Why do men say such hurtful things when there angry?

when me and my boyfriend get in a fight he will tell me he hates me he doesn't want to be with me and kicks me out of his house. where I've been living with him for the last months. do they say it because they really mean it or just to be hateful and hurt us?

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  • It's usually because the person is angry. Both Males and Females do this.

    When people get hurt, they learn to hate or say hateful things. When people hurt others, they become hated and can be racked with guilt.

    He's hurting right now, and he said something mean to you. Good job on not saying something mean back (if you didn't). Chances are he doesn't feel the same way about you when he's not stressed/in pain, he likes you, but right now, he's angry/upset.

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