I'm a guy who doesn't like grinding with girls at clubs?

[Anonymous]

I'm 100% heterosexual By the way. I just prefer dancing with girls I don't know with minimal contact. That make me less of a man?

[cun7n1nja]

No. I don't dance that way either, alone or with someone else, lol. I'm uncoordinated and a bit clumsy, so any dancing I might do is totally minimal, and I don't dance the way most girls do in clubs, let alone grind up on anyone [except maybe as an unexpected joke]. That's also why I don't really go to or enjoy clubs, haha. Give me a good old fashioned bar environment with a jukebox, pool tables, cool people [known and unknown], and I'm good. I enjoy the atmosphere and social dynamic of places like those much better. I get dragged to a club down the street from my usual place by my friends sometimes, and I haaaate it. I can suck it up and endure for an hour or so, but I'm not a fan of most of the music, I can't hear ANYTHING inside, I'm not there to dance [and there's really no other reason to go there, except guys looking to pick up the nastiest chicks], their bar sucks, and the majority of people I see there [people I know personally and strangers] are just general douchebags and trash, lol.

[Anonymous]

Why would anyone think that grinding with a girl is homosexual , That's what you suppose to do when your at a club dance and grind with a female . Why don't you want to dance at a club, So you're saying theirs not one girl that you know , That you wouldn't want to dance with .

[Asker]

I didn't say grinding with a girl was homosexual (why would it be?). Plus I do like do like dancing at clubs its just that I don't see the allure of grinding on random girls I don't know. I prefer dancing with minimal contact like I said.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand that , Not everyone would like a public display . I get that .

[rdabby]

No I don't even understand why do people grind with random people to begin with...

If I want to grind I would only do it with my man and my man only!

And I never did it! Dancing shouldn't be grinding anyway it should be just DANCING!

[DrakeEdward]

Personally, I could never understand Dry humping being twisted in to an artistic expression. It reminds me of my dog when I was a child always latching on to my grandmothers leg. I prefer the days when dancing was truly an art. I think your just as much as a man as the next guy. I do believe the saying goes " what ever floats your boat"...

[myspacemybroke]

No, it just means you aren't the permastiffied walking, semi-talking erection like the rest of us. There's nothing wrong with being either way.

[Anonymous]

i found it weird that you had to stress you were 100% hetero...

Who was that for? Our benefit or yours?

[myspacemybroke]

Lol this.

[Prof_Don]

He's disclaiming in case closed-minded people would say something like "you're gay; stop denying it" or something like that.

You probably know how vicious people can be on the internet. :-X

[Asker]

Yeah what these guys said :P. I've had a lot of experience with internet as we all have.

[Prof_Don]

I don't think there's anything WRONG with you, per-say.

You're just the type of person that takes sexuality seriously, instead of flinging it around everywhere like most of us horny males and females in this world do! :-P

[Anonymous]

I always thought that at least half of the guys really grinding with chicks at clubs were 100% homosexual.

[Asker]

Because they're not attracted to them so they feel comfortable doing it? Makes sense I guess.

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I always figured... Also that it's more accepted for "out" guys to like to dance.

[nermalinda]

no, it's fine. not everyone likes that, it's kind of just a fad I think.

[Anonymous]

Good. If a guy ever has the nerve to grind on me he's getting his ass kicked.

[Anonymous]

no, that makes you sound either shy or a classy guy. keep it that way.

[Anonymous]

I will grind, but only with my girlfriend.