I am a 21 year old guy and three days ago I had a one night stand with the cutest girl I've ever met. She is extremely attractive and fun to talk to (we talked after sex in bed but also outside when walking, cuddled a bit more, etc.) She shares certain hobbies like weightlifting and being fit. Now the sex was okay, not too bad, if anything I was lacking and didn't last too long. I remember looking at her face and body and thinking "is this a dream?"The way she looked into my eyes before and after was just so friggin' cute. She constantly gazed very deep in my eyes. She put her head on my chest and I don't know, for a few minutes I fell in love. I could lay there forever. I have not fallen in love a lot in my life. Most of the girls I met I didn't feel so much chemistry with. But, she is kind of out of my league. That's how I feel. She is very popular, has a lot of Instagram followers and "guy fans" admiring her body and her in general. I on the other hand am not very popular but I have the luck to be okay looking. I think she (logically) sees this as a one time thing. A one night stand is not really a way to start dating. And I also think like this normally. I can turn off my emotions pretty easily with a one night stand. But I think the fact that I never really fell in love deeply with a girl (yes really) plus having sex with her made my brain go nuts. The problem here is, I have not been able to stop thinking about her. But I am not sure she feels the same and I don't want to be that guy. The guy who thinks after a one night stand , The way she looked in my eyes just gave me the feels. You know that feeling, the feeling of being in love but also the anxiety of uncertainty. Today at work I was constantly thinking about her and that night. This is why I don't like "the feels" l':
I'm a guy, had a one night stand and feeling obsessed/in love with the girl?
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