What is the appeal of generic trashy blondes?

[coco489]

I'm very sorry to stereotype, but everyone knows exactly the type of girls I'm talking about when I say 'generic trashy blondes'.

The ones with zero self-respect. The ones who advertise their sex appeal, claiming they are sex goddesses, are constantly talking about either sex, partying, or guys, and seem to have no real substance to them.

I know there are brunettes and red heads and all sorts of girls out there who fit this description, but more often than not, it's one of those blondes. Fake blond or real blond, doesn't matter. There they are with their loose legs, leathery skin, and trademark thirteen layers of make-up and heavy eyeliner.

So my question to you guys is, what the f@$% is the appeal? Please feel free to extend your answer to the appeal of all sluts in general.

It's not fair that just because a girl is 'easy' she gets better treatment than a genuine girl who cares about you and who you've *claimed* to care for. Why would you ever pick the flavor of the week over the girl who loves you?

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DISCLAIMER -- I am NOT talking about all blondes. I have blond friends who are wonderful women. And when I say 'sluts' I am referring to attention seeking girls whose self-esteems depend on men AND who sleep around. So, please, don't attack me saying I'm a bitch, I'm in no mood for it. If you don't like my question or what I have to say, get lost. Quietly.

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Here in the land of New Jersey, where there is no shortage of bleached blond trashy women, I wish to speak on behalf of the entire male population with an IQ above 90 and just say to those women- "STOP". I wish the male population with the IQ in the 70s and 80s range would stop justifying their obnoxious existence by giving them unwarranted attention, simply because they treat their snatch like a 7/11 convenience store- open at all hours to pretty much anybody willing to stop in.

Any guy that drops a genuine girl for one of them clearly doesn't deserve a genuine girl...or his testicles because lord knows we don't need a combination of his low-intelligence and her trashy obnoxiousness turning into a child. Not to mention a pack of wolves would make better parents if such a scenario occurred, BUT I digress.

They are the women who have no moderation. They use make up excessively, they fake tan excessively, they drink excessively, and finally they annoy me excessively- if that isn't yet apparent. So again, on behalf of the better half of humanity, trashy obnoxious "women", if you can be called that, take some lithium- you clearly need it.

I don't know if that answers the whole "appeal" question, but maybe it'll shed some light on the quality of person that does find them appealing- Idiots.

[coco489]

Thank you for making me laugh. And not being an idiot.

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Always a pleasure. If you can't add humor to a rant, you'll just appear insane.

[Konnour]

You're from the USA and talking about IQ?

[coco489]

Stereotyping people in the States, eh? And you're giving me sh*t for stereotyping girls with certain physical appearances? Holy hypocrite, Batman!

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Ohhhhh look, he tried to formulate an insult right there..of course it wasn't really funny..or insulting.. or based off of any specific stereotype.. we'll look I'd like to discuss your opinion on the general level of intelligence when it comes to the USA population, but I have to go back to helping my country make yours look insignificant in every respect. So I'll just say keep trying sport, you'll think of a witty insult one day.

[sa230e]

What's wrong with being openly sexual? There's nothing inherently bad or immoral about it nor is it disrespectful to the self. Human beings are sexual beings, it's no secret that we would be drawn to someone who is openly accommodating to our sexual desires.

Why the blond stereotype exists, I have no idea. There's nothing about blond hair that really stands out to me, personally.

[coco489]

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being openly sexual, or sexually accommodating. I'm saying I don't understand why guys treat entirely shallow girls who base their self-worth on accommodating every penis within the vacinity better than real girls with a bit more substance. Because we're more work? Really? Because you have to work your way into their hearts and gain their trust before they start sexually accommodating your desires? There's no correlation between genuine girls and prudes

[sa230e]

Most women have their guard up in social situations. At least at first, we're used to women being just a tiny bit cool and aloof, and slowly warming up to us. We understand the need for it, girls have to play it safe, but even with the best intentions it can create apprehension in the guy

Guys' lives can be emotionally isolating. It's nice to encounter a completely uninhibited girl for once. It makes us feel more comfortable and accepted. It puts as ease and we feel more socially charitable.

[coco489]

That I understand. Thank you =)

[bookangel16]

most guys aren't looking for a lasting relationship so they just want an easy girl then they can dump them without feeling anything. and I don't know why blondes are usually the prefered choice of sluts.. maybe its because their hair is so light that they give an almost "goddess" impression because when people think of goddesses they sometimes end up with blond hair.. I don't know

[Misty_04]

I really don't understand why girls feel the need to put down other girls to make themselves feel better. Quit hating and realize that it's not worth caring about, it doesn't affect you and well yeah people are allowed to do what they want. Just saying.

[coco489]

It's not a put-down. It's a statement. There ARE girls out there that fit this exact description. As for "people are allowed to do what they want", I'm allowed to say and ask what I want. Maybe try reading the disclaimer.

[Ashley8282]

A+

[Misty_04]

It's a pretty poor statement. I would pick your question apart but I really can't be bothered. Maybe just quit thinking you are owed something, like certain treatment from men. Whateverrr

[coco489]

Uh, no, I won't quit thinking I'm owed something. That something being proper treatment from a man. Hahahah...that's what self-respect is m'dear. Maybe quit commenting until you understand what this question is asking and are willing to properly answer it instead of spew nonsense and cause bullsh*t drama.

[Misty_04]

Hahaha okay...dear

[Anonymous]

Honest answer:

Sometimes, the path of least resistance seems like the best choice. When a guy has been hurt too much, rejected too often, and been betrayed by the more classy women, a girl like that is just the ticket. A man can just get exhausted and sick of trying.

Sometimes a man just wants to feel like a man, if even for a night. If that type of woman can do it for him, then it's all he needs.

Sad, but true.

[coco489]

Thank you. I really appreciate your answer. I'm a fan of honesty, no matter how sad or painful to hear.

[Cptnjjim]

Id say its a combination of low self esteem and the need for attention that makes those women act that way. They also advertise that theyre an easy lay so a lot of dudes would prefer to get a quick and easy lay with them instead of working for it with more respectable women. Personally I prefer women who have dignity and respect for themselves.

[Konnour]

I'm always amused reading such rants how women with other-colored hair put out all their bile on blondes.

And it screams for one thing: jealousy.

I want people to understand - judging people only about how they look is the same shallow as choosing a girlfriend by taking only looks at the consideration.

You're right - not all blondes are like that. So I must ask:

What's your problem?

The simple truth is that most of guys including me prefer blondes, and also who could blame us that we as healthy men do like it when girls wear something hot and revealing?

And what did you mean by "choosing a girl who loves you VS a fake blonde"?

You know what I've learned - even average or below average looking girls can have very disgusting personalities!

So normally you'll never get serious too quickly before getting to know the other person.

And if I'll have to choose - a fake blond or a girl like you who obviously like to bitch around I rather choose the first option.

[coco489]

Again, please read the disclaimer, I am talking about a certain type of girl (the ones hungry for male attention and eager to spread their legs to anyone who gives them this attention) vs. another type of girl (the ones who actually care about you but require you to respect them and put in some sort of effort before spreading their legs). It just so happens to be the blondes who tend to more often be the former than the latter...

[coco489]

...it has nothing to do with jealousy it has everything to do with frustration. Being fed up after seeing so many good girls be treated like garbage and then having guys go find easy girls like this who they treat like gold. So my question was purely targeted to try and understand what guys SEE in these types of girls. There's no need for your rude attitude, I clearly stated that I'm not being bitchy, I'm stating facts. Sorry. If you don't like it, then don't bother answering or commenting.

[Konnour]

Again, get this in your head that you can't judge people by assuming what kind of personalities they got based only about how they look.

What you posted is a rant, there are millions of similar posts, always mentioning words like "fake blonde" and "sluts"

Even if the girl truly is typical party girl, bleached blond - she's still hot! Appealing, desirable! We can't control which girls we are attracted to! Attraction either is or is not. And who could blame us about it?

[coco489]

Fair enough, and I understand that, I'm not blaming you for being attracted. What doesn't make sense to me is why a guy would treat a girl like that (assuming said girl is in fact your typical party girl with no substance, physical appearance aside) better than a down-to-earth, girl who he IS also attracted to, knows loves him, cares about him, and has always been there for him. Is it a matter of giving up the package deal just to get your d*** wet and be able to walk away without complications?

[coco489]

Also, when I said 'fake blonde' I meant literal dyed hair. Although they usually are fake in general, that's not what I was getting at. And what other term would you like me to use? Promiscuous? I can sugarcoat it all you want, but a whore is a whore. Man, woman, alien. Sleeping around is sleeping around.

So please, drop the attitude. I'm all for having a civilized conversation but that means attitudes have to go.

[Konnour]

You're jealous and in denial. If you wouldn't be jealous you wouldn't bother SO much.

I gotta feeling that you think you owe a special treatment from men.

If someone's treating the blond like a goddess it's his business, his choice and his responsibility.

And would you really want such guy who buys expensive stuff to a gold-digger? Oh yeah.. I think you would.

[coco489]

Pardon me? You've just crossed the line into ridiculousness. Did you seriously just compare me to a gold-digger? Haha yes, I do expect special treatment from men, it's called RESPECT. And since we're making assumptions, I'm gonna go ahead and peg you as the kind of guy who doesn't have the social ability or intelligence to attract classy women so you go for said sluts. Did you get hurt by a brunette? Is this where this hostility is coming from? 'Cause it wasn't me who broke your heart bucko.

[coco489]

...and "bother so much"? This is what this website is for. Inquiring. Gaining some sort of insight into the opposite genderes brain. But yours isn't one I want insight into because there's clearly something wrong with it if you've comprehended this question as a jealous rant and me as equivalent to a gold-digger. Try straying from your sticky keyboard and reading some books once in a while.

[Konnour]

Oh please... I don't rate women in categories like "classy" or "a slut" it's irrelevant to me.

I either like her or I don't like her, and I couldn't care less when somebody may try to throw meaningless insults against her like "a slut"

And why do you think I'm hostile to brunettes? I'm not hostile to brunettes, but I'm hostile to people who bitch around, regardless of their hair color.

[coco489]

You don't like people who bitch? Hahaha, for serious? You think there are women out there who don't bitch? Alright, good luck with that. Can I point out one thing? Your answer and all your comments are bitching about my bitching. Hence, you are bitching. Does that mean you don't like yourself? Are you being hostile to yourself right now?

[Konnour]

Very funny! No, I'm definitely not hostile to myself. I tried to make my point, hoping you will eventually "get it" but it seems like you won't! Too bad.

[YouKnowThatGuy]

I try to understand you point, but I is from the USA so I is too stoopid. Errr...oh wait...oh my, what's this, I feel some neurons firing. I'm thinking..let me interpret this moment of clarity..you're saying that less than attractive women can be b*tches, so that justifies getting with a skank.

My advice, although it may be very low brow and foolish of me- wear a condom. Not to stop STDs, cause you'll like catch crabs either way. I just don't want any mistakes getting made for humanities sake.

[slvtangel]

ya don’t try to argue with her! a waste of ur energy! everyone has their own personal opinions and i actually think slutty women have the right to be that way just as much as anyone has a right to be themselves, regardless of colouring. and yes, anyone has a right to dislike their behaviour and feel it shouldn’t be attractive as well, but your feelings, although acceptable, shouldn’t be used to judge others (as long as it’s not involving violence of course)

[Kellen21]

When comes to girl's hair colors I like (in ranking):

1) Jet Black Hair (Like yours)

2) Redheads

3) Dark Brunettes

4) Light/Regular Brunettes

5) Dirty Blondes

6) Platinum Blondes

7) Unnatural Colors

However I would date any girl with any normal hair color.

[taster]

Not sure...I usually go for brunettes...coppertops are hot too...(:

[jaket900]

REAL BLONDES ARE"NT GENERIC

in fact blond and blue eyes are rare in humans... if anything dark brown and black/brown hair is generic...

[peacenic]

idk,i am a sucker for brunette's :D

[Anonymous]

Easy f*** that's the appeal

[kheserthorpe]

I'll take a skanky brunette please.

[ZenQueen]

low self esteem

[ZenQueen]

it's an ego boost

[sweet_18]

Some guys are just partial to blond hair

[Black_Swan_12]

no appeal