All Questions

Do guys notice small changes in a girls appearance ?

Do guys generally notice small changes in a woman's appearance ? If they do , do they normally comment on it ? Today I was talking to a guy that I normally see to talk to about once a week . I have had my hair cut...

Spangle

Xper 5 Age: 57

Family & Friends

Boyfriend wants me to stop seeing my male friend

A guy friend of mine (Ben) and a girl friend of my boyfriend's (Amy) have recently become very interested in each other. Recently Amy told my boyfriend that Ben likes me. I knew that Ben was interested in me in the past...

RoxyKAy

Xper 4 Age: 32

Why would a guy be embarrassed that he likes a girl?

Why would a guy be embarrassed? Is it because the girl is ugly? Is he shy? Afraid of rejection? He will flirt with her and talk to her in public, but is still embarrassed

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend has no friends.

Hi. I'm worried about my 24 year old boyfriend. He has told me that he has no friends anymore. He used to be very social and had many friends, but for the past year or so he has pretty much lost all his friends and I...

lehx112293

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

My girlfriend being unfair,and acting crazy

Hello everyone, I love my girlfriend and she loves me too.She has a lot of things going on right now,school problems,family issues, she really has a lot on her plate,and she has told me recently that she feels very...

lonzen

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

Guys, is it a turn off if a girl is taller than you?

Obviously it might be a little weird if the girl you approach is significantly taller than you... So I mean more like an inch or two. If you take interest in a girl, could you get over the fact that your a bit insecure...

bowsandbeaus

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girls which car is more attractive on a guy and why?

Used (2008) BMW 320d link or New 2012 Kia Optima link and why? Does the fact that the BMW is used matter to you?

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm 20 in college and I never had sex or a girlfriend

Do I have mental issues? I got my braces off, so I have straight teeth, I've been working out consistently with a few friends, and I actually am good looking (nice nose, mouth, and jawline, etc)... I still fear girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't my crush even look at me anymore but instead laugh at me when I walk past him?

My crush will look straight mast me, as if I'm invisible and not there. He won't dare look me in the eye. Although, when I walk off and then look back, I catch him stealing glances at me. He does this really annoying...

HoneySpiceSugar

Xper 5 Age: 37

GUYS! he says were "chilling" what does that mean?

Ive been seeing this guy for about3 months and at this point I'm not quite sure what's going on so I asked what are we doing as far as our status and he responded I like you and you like me were chilling so my question is...

hopromantic

Xper 7 Age: 33

What does it mean when your boyfriend says he has a surprise for you

what does it mean when your boyfriend says he has a surprise for you and will not tell you until he sees you. that your expresion on your face is going to be priceless. and your told its a gift that represents a new...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do guys tell the truth when they're drunk?

My guy says demeaning things to me when he's drunk. I want to know if that's the way he really see's me. He also gives golf lessons - he told me while he was drunk that one of his clients booked a lesson because she...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it socially acceptable for Asian women to be underweight?

I like skinnier girls! I have found that most of the girls that I really like are Asian. Some of these Asian girls are VERY small and skinny. Often to the level that would be considered anorexic in the USA. That is,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my boyfriend not take care of his child?

This has been bothering me for a while. My boyfriend of 3 years has a 7 y/o child who lives with his parents. he has no intention of having her live with us. He wants a life with just me and him. I have grown children so...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls with scumbag guys?

i don't get this I always see these girls that are gorgeous with guys that are either scumbags are guys that treat them like sh*t. Why?

Kayo512

Xper 6 Age: 35

How do I know if I'm just getting a pity date?

I asked out a friend (or at least someone I've known a couple years) and from her behavior afterward and during and after the date, I just got the vibe that she was just saying OK to one because I know her and she didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do European guys think about Pakistani girls?

Would you ever consider dating a girl of Pakistani origin for something serious that could lead to marriage? Often it seems if European guys are interested in girls from other ethnicities it's only for fun just as an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys ONLY make eye contact with girls they find attractive?

Do guys ONLY make eye contact with girls they find attractive? In other words, if you're unattractive to them and they don't like you, they won't bother to look in your direction at all? As for eye contact, I mean at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Do older women have interest for younger men ?

I have a guy friend (kinda not technically got hit by an older woman) say older woman isn't interested on younger men like him. (he is cute by the way lol)

reneewg

Xper 6 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Is it cute if a girl can't dance or is it a turn off?

I'm a terrible dancer. I just don't pick up on that stuff. I'm really slow at learning it and I get confused and overwhelmed. I can dance a little at concerts and that sort of thing- I just mean in a situation where...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How many people here think Amanda Todd 'deserved' what happened to her?

If you do, please explain why you think so.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he keep reminding me about his birthday?

My sex buddy for a year keeps reminding me his birthday is coming up. He hasn't asked me if we can do something special or anything like that but I am wondering is he expecting me to get him a gifft or do something...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Why does my boyfriend says I am "cute" instead of hot or beautiful?

other guys find me hot and stunning even chase me down on the street to say hi or give me their card. he will only say hot once or twice, like when he is out of town and he says he is worried and said he always worry...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My Ex Is Stalking Me Via Mutual Friends??

Found out that my ex has been asking mutual friends about me behind my back. She may have created an alternate Facebook account to stalk me or is using someone else's to stalk me. She knew that I had transferred to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy takes your phone from you?

So I was a football game tonight and I had my phone and he took it from my hand and then when I wasn't looking he put it into his pocket and told me he did not have it and then later he gave it back to me.

hcataldo2

Xper 3 Age: 29

What do East Indian men find so attractive about white girls?

So I live in an area of North America where there's quite a high amount of East Indians. One would think that, due to most being quite culture, religion, and family oriented, they would prefer to date other East Indian...

kaylaS91

Editor Age: 33

Guys why would a shy guy ignore a girl that he likes?

If you are really into a girl and showed a lot of interest and made all the first moves towards her like getting in contact with her , asking her for her # and planed the first meeting. But after the first time meeting...

sabby19

Xper 5 Age: 32

Is it a bad sign of a girl only wants to meet during the day and other things?

I met a girl, we talked and I got her number. She agreed to have lunch with me, and set up a place and time. She then said she wanted to bring a girlfriend along. We had a great time. We later had dinner again and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl does not reply to a text in a timely manner, is she not that into me?

Thinking about that movie, "hes just not that into you" I wonder if the reverse is true. I know with women, they will almost chase a guy that they are into, and he can give pretty strong signs he doesn't want them, but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, why do guys purposely annoy girls or try and get a reaction out of them?

1) why do guys tell sex jokes or just flirt in a sexual manner? 2) how can you tell if a guy likes you vs him being nice 3) do guys ever out grow shyness as they age? 4) why do guys purposely annoy girls or try and get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How many American presidents are not buried in the United States?

Lets test American's knowledge of their own... (Q too short...)

Betwyn

Guru Age: 35

I dreamed about kissing my guy friend and I'm a guy (not gay)

Basically, I have this friend (he's not good looking in my opinion, even though I'm straight) and I dreamed about kissing him. I was teaching him how to kiss, I crawled on top of him (basically mounted him) and started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend hasn't texted me in 2 days

Hey hey. I bet this question is a common one. Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We've never had a fight or argument, really. We only see each other on the weekends (45 minutes away), but every...

bmo83

Xper 5 Age: 42

Health & Fitness

Is a thick waist unattractive? And how to lose weight around my waist?

I'm not fat but I just got a rather thick waist. My measurements are 35-28-37 (as comparison Adriana Lima: 34-24-35; Alessandra Ambrosio: 34-23-34 ; Doutzen Kroes 34.5-24-34.5) so Ideally my waist would be 4 - 5 inch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

BOYS: Is being too DIRECT a bad thing?

I went on a great date with this guy (him and I had met 2 times prior to our date in a group setting). We made out at the end of the date and he said we should go on another date. He also texted me the next day saying we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does dating feel like such a chore for me?

Full disclosure: I've only been on two first dates with girls so my experience is limited. However, I found on both of those dates that they weren't worth it based on the work I put into asking the out and planning it....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does spooning mean to a guy?

I had 5 of my close friends come out to my ranch, and we grilled steaks and burgers and then all of us went on a walk through my pasture, came back to the house, ate and then build a fire and all of layer down on the...

christyfanning

Xper 5 Age: 30

A question for goth/punk/metal girls here?

1. would you find a guy that dressed clean cut, in solid color t-shirt or polo shirt and jeans as too proper, boring, bland or preppy? 2. are there any big personality differences between a girl who dresses...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Men blame women, and women blame themselves?

Why is it that when a woman can't get guys very easily, she blames herself. But when a man can't get girls very easily, he blames women. I've just noticed this in real life and through seeing many questions here. It seems...

Anonymous

(30-35)