Search Results: understanding his feelings

1 mo

Emotionally close but not official after months of talking. What are we?

I (25F) have been talking long distance with a guy (29M) for a while now and I’m trying to understand the dynamic because it feels emotionally serious, but also unclear at the same time We talk every single day. maybe...

casssseydayo

Xper 1 Age: 20

1 mo

I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?

For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

3 mo

Was it normal for parents to hit or threaten kids over trivial mistakes?

Perhaps this is my major reason why I have a radical stance on parenting my son without corporal punishment. I want to know if this reaction was also common: I was 8 years old the last I got hit with a belt or smacked on...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

3 mo

What should I do? Should I just tell him?

So the guy I’m dating has two jobs now. So I’m understanding that he busy and exhausted most of the time. The only thing is his priority issue. I feel like he has a bros before hoes mentality. Like if you dating someone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls & guys: how might someone feel if their partner made about them in this situation?

Eg. A couple live together, the man has his friend over to watch sport on tv, his girlfriend comes away from studying in the other room to finish off dinner and dish it up and take it to him (and offer his friend some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What kind of path I should follow?

Hi everyone, I’ve been flirting with a guy for about a month. We are from the same country, but we both live abroad. We actually had some contact before, maybe during the summer, but somehow our communication got lost....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why didn't he acknowledge me (just would like some outside perspective on the situation)?

For background: A few months ago, I developed feelings for a coworker. He gave me mixed signals that led me to believe he was somewhat interested in me too, and he could tell I liked him. Before I left the job, I gave him...

Annoyingly_ShyGirl

Xper 4 Age: 25

Why do some men avoid confessing to the girl they love?

Even when a man is emotionally closed off, he knows that the girl he likes is understanding, caring, empathetic, and deeply thoughtful. Yet, he doesn’t respond to her confession. For months, they exchange messages, and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Religion & Spirituality

My Journey of Faith: A Gay Catholic’s Path to Reconciliation

I am a gay man and a devoted Catholic, a duality that has shaped my life in profound ways. For years, I navigated the tension between my sexual orientation and my faith, facing rejection from those I trusted while...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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How can you have alone time in relationships?

I am a college student, currently in my finals week which is making me lose so much energy to function as a human being. I’ve communicated to my boyfriend that I am exhausted from being on campus until midnight to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do if another woman is putting a strain on my relationship?

My boyfriend of almost 1 year has a female friend that he has been increasingly getting closer with over the past 5 months. From the first time he met her, I have been very clear that I was uncomfortable with them...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Could there be potential down the line?

Fellas, I need help with understanding if there may be hope down the line for myself and this guy I had been seeing. I recently met up with an old friend from college and we hit it off. We went on a date and it was one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I a bad person?

My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. We live on two different continents and haven’t seen each other in six months. I’ve been trying to find a compromise so we can finally see each other again. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What Is Going On With Him?

So there’s this guy at work…He’s 26, I’m 24. We got real close as friends and everyday we hang out. We go on 5 clock break and 8 clock break everyday. We started talking about our past and we have an understanding. I’m...

Davis4589

Xper 1 Age: 26

Do some guys use women for food?

I know some women date purely for the free food and drinks from dates. But lately i have seen several posts and videos talking about men who lead women on just for free food. Is that a real thing? How can you tell when a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think about this love story?

Autistic guy falls in love with a petite, serene girl. They get along really well and are best buddies. He has feelings for her, but she'd never know. She lays on him and sits on his lap. He playfully smacks her butt....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is there any way I can convince my ex boyfriend to stop smoking?

I met my ex boyfriend back in 2018 and we began dating in 2022 and broke up in November of 2024. While it was my intention to go no contact he has recently been reaching out to me attempting to rekindle. While I do love...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What steps forward should I make with this situation?

I admit that what I did was wrong overall, but we both clearly need to work on this. A few months into our relationship, my partner became emotionally distant and stopped being intimate without explanation. I tried to...

Anonymous

(30-35)