What I would talk about with girls?

[Boana]

Hello! I am a man in my early twenties, and I have never been in a relationship with a girl for various reasons. One of the main issues is that I struggle with knowing what to say or which topics to discuss. I usually focus on science, education, football , religion, and politics when conversing, but when talking to girls, I find they often prefer discussing something that I have no idea what is it. This has been a challenge for me when trying to have a girlfriend , cause all my discussing is about something like (which is better c or CPP". Can anyone offer advice on how to navigate this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, I totally get the struggle of not knowing what to talk about with girls. Don't even sweat it, conversation skills just take practice. Here are some ideas of stuff girls usually like chatting about:

- ask her about her interests, hobbies, favorite movies/tv shows/music. People love talking about themselves!

- talking current events is cool, but steer clear of heavy politics. keep it lighthearted

- compliment her outfit or hair - girls dig a guy who notices that stuff

- share funny stories from your day or something funny that happened. make her laugh!

- ask questions to get to know her, like where she's from, favorite vacation spot

- food is always a safe topic - favorite restaurants or recipes

- talk about your goals, dreams for future, what you're passionate about

- share cool places you've been or want to visit together

Don't overthink it man, just listen and be interested in her. You'll learn her style over time. And try not to just lecture about science - weave it into conversation naturally. You got this dude! With practice you'll be chatting up girls no problem.

[bededazzle]

this shows that you are overthinking :). you should talk about what interests you, but be sure to be very polite and listen. really though, the best approach is to ask questions and listen. women love men who are good listeners. if you don't know what they are talking about, simply express this, but be curious. however, you should not let a woman command the conversation. you are allowed to say what you like too. you seem very articulate. the worst thing that could happen is you get embarrassed and run away, and a woman might also find this cute :(. good luck

[Billlewis]

Ask her about what kind of food she likes, etc.