone more outgoing than me to kind of pull me out of my shell some.

misupanda · Accepted Answer

I would date a 25 year old virgin. However, I'm not very good with shy guys or slow-to-warm up people, as I'm the same way, so we'd basically be staring at each other the whole time. LOL.

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

Yaaaaas Virginity is something I look for in the men I date.  So yeah. I'd be all over that.  Instant marriage material.

lucyrosex · Answer

I wouldn't :/ I'm very self conscious and would prefer for my man to really know what he was doing and be confident about it. If you can be a virgin and still have that kind of confidence, then it wouldn't matter to me I guess.

justbanANNAz · Answer

yes actually. that's pretty much what I'm after lol.  and no i actually prefer a virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

since im a virgin with only makeout experience, id like for my guy to be more experienced then me. im also an extremely strong person so i couldnt date a shy guy. i need a confident man who takes charge and can hold his own with me

Anonymous · Answer

My current boyfriend is 24 and was a virgin until about 2 weeks ago when i took that from him. Lol So to answer your question yes

drama_queenxo · Answer

Yeah, I find it attractive if a guy doesn't throw himself to anyone as long as he watches  p*rn  so he like has an idea of what to do

Kris85 · Answer

No I would not. But at my age, that's expected that the guy I date is not a virgin.

abundantlyrich · Answer

No. They lack social skills and know nothing about the female anatomy.

miserybusiness · Answer

Not an issue to me. I prefer experience, but this wouldn't be a deal breaker at all.

George1998 · Answer

I'm on the same side my friend. 24, virgin, shy, and never had a girlfriend, kiss, or date. And I think I'll never be able to do. Plus, I never had any friends

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care if he's a virgin. In fact I may even prefer it.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Would I? Yes Would it be a deal breaker? No

Th3D3vil5w1f3 · Answer

No, but you could try a female 25 year old virgin.

KingDeAce · Answer

Dude your not the only one ;)

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i prefer that my lover be a virgin

Anonymous · Answer

It'd be a turn-on. Don't worry about it at all! :)

Anonymous · Answer

you sound dateable to me

AllWomenLie · Answer

I'm 29 and still a virgin want to kill myself.

GreenTiger · Answer

Dude... you're fucked

Anonymous · Answer

would absolutely have no problem with it

Anonymous · Answer

i'm sure some girls would

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