Search Results: initiating sex

1 mo

Why would a man repeatedly cheat on the mother of his child like this?

a little backstory I was in a long-term relationship for 4 1/2 years we were supposed to get married, but he ended up cheating on me multiple times we got pregnant and we separated at three months postpartum. he got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

2 mo

How do you flirt with the opposite sex without overdoing it?

Non-physical: I look at them until they look back then I smile, biting my lip or touch my hair. I also look for a moment where he is alone and initiate a conversation. Physical: I touch his arm or shoulder during...

TheLovelyWoman

Xper 6 Age: 42

3 mo

How do you expect sex to initiate?

Let's say you're laying in bed and nothings happened yet. Personally I'll kind of escalate from "accidental" touching and wait for her to put her face close to mine so I can go in. But it always feels like you're walking...

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

3 mo

Was he just after sex?

Hi all. I was seeing a guy for a month, met up 9–10 times, mostly at his place, outside or drove in his car. His ex cheated on him but he forgave her, then they broke up. He plays the guitar, I sing & we planned to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should it be the man or the woman who initiates first time sex and kissing with a new partner?

The man I’m interested in thinks that the man should do the pursuing. He tried to kiss me once, but it was in a really crowded, public place, so I stopped him. But made it clear I’m very interested in him.

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Guys, He said I miss you. Does he mean that he misses me as a person or just my body?

I am in a relationship with this guy. The thing is he doesn’t really talk or engage much unless it’s sexual. He barely touches base with me, he barely texts me or talks on the phone. Emotionally, I feel like I’m in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do You Know Why Men Are Wonderful, Amazing and Simply The Number One (Here Is a List)?

Hello everyone! It’s me again. Today, I want to take a moment to appreciate the men in my life: my father for giving me life and raising me, my husband for making me a mother, protecting me, providing for me, and taking...

melssvdv

Xper 4 Age: 22

My hookup never texts first, does that mean he’s not really interested?

Just wanted to get some more perspectives on this—about a month ago I started hooking up with this guy. The sex was good, he’d stay for hours, most of which we spent watching shows, cuddling and chatting. Anyways, I’d...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Validation for modeling?

My aspirations even at age 39 are to become a male model. I've been called handsome my entire adulthood from various women of all races and age groups. Mostly during dates or communication that I initiated. Been rated 8s,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Hi everyone, I’d love your perspective. ?

I matched with a guy on a dating app last week, but I’d actually had a crush on him at the gym for 4 months. On our first date, he told me he’d liked me all along. In the whole week we’ve known each other, I’ve never...

blackrosetatoo

Xper 1 Age: 26

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does actually mean? (We haven't had sex)?

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does that actually mean? Hi Reddit, I (23F) have been seeing a guy (27M, German) and I’m really confused about his behavior. We’ve been on 4 dates so far, and he’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Playing cool / being truly emotional and showing helpless romance?

We’ve always known men to be the initiators sexually and emotionally. I wonder whether your girl initiated sex, tried hardly to turn you on, and always said nice words to you, would this make you take her for granted or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We’ve always known men to be the initiators sexually and emotionally. I wonder whether your girl initiated sex, tried hardly to turn you on, and always said nice words to you, would

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I feel like the guy I'm seeing might be a virgin?

I'm worried the guy I'm seeing might be a virgin... 'worried' might be the wrong word. I'd take no issue with his experience, or lack of. He says he used to be a bit promiscuous when he was younger, college era. But know...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help to understand what's going on in his mind?

I meet a guy and we slept two times together, and now he kinda stopped texting and making new dates... I wondering why men stopping to sleep with girls even if they know they will get sex... I mean if he here just for sex...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why does he not text me but whenever we are together he is initiating conversation and seeks me out?

So I have this roommate we have lived together for 5 years now and for the last month we've gotten extremely close. Not sex close but close. Whenever he is home he is always talking to me and inviting me to hang out,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend doesn’t touch me anymore. Is this normal in a long-term relationship?

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. At the beginning, he was really affectionate always touching, hugging, and kissing me. But lately, it feels like he’s pulling away. We don’t cuddle anymore unless I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

What would you do if your wife told you "The only reason you got me is because I was a divorced, single mom, and I was scared and you were safe"?

So, Before anyone asks, I have already filed for divorce, she's staying with her children (none of which are mine) at her parents house. About three weeks ago, my ex wife and i were having a party, It was our 8th wedding...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, Where is his head at?

I have been having a casual ‘situation’ with a guy who is in a relationship. Not great but it works as I don’t want any type of commitment and he’s not able to so it’s purely sex.. although we chat everyday and he calls...

Anonymous

(30-35)