What are some risque, edgy things I can say to girls...

I'm flirting with this guy lately who's really good at doing that. Here are some examples from our last encounter:

1. I was talking to this older man named Hector and my object of interest walked by and said, "I see you've met Hector. He always flocks to the pretty girls."

2. I was telling him that my friend was late because she was at church and he said, "She must be praying for us for all the sinning that we're going to do later."

Granted, those aren't the easiest things to slip into everyday conversation, but the way he rattled them off was so suave and easy that I didn't think twice about it. I think if you can inject these little hints into your conversation easily and confidently, you can definitely get away with it. It's all about making her comfortable in other ways, too, like putting your arm around her so easily. In our minds it says, "Back off, she's mine," but it doesn't seem outrageous at all.

I guess what I'm trying to say in this long, rambling post is that if you truly are a nice guy, you're probably not going to come across as a sleaze so you can ramp things up a bit and be successful!

Hi Sonic,

It's not so much -- what-- you say, but --how-- you say it ...

Body Language is VERY important, and if you make her feel like she's the only woman in the room, I'd say you've sealed the deal.

It's really a matter of imagination on your part and creativity. It's liek flirting but it comes from you. I guess commenting on how she looks really beautiful and go from there.