I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend doesn't call me any more. What should I do?

Haha, don't worry man, I had the exact same freak out, except try living in Australia and her being in Fiji :P

Are you able to call her? Maybe she'd appreciate the effort from your side?

Are you able to communicate by other means (E-mail, MSN, SMS, hand-written letter, even MMS-sending her a picture of you could be a cute reminder of who she's missing)?

You mentioned that you've been with her yet unable to have a proper conversation. Here's something I only very recently discovered the solution to. So I kept trying to D&M with her and chat with her the way I always did, and it kept failing. I got paranoid, I got scared she was losing interest, everything. Finally when I kept bugging her, she blew up and told me that she feels like we've been living seperate lives and that she still DOES have feelings for me even though she mightn't express it as much any more. Well, I didn't feel this way at all. I felt like she wasn't putting as much effort into the relationship. And here's where the problem is: SHE was having her own life, while *I* wasn't. I just spent a week hanging out with other friends and doing different things, and it actually was enough to make me understand what she meant, because while I still missed her in that time, I was still happy to be hanging out with other people.

My point is man, are you managing to have your own life? Hang out with friends, do things you can't do when she's around (While still being faithful of course) and just live your life! So that the next time you DO talk to her, you'll be even more happy to see her and talk with her.

I know that sounds really difficult, but if you can pry yourself away from her for just a bit (Remember, she WANTS you to have fun if she really cares about you), you'll surprise yourself!

Ok, now that's the distracting yourself part. As for the talking to her part... Maybe it's best you just confront her next time you chat and say, "How've you been going?" Her mum mentioned something's up, so maybe you can be the one to help her? If she says nothing's wrong, then leave it at that, but maybe you should also try and subtly ask her, "Why don't we have proper conversations like we used to?"

I hope you get SOMETHING useful out of this, man. It sounds like a bunch of random facts haha, but hopefully at least some of it helps :)

i wonder if she has had achange in friends and who she hangs out with more. that tends to do quite a bit when you hang out with one group of friends vs another. ummm I have been fortunate enugh to not go thru that yet but I am also in a longdistance relationship so I understand your pain. I agree with markh and think that may be the problem I hope it is and I wish you luck!