How can you teach a guy a lesson?

you need to spend some time apart and I mean like months. its his only way he MIGHT learn. my ex boyfriend would do this to me too. and I would always take him back then he eventually left me for good! and I regret taking him back the first time! we have been broken up for a month now. I can tell he misses me but he hasn't asked to get back together. even if he does I probly won't cause I'm moving on and talking to other guys. anyway I suggest take time, without any contact! he needs to realize that he can't keep doing this to you! if you keep taking him back too easily he will trust me, I did that. then maybe when you spend time away you will be like me, and kinda move on. I know how hard it is but it will get better I promise! I hope this helped =)

Guys like this might eventually leave for good... but why not at least leave him with a life lesson. I can't tell you how many times I have done this... and the guy is none the wiser. There is 2 ways and both are pretty mean, and not completely honest. My 1st ex and I kept doing what you guys are doing... until I took him back... and dumped him the same day. Another option... don't just make him beg... make him beg and plead... on hands and knees preferred. Believe it or not both guys I have done this to... well one is my husband, and the ex... well... I'm always on his mind, as he is still trying to get me back.

dont take him back. he's immature and its stupid what he's doing. He already knows you'll take him back because youve done it 5-6 times. so this time, don't take him back. Then he has to face the fact that his decision was a bad one and now he can't have you. Just give yourself time to get over him completely, stay completely clear of him so he doesn't persuade you into taking him back, and cut off all connections with him. He seems to be waisting your time, and by taking him back your only huring yourself and giving him control. hope this helps you