He wants to take me out after my birthday?

[Anonymous]

So I am turning 21 soon and I can't really get in anywhere now. This guy is a bit older and he told me a few times that after my birthday in like a month he wants to take me out because at that point I can actually get into places and 21 sounds good to him. He asked me if I want to go after my birthday and I said yes . So he means it right?

[themastaplan]

ocne you turn 21. going to the bars is not as its played out to be...the "thrill" of sneaking in is gone and its just something you do on a weeknight if you are trying to get laid, meet new people, be social or just have nothing else you want to do besdies spend money on overpriced, weak drinks...

but um as far as your question, you won't know until it comes down to it - I don't see the point of him asking you to come out and then backing off randomly? hellllloooooooooooooooo

[katiesmuff]

I'd have to guess that yes he is sincere about it. If he is someone you think you might like to date by all means give it a shot.

[Anonymous]

turning 21 is a bit overrated, he could of took you anywhere that had nothing to do with being 21 but someone did tell me "all you gotta do is get 'em drunk"

[Asker]

I know he wants to take me for drinks. I'm not expecting a future husband kind of date from this

[sunmonster]

Yeah he means it.

[-Darling]

lol