All Questions

Guys: What do you think about a girl with abs?

Do you like your girl to have abs or not? Turn on or turn off?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Tanning.... Help!? Can't seem to tan breasts, lower abdomen, or butt...

i tan naked, But I just started tanning naked this year. I have Indian in my blood, so I tan very easily, and tend to keep most of the tan all year long. The problem is.. I've been tanning for so many years without going...

daphneouellette

Xper 5 Age: 31

What if your child never wanted to be born?

It's hypothetical, and I'm not saying that he's depressed and wants to commit suicide The fact that he had no choice/consent in wanting to be born, it was forced upon him simply by the selfish actions of the parents to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why does he text me random things?

My ex text me randomly last week he asked what college did I choose to go to. Then he texted me yesterday asking for earrings that he can have Because I wear guy studs . I didn't text him back the first time but the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Guys does the jealousy game work with you?

I know its childish and normally I wouldn't pull it out, but my friend and I have been playing games with each other for about two years now. I'm ready to be done with it or at least gauge his interest a little better. I...

whattothink

Guru Age: 44

Guys, is there a reason for you to be speechless around a girl other than having a crush on her?

I mean if you are speechless around her for many many months but talks normally to everybody else.Thank you in advance for answering.

SouthEastAsian

Xper 3 Age: 51

Why is that some guys are turned off by strong women? Do they prefer women who are prim and proper?

I have a strong personality that doesn't seem to attract the guys I want to. I don't believe that I should tone down my personality but is this right?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean if a boy fidgets or moves a lot when he's talking to you ?

i was talking to my friend who's a boy that I like, and he was moving a lot! he had a bottle in his hand and he kept moving it from hand to hand? he also was just fidgeting and all that ? oh and he called me a stu which...

katie_mcn

Xper 5 Age: 33

She can't look me in the eye? What does this mean?

This girl I like was telling me a story and we were standing probably one foot facing each other. As she was telling me the story she would look at me for a split second and look down and away, and then turn her head to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you feel when your crush compliments another guy/girl in front of you?

I tend to feel like I'm less adequate for him. I immediately compare myself and feel down. I know its kinda silly, but it happens. Wbu?

Anonymous

(30-35)

The scale says I weigh less than ever, but I really have never looked chubbier?!

110 pounds and 5'7". I'm skinny everywhere else but my stomach is so chubby! I've been looking at the same scale and I went from 116 to 110 and my stomach looks fatter than before?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why does this guy always sing around me?

Okay this is a legitimate question, my classmate who I think likes me always sings around me and its songs like Boyfriend (Justin Beiber) or Layla (Eric Clapton) or other songs like them. So why does he do this? Is he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does this guy always takes his shirt off in front of me?

This guy that I know , He's a mutual friend of me and my man. But I noticed he likes taking his shirt off in front of me. We could be talking and instead of him going in the bedroom to change he does it right in front...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does it look like I'm balding and have a big forehead?

My mom commented on it today. She said in pictures it looks like I'm balding and it makes me look stupid. This is the pic I took today that caused this convo. Does it look like I am balding? Does it make me look bad and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird that I find girls attractive wearing the hijab?

In case you do not know what the is here's the definition and pics: A head covering worn in public by some Muslim women. link link For some reason, it looks nice to me. It's intriguing. Just to yet you know,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why the hell does my 12 year old sister scream so much?

All she ever does is scream at me, scream when things go wrong scream for no real reason. For example she will think the cat is going to pounce at her but will be crouched down starting at the cat and start screaming and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to lace Converse low tops (chuck taylor)?

Howdy I just bought some converse lows, but I have no idea how to tie the laces so that the bows don't show e.g. link I've done it with adidas high tops, but that was easy as you just put the bow behind your ankle...

lozza4

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why is she avoiding the boyfriend word in front of me?

There this girl I was interested in and we hit it off really well but I found out she had a boyfriend (she doesn't know I found this out) but she has never mentioned him to me and she never talks about him to any of her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Could I work out everyday if I'm taking Creatine?

The same muscle groups everyday. Creatine is supposed to lessen muscle breakdown and speed up muscle recovery, is this enough to make working out everyday a viable option?

tmc1324

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girls, how long do you ignore someone?

Girls, if a guy best friend, or a boyfriend upsets you, how long do you tend to ignore them? Do you expect them initiate contact after you have cooled down? Do you become stubborn? I just want to get an insight into the...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Other

I made out with three guys in one night?

Hi, I need to get this out. The other night me and my friends decided to go to this party, and I never go to parties or drink or anything like that and everyone at my school sort of knows me as kind off shy. Anyways, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is it okay to date your brother's ex girlfriend?

Hi I have a situation about my brother's ex girlfriend. I've always liked her and she wound up dating my brother for some reason only girls probably know lol. So they broke up and I really want to be with her, I always...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is your definition of petite?

Can a tall girl (5'8) be petite? is it the way a girl is built, small frame, skinny or does is it just height?

Mellinda

Xper 3 Age: 31

He cuddles and spoons with me, but isn't looking for a relationship?

I'm kind of confused. I'm okay with not getting into a relationship, but I would like someone to tell me through experience what this guy thinks of me. He's very respectful of me, and we get along well. We can get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

How can he love me if he only sees me once a fortnight?

He is very busy with work, but I've always believed free time is never given, that it is always made - as there will always be something to do. He says he loves me but how can he love me if only makes time for me once a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shy girl blocks me but stalks me?

Ok, so there's this really sweet but really shy girl I like. She's a little younger than me, and she's with a guy already, so we're just friends. I'm not a jerk to try to cheat with her, and I doubt she would anyway. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to become less approachable?

For the past 2 months lots of older men have been consistently hitting on me. every time I go out on my own to a store, mall, park, friends place etc. AT LEAST one older man will speak to me. Most of the time they're...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't like being called "lady" don't people call you that when you're OLD looking?

i was always referred to as girl or woman...and today someone referred to me as LADY and it felt really awkward and wrong because I'm not used to it...and I feel so old and self conscious afterward. I know its just a word...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Do you think it's weird for high school girls to date younger?

like, would it be weird if a sophomore girl dated a freshman guy. I know it wouldn't matter so much later in life, but what do you think? Just in terms of how people might see it. Like, I'm aware of all the potential...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: How do you feel about a bob haircut?

I cut my hair yesterday, and in the back it is mid-neck. The front of it is 1/2 of an inch above my collarbone. I actually really like the haircut because I feel that it suits me better than my long hair did (it used to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are backless dresses slutty?

So...i got into an argument with a friend about backless dresses..she kept saying it makes girls look cheap are whorish. I think they look cool link

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

Ladies, is it creepy or desperate if your crush approaches you while you are both walking opposite ways?

Like you are heading south while he's heading north. In my imagination, it should be considered desperate if not creepy if I go for the approach. Problem is I have dealt with this a lot in school. I see a girl that I find...

yellowmamba024

Explorer Age: 35

Awkward stage after rejection?

Is there anyway to get past the awkward stage after rejection where the two people can't even look each other in the eyes anymore or are they doomed to be forever stuck never speaking to each other again?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men like weak, submissive girls

after the way my ex treated me I am now a very strong minded, opinionated,open person who will stand up for herself and back then I was a very weak,shy girl...guys I know seem to like girls who act dumb purposely and are...

rachael19

Xper 7 Age: 35

How to tell a girl is interested/not through text messaging?

Is it possible? What are the signs that she is interested in you/not interested when sending her text messaging or Facebook?

Anonymous

(36-45)