All Questions

Guys, when did you start caring about your appearance?

Almost everyone hits a point where they're tired of their look. They become attracted to the opposite gender and want to make themselves look better. I've been trying to get my brother to look better. By that I mean, take...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

My girlfriend is shy around me but not around everybody else?

My girlfriend is always shy around me, she never knows what to say to me but when she hangs out with her friends and family she is loud and is very talkative. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?I have asked her about it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm pretty, smart, charismatic, and a college student. Why am I not being asked out?

I go to a pretty big university. I am also in a sorority that has a pretty good standing on campus. I was a transfer so technically this is my second semester of being on campus and I have yet to go on a date or be asked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys what does it mean when a guy pulls you close?

So this guy that I know pulled me close like a "hug" but our lower body was touching and his hands where on the bottom of my waist, after that he gave me a kiss on my cheek what does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men what do you get out of hugging a female friend?

I just loves hugs , My friend doesn't miss a beat . Every time he sees me he wants a hug , If I don't give him one he wants to know what's wrong with me . It could be 3 hugs in a week , He doesn't do this with others...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Would you feel bad if you didn't hear from him/her all day?

Maybe it's just me... but today I heard nothing from my boyfriend. Not a message, not a phone call not even a missed call. Nothing... and I feel really bad about it. He usually phones himself cause he has free credit so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl, do you like guys who are fitness freak?

I like being fit and healthy and due to that I am in tremendous shape,so if you say to a random girl,you are having friendly conversation in gym that your a fitness freak and she responds I can see that,does that mean...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I get so easily and quickly infatuated with people that I find attractive. Does this happen to you?

I fall for guys so so easily, it sucks, but I can't help it. I think about them a lot even after very little interaction. Do you have advise on how to avoid feeling like this so quickly?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

My guy friend remembers everything I tell him?

My guy friend always surprises me at how much he remembers of what I tell him. We've been friends for about 3 months, but he still remembered some of the things I told him in our first conversation. We text a lot, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you like wide hips?

I'm slim but I have wide hips, my girl friends says that it doesn't look nice such hips, and they want to have "slim hips" . I can't change mine much, because losing weight won't help much because I'm already slim.....

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell if a guy really cares about you?

ok so guys give mixed reactions e.t.c...how do you know he genuinely cares for you ? Guys and grls can ansa...this shud be interesting :)

fragrance

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do guys like bandeau bikinis?

What do you guys think about bandeau bikinis? ... (question too short)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Playful punching mean anything?

I teased this girl and she punched me in the arm while laughing, we knew each other for less than a month. She laughs a lot at many things I say, but somehow I still think she could be friendly only? Some insights into...

tallstory

Xper 3 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend left me for his ex...where do I go from here? I'm dying inside

10 mo together, and the entire labor day weekend spent together we were just fine. my ex even complained that he wanted to spend more time on the phone with me at night. the past 3 weeks were crazy, getting him moved up...

laurami

Xper 6 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

I'm near underweight but I'm not slim?

I'm 164 cm tall and my weight is 52 kg ..and bmi calculator shows that I'm close to underweight . Can it be wrong? Because really I don't think I'm slim , I have fat legs and arms.. I have also friend who is same hight...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the qualities of a "fantasy girl"?

So I spent the weekend at a place where this great guy works, and on my last night there, while he was closing the place up, he told me that I was irresistibly attractive. I laughed it off, thinking that he was just being...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

He answered then hung up

I called my boyfriend earlier and heard him answer but he hung up quickly. So I thought maybe something happened so I called him back and no answer. then about 10mins later he calls back. Is that a red flag? I'm thinking...

Heartbroken1

Xper 5 Age: 39

Where is a sexy place for a tattoo on guys? Which tattoos on guys are sexy?

I want to get a few tattoos, but I have no idea where to put them. I want to get a few quotes and maybe the Croatian coat of arms or the coat of arms for my mothers side, or a coat of arms I make up for myself. The...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the meaning of kisses?

Like from different body parts. Whether it is your description or one you have heard, I would like to hear the meanings of different kisses (like forehead, cheek, nose, etc.)

Smidget2

Xper 5 Age: 34

Ladies, what size head do you find most attractive on a guy’s shoulders? Why?

Assume it’s in proportion with the rest of his body. Large, wide head (front) link link Medium, average head (front) link link Small, narrow head (front) link link Large, wide head...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, first a hug, then a fistbump..does he not like me?

I saw this guy at church today. He been showing a lot of strong signs of liking me (coming to a party only when I asked, coming and finding me at this big crowded event) but after today I was not so sure. I was actually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Did someone put something in my drink?

I went to party a couple days ago and I don't think I drank too much, I usually only drink enough to get buzzed. But I woke up in like the afternoon the next day practically on the side of the road with like some guys leg...

pixistix

Xper 4 Age: 33

Society & Politics

Is giving alcohol to dogs illegal?

Not that I do, but say someone 21 or over gave their dog alcohol and the dog enjoyed it. Does it count as abuse? Even if the dog liked it? I don't think there is a law, but do you think it should be a law? Or do you think...

HannahC

Xper 7 Age: 30

Would you date someone who lives an hour away?

Were both 18 By the way. Is an hour too long? Would you stop talking to someone because of the distance?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

She thinks I'm trying to control her

i have russian girlfriend, she loves me so much, and I feel the same to her, but she's driving me crazy, sometimes she said I'll do everything you want and sometimes she starts talking like she's someone else, and start...

aladdine

Xper 5 Age: 38

How would you know if a lesbian has a crush on you?

I mean...i can't tell if the girl is being friendly or 'friendly'.

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

Why is wanting to improve my dating life unethical!?

my story: learning to improve my social skills, conversational skills, self-esteem and confidence while enjoying connecting with strangers. my sources of information: Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, ph.d., Dr. Edward Dryfus ph.d....

guywithatie

Xper 5 Age: 36

Do girls just settle for nice guys in the end?

Scenario begins, as they so often do, with a young and nice girl first becoming attracted and involved with a known player/bad boy. Turns out she discovers that his type is not very healthy for her, she leaves, and...

kambo_trick3y

Guru Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

Ex-girlfriend contacts me out of the blue...What does it all mean?

Almost a month of NC and doing pretty good. On Saturday, my friends and I went out to a popular club, I saw my ex when I walked in and she was there with a another guy. I didn't make eye contact or say anything and went...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a girl calls you cute or adorable?

Is it different from being called hot or sexy? Is it condescending such as the way you'd refer to a baby or a puppy or does it show affection and interest?

hengyr

Xper 5 Age: 33

My boyfriend definitely loves his dog more than me!

He always talks about his dog all the f***ing time and his dog even wakes him up at night multiple times and he LETS it dog that. He never gets mad at his dog but my boyfriend has gotten mad at me multiple times for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why a girl asks a guy if he thinks another girl is pretty?

As above, this question really intrigues me. Not a girlfriend asking a boyfriend, but just single girl asking single guy what he thinks of other girls. What's up?

dudefromhere

Xper 5 Age: 37

If a guy says you're ugly what does it mean and why did he say it?

Ok a guy said I was ugly ( I'm not lol) many people have said I'm gorgeous and stuff but compared to other girls he thinks I'm ugly what do I do? guys and girls help :/

randomgirl1014

Xper 3 Age: 30