Would you rather be trusted or loved?

[nala_rawr]

if both wasn't an option

trusted

loved

[nicfay]

I feel these things do go hand in hand a lot of the time. Specifically, if you love someone, I'd say there's a big chance you trust them as well. because i'd personally feel it would strange to love someone (whether its romantic or more like friend/sibling love) if you didn't trust the person. It doesn't have to be the same the other way around tho, i. e. you can really trust a colleague to do his job well, it doesn't mean you love him lol.

[ShortCircuit]

To be completely honest, I couldn't care less whether or not she trusts me, as long as that lack of trust doesn't manifest itself in the form of accusations and heated arguments.

If she needs constant reassurance, I'll deliver - as long as she is loving and affectionate.

I voted B.

[nala_rawr]

wow thats deep... dam...

[ShortCircuit]

Haha, yeah, I guess so. Sorry about that 😌

[ShortCircuit]

wrong emoji - ignore it xD

[nala_rawr]

dont b sorry! thats a really good answer!

[estoydorado1]

I don't know about any of you but I can't get comfortable enough to love someone I can't trust so I put down love because from my experience, trust is essential to truly loving someone.

[heemang]

You are not in love or loved if there is no trust in the relationship. Simple as that.

[kenworth]

when it comes to uncondetional Love. is just that its when someone loves you no matter what you have or may have done it is not to be confussed with trust. trust has absolutly. nothing to do with love trust is something which is earned ot isn't given. it is this reason that i choose loved. with love all things. become possibler. and love will allow you to soar past the lack otf trust others ha e in you

[capturemyheartnow]

Trust is more important than love. But trusting too much can kill you. And the greatest lie ever told is , "Trust me , I will never hurt you." But there is no true love without trust. Me saying , "I trust you is more important than saying , I love you. I can love you and not trust you. " She can love you a lot and still turn around and leave you if she doesn't trust you. But if she trusts you , she will never leave you.

[Drifter83UK]

finally a philosophical question of sorts 👍.
I'd rather be trusted as once trust is lost, it's hard to earn back, seldom never retrieved.
love is something that's acquired over a period of time and is generally formed after trusting.

[RokFerry]

Hi nala_rawr. Great question to ask. Trusted or Loved? I personally would go for trust. Without trust you cannot have love, and without love you can build love on trust. Does that make sense to you?

[matheus_mb]

I think both things are connected. I can't love someone I don't trust and I expect nothing different towards myself.

[NathanStrat]

Loved, because it automatically includes trust. You can be trusted without love (like a "brother") but you can't be truly loved without trust.

[mrinalashesh007]

I am a really trustworthy guy.. many people trust me.. so.. I guess, I need love.. Any damn person can trust me.. but not all can love me

[boshcak]

I think it is two sides of the same coin. Trust and love are interwoven.

[razor97]

Only in the sense that I would like to acquire the ability to analyze situations and computate infinitely complex logical (where logic can be based on emotion as well) solutions

[chnapo]

Love without trust is not good. I experienced that.

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

Trust can lead to love and you need love in life...

[Yumix]

doesn't being loved involve people having some trust in you?

[Dme500]

love implies trust. its a shame not all girls seem to know that.

[NightOwl8801]

To love someone youst first trust them.
So trust is earned then you're loved.

[Anonymous]

What good is it for me to be trusted but not loved? Think about that one?

[eagle1951]

trusted always. because if your trust. love will follow

[bushkid97]

Can you really love someone without trusting them?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope.

[MinkWinsor]

you have to have trust for love.

[Cosytoasty]

Well I didn't expect the vote to go as it is lmao

[jacquesvol]

trusted

I can trust people I don't love