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You've caught us!
we are sophisticated, evil, and dastardly. And our 20 something victims are the flowers of innocence, ready to be crushed in our misshapen, clawed hands
the only way to defeat us is to hide our viagra. Only then will the flower of girlhood be safe from our rotting privates.
(sarcasm alert)
I swear this comes directly from the pedophile nuttiness of late. You are all such sheep. Crimes against children (and incidentally, 20 somethings are NOT children!) are DOWN over the past 20 years. You have been manipulated by an unethical news media that uses fear tactics to generate ratings.
You are the "bad touch" generation, raised in fortresses to keep you safe rom imaginary threats spawned by the media. You fear older men, because you have been told a gazillion times never to take candy from them.
Well, here is a little bit of truth dateline never told you: Child molestation is most often committed by family members. Yeah, surprise, the news show who rigged trucks to explode has been dishonest with you. So all your fear and cowering and hatred of older men you don't know, has been a farce.
The reason is most girls his age know his game. They see through him. I mean that they know all the tricks guys that age do to get you into bed. He prays on the younger girls because he is able to elevate himself and seem superior to you, which is attractive to a young girl like yourself. And by superior I mean experienced, as in life e.g. Well travelled, knowledgeable, dos and don'ts of buying a house, a car etc. That's why they do, because younger girls are in a sense easier. I mean that with respect.
I see everyones point but here's the question...Are you interested in him? Though I agree the potential for a long term relationship is slim you could also have a great time and learn a great deal. Though at 22, no offense, you are awful young so watch for manipulating head games. But if you're into this man you can "possibly" gain a great deal of experience and have a good time. You will be treated differently by older men then younger. No offense to readers :-)
umm... my grandparents are 30 years apart and they have been married for over 30 years. (happily) she just happened to have been his secretary.. :) lol it happens. sometimes there is a possibility for a man to love a woman that much younger... its rare but it happens. I had a crush on a guy who was like 16 years older than me but its all relative.. I think he's seriosuly thte sexiest older man ever...
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Yes he would have more in common with a woman his own age. He's not looking to you for lifelong companionship filled with intellectual and emotional discourse. He's looking for a brief and passionate fling. It's something many men do to try to retain their youth as their body begins to out-age their mind and libido. So take it for what it is and decide how you want to proceed.
May december romances are the new taboo. It used to be common for couples to have an age difference, but now that interracial dating is ok, we need something to get upset about.
And young people are already primed to fear older men, because of the antipedophile hysteria, so what could be more perfect?
We'll show those nig...I mean, older men not to mess around with our whi...I mean young, women.
Countdown until Jarett shows up and types in all caps about how horrible this all is...10...9...8...
Seriously, two generations ago, nobody cared about age differences. It's all in your heads.
I tend to agree with the two who have posted previously. Now, that's not saying that it's not POSSIBLE that there's something genuine there. Just tread lightly. I'm 38 and have met younger girls that were "older" than their age and would have genuinely interested me had I not been married. Not many times, though. Nothing kills the buzz like talking about talking about the Flock of Seagulls song that was number one when your girl's mom went into labor.
If you like him go for it. Maybe he is genuine & does see something in you. When I was 19 I met a woman that was 40 & it was the best experience I ever had & were still great friends. You say he's really good looking so it's unlikely he just wants you "to get in your bed". I say go with your heart, you'll probably make a good friend & have fun along the way. Of course some 20 year old is going to call him a creep or what-ever but their just jealous a guy twice their age is with someone they can't get. Age is only a number
Yes he would, I am sure he is a creep and not worth your time. Later on down the road if you date him you will split up it will be really embarrassing trying to explain to your new boyfriend that your ex was in his 40's.
Im 22 & my bfs 42! Weve been together almost a year. Best relationship I've ever been in or seen. I have met his family, he has met mine. We all love each other so who cares what anyone else thinks!
he probably wants to have sex with a young woman
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