Girls, Did I chase her too hard?

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So year's ago me and a girl met at college. I becomes quite interested in her and attracted. It appeared she feot the same way. Before we starter speaking she would often glance at me, and get annoyed it I chat to other girls.

So I forced myself to go up and talk to her. But I was nervous. It showed when I introduce myself. She was shy but I had a feeling she liked me back. But I knew it would take sometime. She would tell her friends about me and give all the usual signs. I would often go up to her at break and talk. It seemed just a matter or time before she become more comfortable with me. But then she started to act hot and cold. She wasn't talking much or looking at me.

So I left her to it and stopped going to talk to her. And she was upset she was waiting for me to speak to her and wearing a lot of make up. I found out she had a boyfriend. She didn't tell me. I disappeared for 3 months. When I returned she kept staring like she was upset when I was joking with friends. Then she started at the wall in meetings.

After that it was like I didn't exist to her. This went on for a few months. I decided on our final week to chat to her one last time. I asked if she wanted to grab coffee she was indecisive. I asked if we could have each other on social media she said she had a boyfriend. I said why didn't you say all that time ago and she got defensive I said why no have me on socials. She did she have boyfriend. I said if it does not work we can hang out. I found out later her boyfriend was controlling

So I walked off and left her to it. Months later I added have socials and for year's she kept me pending. Then accepted, then her ex boyfriend made her block me.

I added months after as I heard they split but she did not follow back. I found it she has new boyfriend. I don't get how he got the girl and me not when she had showed she liked me at one point did I chase too hard?

Girls, Did I chase her too hard?
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