How often should I contact her without being annoying?

[Anonymous]

So I like this girl and we've admitted were interested in being in a relationship with each other. Right now were both single and she's up at college, I would love to talk to her everyday but I know she's busy with homework and all. I've also heard that girls get more interested if you don't talk to them as much (Is this true?). So I'm wondering how often should I contact her without it being too annoying?

[Buckminsterfuller]

Little known fact about (most) girls: if a guy tries too hard right away...he can seem needy and we can get scared off too!

This might not be the most helpful because every relationship is different: I would say contact her often enough to let her know that you are thinking of her but not too often that hearing from you becomes annoying. Start off with texts once a day (or whatever you usually do). If you are not texting her often make sure your texts keep the connection going; tell her you're thinking about her? ask her how she is...a really cute thing is to send her a good morning text to wake up to. Then just follow her cue...if she calls you take that as a sign that you could call her...the relationship should progress naturally from there...good luck!

[dmbforlife]

it is true sometimes that girls get more interested if you don't talk to them as much because they might be questioning themselves and thinking more of you; but it also isn't true because some girls may take it the wrong way thinking you don't want to talk to them therefore getting over you and moving on. if you've both admitted you and her were interested in a relationship you should text her or call her, email whatever it is. don't constantly send her messages if she doesn't automatically respond the first one. limit it to once a day or every 2 to 3 days. send her compliments too like "hoping to see you soon :)" or something along those lines.