How to talk to a girl if she's way too shy?

[Anonymous]

So I like this girl and I know she likes me too. (Her friends told me). But the thing is when I try to talk to her she looks visibly nervous and is always in a hurry. She never does this to any other guys she talks to. I have tried to talk to her many, many times but she walks away or even when I try to make eye contact with her she looks, and not just looks away, she literally moves her whole body so she doesn't see me. Sometimes she's on her phone when we talk and barely looks at me. How the hell am I suppose to talk to a girl who is this shy? She seems to be able to stare at me from distances but extremely shy when she is around me.

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I have texted her and she does respond energetically but still the same old shyness IRL.

[NZGirl07]

Try not to be loud or overwhelming when talking to her. See if you can talk to her alone instead of infront of people. Let her know some of your flaws or discomforts to put her at ease and make yourself relatable to her, for example talk about you being nervous for a test, or tell her some of your emotions about things. Try complimenting her to show you are kind and interested. And have patience. My ex was very quiet and closed off at the beginning, but I peservered with conversation and kindness until he opened up.

[Horse-girl]

As a shy girl myself I find that if a guy smiles at me I feel more open and comfortable around them. When I like someone I do get nervous but I still look at them a bit, usually when I think they aren't looking. The best advice I can give you is to just keep being friendly and maybe try to get her to open up through text. Also being friendly with her friends may help make her feel more comfortable around you. Good luck I hope you manage!

[ChrisMike1919]

Patience is the key. Maybe the key to open her to you.

[Blackcosmo]

I'm also a shy girl so you got to be as gentle and friendly as possible. That will make her feel more comfortable. If you want you could ask one of your friends to pass on the message that you like her. S

[Blackcosmo]

Also good luck!

[boggboss]

Ask her friend or try messaging her online

[Asker]

Oh about that, I have texted her which she responds quite energetically but still the same shyness in real life.

[boggboss]

So ask her over text

[slatyb]

Wrote a note.