My boyfriend will treat me like a child all the time. He will says " Don't Get attitude with me!" That reminds me of something my parents will say. Another example, I am turning 22 this month and all I want is a little fish aquarium to put on my dresser. Her won't let me because he says its childish and something a 12 year old will do. I like fish! Anything that I want to do or I like, if he don't like it its Childish. I like the little Hypnotist shows they put on at fairs. When we go I can’t watch them because its childish and corny. I LIKE It! Then when I'm irritated because he won’t let me do what I want to do. He get mad and says I always make him look like the bad guy. Then I get even more irritated and he gets mad because I'm irritated. That's when he says done get an attitude with me. Sometimes I feel so tract and forced to be someone I'm not. I like corny things I’ll admit it. But if he don't like it I can’t have anything to do with it. When he likes something and I don't I deal with it. I HATE HATE Going to sporting goods stores and window shopping. But I do it because I know he likes it. I don't act put out. I just look at the girl stuff and let him do his thing. He can’t do that for me. When I want to watch a movie that is a chick flick. He will make his own commentary and make fun of the movie the whole time we are watching it. I can’t even enjoy it. It rare that I can even get a movie I like. My friend joke because when we plan to go out I all ways have an accuses why I can’t . Mostly it’s because when I have something to do he gets all down and will wine that I'm leaving and make me feel bad for leaving him so I stay home. I DON'T HAVE ANY MORE FRIENDS. He lost his job a while ago ( He was wrongfully fired and is getting unemployment) He is always home and he was looking for a job. When our apartments burned down he stopped looking. And its kind getting to me. I know if I confront him on it. He will get really defensive and whinny like a little girl and ill end up the one that is being accused of something. I don't have any time to myself. NONE I'm going nuts. When I try to get him out of the house so I can be alone. He wines that he will miss me and he just stays home. I NEED My TIME... I think you get my drift. What should I do I love him to death he is an amazing person and a real sweetheart when he wants to be. There are more good times then bad. I love him more than anything. The only flaw is the way he treats me. Otherwise he is the most caring and selfless person I know. HELP?
just tell him that he can hate it, but you can like it.
like the fish idea, he can hate having a fish but you go ahead and get one anyway
and the movies? watch a move on your labtop with earphones by yourself, don't watch it with him.
and friends? go out with friends when you want to, and maybe invite him too but he doesn't have to go. Just tell him who you are with and what time you will be back so he does not think you are cheating.
good luck
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