Loose skin and sex?

[Anonymous]

So long story short. I lost a lot of weight, am at a good size and look awesome in cothes. My only issue is I have a bit of loose skin around my belly button and a small amount on my lower belly. I'm so afraid a guy will see my stomach and be turned off..which leads me to the point of this post. I met a fantastic sweet guy. He really likes me, and wants me. I am worried once the clothes comes off he will be disapointed. I'm pretty sure he isn't a shallow person, he is very nice but still who wants to have sex with someone with extra skin? :/ obviously this makes me have low self esteem. I can not afford surgery, and I've been working out hoping to build muscle where the skin is.

Guys, would you be turned off by a woman have some loose skin?
Ladies, do you have this problem? if so, how did your guy react to your body?

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+1 y

by some I don't mean tons where it sags, I'm talking about where it's noticeable but not horrible looking.

[gray_sailor]

I have not had any problem with loose skin, My wife has lost substantial weight (more than you) and it is not a problem for me at all.

The biggest killer of arousal in the bedroom is not a woman's flaws but rather a woman's fears. Insecurity makes you fear giving yourself permission to enjoy sex. He feels your reluctance as a rebuke of him. The thinking goes something like this: "If only I were a better man, better looking, more money, more intelligent or quicker wit, THEN she would feel safe enough to reveal herself fully to me."

When you do get naked with a man. Do not hide under clothing, under covers or under darkness. If he is the man for you, then he is the man for ALL of you, no half measures. The fear of revealing yourself is more than made up for by the joy in the acceptance you will receive.

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[GraySailorsBride]

Amen, Love!

[WCKilldz]

Don't fret. If it ever gets to that point he won't care because we have animalistic needs. If you're that worried just turn out the lights after making sure he's not shallow... and if he is shallow he was never worth it.

[peachblossomluck]

Good point!

[peachblossomluck]

There are ways to tighten loose skin which aren't commonly known. Ingesting gelatin is one, for example. Congrats on losing all that weight! Age is on your side:)

[mistninja314]

I don't think he'd care, especially if he found out that it's because you lost a lot of weight... hell of anything he'd probably be happy/wouldn't mind it. It's not going to get in the way of anything I'm guessing

[bryon]

I see no problem in it myself. And like you said , this guy isn't shallow ; so I just don't think he will have any issues with it young Lady. Congrats on the weight loss , good for you.

[Dragonblood21]

You mind posting a picture? That would help me be honest.

[Sexualchrist]

Depends what it actually looks like

[Anonymous]

turn the light off