+1 yHey, I am a white girl and I moved to Florida- I know SEVERAL girls (including myself) that have found Asian guys attractive. The issue you may be facing however is- when I was single, I had the disturbing fact told to me that Asian men disliked white women... I mean, I was pretty upset by this and for a while legitimately believed it^. Now, after a great deal of maturing, I realized that was an opinion. By the way, girls take a while to mature, just as guys do... So don't be suprised when girls don't realize your worth, let alone their own.. My best advice is to let the girls know your intersted, I had a friend who was Asian and waited 5 years to tell me he would have wanted a relationship, looong after I was taken, lol. I think that you just need to find someone who you get along with^^ personally I thought for sure I hated white guys. But in reality it was just my defense for rejection and beleif in stereotypes-- I didn't think white guys would like a chick who wants to draw while eating pizza and refrencing Star Wars^ but hey, there is a person out there :)) just have to be open to finding them. Also!! Believe it or not, girls can and will get sick of the bad boy act^ so being nice helps you shine from the rest. Buuuuut I'd be lying if I generalized and said: "girls don't want to be chased"... some girls, like guys want to know they are wanted.. yet, they also want to still have a little depth and mystery to it. (I really hope this was at some point informative or helpful, lol, I am actually bad with the whole people-interacting stuff ^^)
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I've tried. I've gotten screamed at, racist slurs, even false accusations. I'm a good and bad boy at the same time. I admit to being a math and computer nerd, but I'm also a goth and heavy metal fan.
Part of the reason why I prefer white women is my love of Europe, I've even tried learning German in college.
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an Asian guy who doesn't prefer petite Asian girls? praise the heavens, my prayers have been answered!
i'm more attracted to Asian guys (not all of them, but the majority--i think I have a thing for Asians in general. I think they're just adorable!), but all the cute Asian guys seem to be taken by cute Asian girls! :facepalm: now what am I supposed to do?
i'm 5'11.5'', I just tell people I'm 6 ft and most of them believe me. unfortunately, I'm not white, I have an olive colored complexion. but yea...it seems like Asian guys wouldn't like me as much as an Asian girl. anyway, I don't really know how to help you...i just act like I've already got the guy (like I don't have to win him over) and some of the guys that shot me down-including asians!-seem to come back to me that way. but it's a little different for everyone05 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThere is nothing wrong with liking white girls ! I'm Asian I'm five nine I'm blond I have green eyes and a small nose so I also prefer white boyd and it doesn't make a deference
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if you dye your hair and use fake contacts why mention it like its somethign you're born with?
Opinion Owner+1 yIt's natural !
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI know many girls who think Asian guys are cute, and if you're taller than most then believe me you are perfect! White girls are disappointed because Asian boys tend to date with Asian girls but that is because you think white girls who are so pretty will never like them back. If she like Asian music or anime then is yours! :) All you have to do is behave naturally and from discussions with it her you can tell if she like you. You can practice talking to white girls on a dating site like this: newdateproject, and nobody knows, you may meet your future wife :)
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I do not see Asian guys hitting white girls over here but the other way around perhaps boys hold on to traditional values more than girls of he same background who tend to reject the strict values and upbringing.of home.
And all depends what type of white girls you target.but yeah there are tall beautiful Asian girls too the problem is cultural divisions run deeper amongst Asians that among whites.10 Reply
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I also live in Florida (UF has quite a lot of diversity as opposed to my hometown). They have to be attracted to you, but that requires you to be open and show your personality to the girls you are interested in. I know some girls have preferences, as do guys (as you just said) and I can't speak for all girls, but I really do like Asian guys (American or foreign) and I sometimes feel like they might not show interest or aren't into blondes. So maybe we feel the same way when it comes to uncertainty. Just be outgoing (but be yourself still) and talk to the girls you are attracted to and see how things work out :)
One question for you is: You say you get rejected by white girls, but do you have success with other ethnicities?04 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI don't think it's impossible, but if you come on to them saying "I"m an Asian guy who is only attracted to white chicks" they will probably reject you. ;) You've gotta play it smoother than that.
I know a handful of white girls who have dated Asian guys. However, if you are a quiet/studious type of guy and are chasing after party girls ... that might be your problem. Find an interest you have and use it to your advantage to meet girls who are into the same stuff. Try joining a rec sports league, if you're into sporty chicks.01 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yHi, so I searched "Asian" and found your question. Anyway, I have a question for you. Would you ever consider dating an Asian girl like me? I'm 6' (my female Asian friends are all around 5'2" so I agree with the part that they look like dwarves). I do well academically, but I come by it naturally and have never studied for a test in my life until I went to university. I'm very laid back and love just sitting around spending time outdoors. So what do you think of me?
Also, I find that tall Asian girls go for non-Asians because they are generally taller. I personally have my eyes on a 6'3" white guy, but that's because I have a hard time finding tall Asian guys. And all the tall Asian guys I do find are like you looking for white girls. lol it's hopeless.01 Reply- +1 y
its not just height... people want attractive people and thats a combination of many features. i m 510 and date whites and whatever all the time. but i m westernized and a social butterfly so
+1 yHi does it have to be white girls? why do Asian men like white women if not asian. I am Hispanic and I love Asian men but they seem to only like white and asian. I don't like Hispanic guys because their all short and go for all the short girls. I am 16 years old and I am 5'6 so I am tall for most Hispanic women and I haven't even hit my final growth spurt yet. I am also very skinny since I have such a high metabolism and long legs. I am not like most Hispanic girls who are usually short and have long torsos. So do they have to like White girls or how about a Hispanic girl that has white qualities.
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i m one of those... i only like Asians a whites... i use to like hispanic chicks but i find it hard to trst them or feel comfortable around a lot of them for some reason... btw, hispanic could be anything from black to white hahaha i m not into darker skinned girls
5K opinions shared on Other topic. The problem is you aren't broadening your horizons. You're targeting only a specific racial group. If you were more open to other races, you'd have a way better chance.
Also, I'd like to just say you not getting a white woman is just your luck. I'm sure there are plenty out there for you, its just that you haven't found them yet. Keep looking, and eventually you will.21 Reply- +1 y
but thats the whole point. he wants a white gf and wants suggestions.
+1 yWell you can thank the media for demasculenizing the Asian male. Personally I ONLY date Asian men now after having a couple and what do you know, I live in Florida (Near Jacksonville). My current boyfriend is chinese and he has only ever dated white women. He has had no trouble at all in the dating department and sitting here asking him for you he says: "Well just be confident, your race doesn't matter it's all about how you present yourself to a woman. Dress well and dress up. Walk around in a 3 piece suit and look like a million bucks, trust me, you'll get girls"
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Glad to hear a comment like that. The area of Florida that I live in, however, is the Miami metropolitan area. Part of the main reason why I prefer white women is because of my fascination with European culture. I LOVE Scandinavian culture to death! I tried to learn German in college. I am a heavy metal enthusiast (which has a majority white fanbase). Personality has a large factor in my preference.
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agreed. yes being Asian might not help you since whites are at the top of the power/attraction scale but if your confident funny and know how to balance things, you have a good change...
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youre* and chance
+1 yI am! I'm currently dating a 6'2" Chinese guy, and at first I was shocked that he was attracted to me. But now I'm starting to think that it's because I'm closer to his height than most Asian women (I'm 5'10.5"). I've always had a thing for Asian men, but I prefer men who are taller than me, so that's been my only real deterrent 'til now. Couldn't be happier! So yeah, there are always exceptions. :)
10 ReplySo you penalize them for wanting to be successful? Nice! Most white girls our age are sluts. Go to a party and you will have no problem picking up one, especially if you are into the college scene.
12 ReplyI am seeing more Asian male with white female. you will just have to get yourself out there and talk to white girls. it will happen. your height helps and just be open to chat and say hi.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYep... Hahaha. But beware cause not all white girls are up for the challenge, and admittedly everyone is in their own way racist. In fact I'm white and I like an Asian guy only problem he hates blond hair and I was the lucky girl born with it.
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+1 yMost white girls aren't attracted to Asian guys
Few Asian guys have the qualities that white and black men have
And then there's the stereotypes...03 Reply- +1 y
white girls have hit on me multiple times... are you talkin gabout penis size of a black male and chissled features of a white male?
+1 yBe confident.. I like Asian men, im 5'8 .. just be confident and smile, calm and turn on the funny.
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Being funny is not something that I'm good at, unfortunately. I have an extremely poor sense of humor, given that I'm mostly a quiet and stoic person. I mean, I used to be more emotional during my younger years, but now, I'm mostly a silent loner. However, I don't freak out like I used to and take responsibility like a man.
That's why I'm thinking of importing a white mail order bride from Russia or Ukraine, since they'd be able to handle an unemotional man like me, as opposed to Americans, let alone white Americans.
i have no idea. but i am sure being Asian is not the reason why you get rejected.
im Asian and 6'and fit.
my face is considered good-looking by Asian girls. i prefer Asian girls, but i have more white girls who like me all the time.01 Reply- +1 y
Exactly, her saying she doesn't date Asian guys is a polite way of saying "she doesn't want to date you because you are unattractive or you have a bad personality." Any Asian guy who is a smooth talker can date white girls. Also, girls don't like awkward virgins or maybe they do, so play up the virginity card.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYou need to convert to Catholicism. Latin girls are Catholic and only want to date/marry Catholic men. European women are mostly Catholic or protestent, and are attracted to Catholic men.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yBe more open about which white girl you choose for example go for the ones you wouldn't normally go for and maybe you'll have better luck cuz as a white girl myself I know a lot of other white girls who would be down for an Asian anytime but honestly they alwaydm seem to be the weird ones tbh
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yHonestly.. I feel the same about Asian men...(their fluffy hair, eyes and culture) But it seem as if Asians don't like African-American girls...😕
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I, for one, don't. A good number of African American women were attracted to me and asked me out and I turned all of them down.
It's most likely because they want a disciplined and family-oriented man, someone whom they've never had as children.
But I also don't find Asian women attractive either, I only prefer white women, due to me finding them the most attractive and my love of Europe , as opposed to Asia, Africa, or the Middle East.
Opinion Owner+1 yI hope you find your Caucasian love!😊
if you're speaking of that particular group of African-American women.. Then don't take this in a mean way..😐
In my opinion I don't like Asian men just because they are disciplined or because they are from Asia. Nor do I find them attractive just because I've never experienced their personality or race.
(Lol I hope i'm not coming off mean)
The reason why i find Asian men attractive is because I love their culture, eyes, fluffy hair and simply because I think half black and half Asian children look adorable.. Indeed I do not want just an ordinary Asian guy... I want someone who is beyond compare..(priceless) I can find that with another race.. But it's just my preference..
For you...
It can be numerous of Caucasian women or it can be numerous of Middle East women that will find you more attractive...
The only thing is.. we don't always control our fate... We can get lucky😉 or we can easily get something else😫- +1 y
So you want your genes mixed with Oriental ones? I've also noticed that a good number of African American women who like Asian men are anime and manga fans and are easier to impress than the white fans.
But, I'm not too big into anime and manga myself, being more of a Star Trek and horror film buff, plus I don't have a lot of interest in African American culture, given that I am a metalhead and a goth; therefore, I am more into European stuff.
With relationships, there have to be a really deep connection between the two. Like a white buddy of mine is with a black woman and people give them the weird looks, but the thing is, they're both scientists and their love of chemistry is what bonded them, literally.
Opinion Owner+1 yI assume you have something against African-American women... I don't like anime nor do I like manga... (Thank you for your compliment on the whole impress thing...) Secondly, not all African-American women are like the ones you experienced or what you heard of... I like : love stories (k-drama! Heck love in general!) , adventure, physics, and history! ✌🏾️😄
I'm kinda wondering where you are... Because the area I live in you see white and black couples, Latino and white couples, and black and Asian couples ( kinda rare)... If people look... they are looking at the relationship not because of their race but because of love...❤️😕
The relationship I saw... Was a African-American woman with a Asian male (Korean)... Most beautiful child ever... Their eyes look slanted but big with nice beautiful hair... The cutest chubby cheeks you will ever see!!!
Opinion Owner+1 ySo yes... It will be a honor... to become a wife to a handsome Asian and have beautiful children... A great life!!😊
Opinion Owner+1 yOh I LOVE ENGINEERING!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Opinion Owner+1 yHonestly, don't listen to frodo1... Never change your handsome eyes for no one!! I know you won't care due to the fact you don't know me nor do I know you.. But I will make me very sad... Knowing that an Asian, you, changed your handsome eyes for someone who can come and go...
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I have nothing against African American women, however, I just don't find them attractive nor do I even find Asian women attractive either.
I only like white women, who seem to be the most difficult to impress, especially if they're attractive or even average. Plus, I have a lot of interests that a good number of African American women are not into, like the goth subculture, heavy metal, computer programming, and LaVeyan Satanism.
This one tried hitting on me, but whoever said that opposites attract needs to be waylaid. I am a Korean-American atheist with no children and she was an African American Christian with children.
Opinion Owner+1 yOkay... First, I'm interested into computer programming.. It's my hobby actually... But the whole satan thing... Yeah I'm not very fund of that actually... im actually kinda scared even thinking about satan... I'm a Jehovah witness... So we were taught that satan is really bad... So yeah... But it's your religion... I won't judge you...
I'm actually focusing on my education so I actually don't have time for dating nor do I have time for intercorse (I haven't even been with a guy like that so...)
Off the awkward note... umm... this is really awkward...😬😬😬😬
But ummm there is a girl for you somewhere who is into satanism... I guess.. And heavy metal... And goth...
How can you worship satan? Just out of curiosity... I hope I didn't offend you? Or made you angry?
Opinion Owner+1 yLove koreans☺️!!
Opinion Owner+1 yWow...
if you seriously think this whole European goth thing is going to get you a Caucasian girl... Then you're wrong...
Don't change yourself because you want someone to accept you..
Although you are 10 years older than me... I'm sure that if you would just be yourself and stop trying be this whole bad boy and goth guy... You will get the girl you want.
Im One of the 4percent people who scored the highest in the country (on my test)... I'm very proud of myself and everyone else is.
But you know what.. I'm even More proud that I didn't let people get in the way of that.. Because they wanted. Me to change
By the comment you post. I realize that you are so use to people comparing you to your nationality.. Thinking that just because your Korean you love Korean things. You prep yourself up because plenty of african-American women Came after you.. But honestly you missed out. Because you was so focused on the Caucasian thing you're not happy.. Don't be upset with me.. please don't.😔
Opinion Owner+1 yAre you being sarcastic right now?
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I'm not being sarcastic, this is serious. I love math (which is the nerdy side of me), but I also like dark and spooky stuff too.
If you like Asian men, I respect that and hope you find someone, but with me, I have a love of Europe , so it's partly a cultural thing for me to like white women.
Opinion Owner+1 ySorry... Sometimes girls can take things wrong...
I guess we are emotional creatures.. No?
Thank you! I hope I find someone who looks like song byung-chul!
And I guess your not a complete mean guy... I'm happy you're a nerd!
I hope you find your Caucasian girlfriend one day!
And I get your point!
I'm starting to learn how to cook Korean food🍜
Kimchi is really spicy! But I love Korea!
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThat's to be expected.
Asian men, Black men, and Asian women are the ethnicities who are most expected and most likely to 'prefer' a.k.a. be ethnically biased/borderline prejudice and direct their ethnic insecurities to their dating life by glamorizing white people or people who don't share their background.
Idk how many Asian men I've seen who find some excuse to make it seem okay that they have self hate issues and solve them by dating and breeding with white women.015 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 y"I have a preference" is becoming a statemet people use to try and justify and excuse the fact that they're wrongly being ethnically biased. Doing that most commonly stems from self hate.That's what I'm talking about.
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how so, I'm failing to see the logic in that correlation you made. " I have a preference," simply means he prefers white women over Asian women, stated because it is assumed people naturally are attracted to their own race more predominently. Where is this " self - hate," coming from?
Opinion Owner+1 yoh, sweet-o-ness, stfu already always running around here speaking to everyone like you know everything. The correlation is simple; if you can't see it then you're not as much of a smart ass as you like to believe.
QA, you're just another Asian who hates themself and worships whiteness. It's absolutely pathetic.
Opinion Owner+1 yNo, I won't chill out. Self hating, white worshiping Asians are annoying.
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FYI. I'm also Asian American but 5'8. Most Asian guys i know just go for other Asian girls, but like this guy I like white girls. Not for an excuse but because to me most Asian girls look the same (Not that they can't be pretty). But dating them would be like dating someone from my family which would be weird. That's why I'm attracted to white girls and girls who look nothing like me! I rest my case.
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@TKasap Yeah, and I find it hypocritical that white men would do anything for Asian women, yet they get mad when they see white women with Asian men.
And to a lesser extent, I see hypocrisy from Asian women too. They kiss up to white men, yet they get jealous when they see Asian men with white women.
Fuck this, us Asian men should start forgetting about Asian women and go for the white women only. See how they like it. - +1 y
As a point most white men I see dating Asian women are short white guys. I guess that's because White's and Asians perceive height differently. I know from my family. I think what Asians consider normal whites consider short and what Asians consider tall whites consider average. Of course there are exceptions. But I think that because Asian girls consider short white guys average, it's easier for them to date an Asian than a white. Unfortunately for me, I have a big challenge being 5'8 and looking for a white girl and white girls are taller.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yKeep trying. Plenty of white girls I've known say they find Asian guys attractive ... as long as they're tall.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI would gladly trade you. lol
I don't really have advice for you. I've noticed that girls are douches to Asian guys. It seems pretty bad. Basically, I'm answering to wish you luck.00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 y00 Replycan't undrstand what is the problem wth it
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