Search Results: men scared of commitment

Are you willing to admit to yourself what you want in your relationship with the opposite sex?

All of us have certain goals and aspirations for our relationships with the opposite sex. (This MyTake is written for the majority of users who are exclusively heterosexual.) For different people, those goals may be 1. to...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Women Got Angry Because Men Started Learning

As many of you know, I’m not into a lot of RedPill or MGTOW, although I think MGTOW is less of a thing nowadays because RedPill is probably just an evolved form of MGTOW. I don’t agree with most of it, especially with its...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Relationships

Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌

I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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How do you handle with someone who's giving hot and cold attitude?

It's been more than 3 years. The thing is.. A lot of thing has been going on in our relationships.. lots of ups and downs between us but we always manage to work it out. Me and her are not in an official relationship...

YeKeTu

Xper 3 Age: 30

Guys, Whats the deal with commitment?

Guys can you give me insight on what make a guy scared or hesitant to commit. Why do guys show interest, have a good time together but not move forward. I know everyone is different. I give him plenty of space, we don't...

Lynnzee

Xper 5 Age: 46

Is it commitment issues or disinterest?

I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. For starters his dad is the sheriff of where he is from, his father searched me up and uncovered all my psych ward visits, and the fact that I am a retired "only...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Is it a good idea if a guy tells a girl prior to a date what his intentions are in like?

There’s a girl who wants to meet me in September but I was contemplating about telling her I’m trying to look for something serious. I’m older now, I’m in my 30s so my direction in life is exercising, my diet (how I stay...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

What, in your opinion, makes a man ready for marriage and kids at 20 to 30 vs. those who wait till they're 40 or even older?

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is that!). Also, I wonder why they have the...

Sweetsurprize

Xper 5 Age: 42

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is

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Family & Friends

Am I really scaring away men and other people?

I'm getting ghosted, dates that ended after just a couple days or 1 month of knowing each other, 2 relationships that never leads to commitment (longest one was 3 years and then barely making it to 1 year), two men...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I feel like my boyfriend feels trapped since I’m pregnant, do I just give him space?

Me and my boyfriend have been together a while and he was happy I was pregnant. But since it’s gotten very real he seems to be ignoring me. I don’t know how I’m handling it so well. He’s ignored me for 1 week so far and I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I overthinking his transparency or is he being clear and I'm just dumb?

I've been talking to a guy for four months and things seem to be going well. We spend a lot of time together given that it's an ldr. Neither of us wants to rush things but on my end, I know that I am falling for him. Last...

plumflower

Xper 2 Age: 41

Home Chats

"Why I Push Women Away": How One Man's Personal Revelation Linked Back to His Father's Affair

This is the real-life story of one man, and his journey to discover why he leaves. I listened to this last night, found it very interesting, and thought I'd share it with you today. "Why did I leave?" "Why did I lose...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Relationships

My [26] friends with benefits [25] has a girlfriend now, should I tell him how I feel?

I met a man in Feb of last year. We dated 2-3 months, and then he told me he was scared of commitment and wasn't ready for a relationship. At the time I was okay with it because I wasn't infatuated with him, and he is the...

biancatree

Xper 2 Age: 31

Why in the generation of men born in the 90s/ millennials there are so many gutless assholes?

One out of two seems to be scared of growing up, responsibilities, commitment etc and seem not to have healthy principles anymore. They expect from girls to be perfect, always stunning (if a girl doesn’t look like a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Was my ex wrong for breaking my trust or was I wrong for triggering his abandonment trauma?

my ex boyfriend hated to accept blame and he had abandonment issues. I didn’t know anything about that because I had never internalized the reasons behind my past abandonment to be “my fault”. But he actually pushed me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Home Chats

"Girls Don't Know What They Want [in Relationships]": The Real Reasons Behind This Male-Created Myth

This is the first in a series of articles I'll be writing debunking some commonly-held myths about dating, society and life. Myths are beliefs - widely-held but false and erroneous conclusions. They make sense, they're...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Guys, He knows I like him but doesn’t try to progress things further?

There’s this guy that I have a complicated relationship with. To best describe it, I pretty much make myself open and available to him but I keep my guard up/don’t do anything unless he does something to show he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do guys age 23-27 have commitment issues?

I am a girl/women in my 24s and as off from what i have been told i am a good catch. I am studying at a top business school. I don’t know if it is me, my taste in men or guys in general, that leaves me single. I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)