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25 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl?

I am a 25 year old guy, who has never dated before, but before you jump to conclusions let me tell you a little about my life. When I was 17 years old, my Dad was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's disease. He took it really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Can you get a girl to put in a good word for you?

ok so say for example, you like a girl and you tell a female friend about her. Is it good to have her put in a good word for you? Like for example have her say to her, have you met such and such yet? He's such a nice guy....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my girlfriend fed up with me?

We've been together for almost 3 years and we've never had a major problem until a few months ago. She's about to graduate High school and is about ready go into college. Lately it seems like she's been distant and can't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Best way to build a STRONG spaghetti bridge?

I'm in a spaghetti bridge competition at school and my team and I have been doing a lot of research to build the best bridge and I was just wondering if any of you had any tips or anything about building a spaghetti...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

He wants to meet my sister? Is this a good sign?

this guy I've been exclusively dating today told me he wants to meet my sister and asked me why is that a problem to see her, why I haven't introdced him to her. we're not in boyfriend/girlfriend label.. he told me he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies with bubble butts that stick or poke out do you feel pencil skirts don't fit you well?

Well I have notice pencil skirts are design for women with wide hips and flat butts, but my butt stick out like a poke along with being wide, so I mostly buy dresses or skirts that are elastane to wear that can stretch...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What sleeping positions do you enjoy as a couple?

I really enjoy sleeping in a hugging position, with me and my girlfriend facing each other. I’d actually feel pretty lonely if we were sleeping in the same bed but not hugging or spooning (which is funny, because I don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Broad shoulders women like them?

I was reading some stuff online and it said women get turned on with a man with broad shoulders? I find that a little hard to believe.

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Yoda Age: 41

Girl's Behavior

Does these ear piercings look trashy?

Do these piercings, a cartilage and two lobes, look trashy to you? Say the girl is 20 and has no other piercings beside these on her ears. link And link

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies, Would You Date a Guy Younger Than You?

Im curious about this issue. I know a lot of times women date men much older than them, but I rarely see a woman dating a guy younger than them. So would you date a guy younger than you? If you would, how much younger,...

bassist58

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Why do girls/women stare at me so much and/or make eye contact?

I am 16 years old and not some special boy or something, as a matter of fact I have a really bad self-esteem, although I do not show it. Anyways, when I am cycling to school I can just feel girls' staring at me in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls how would you feel if your boyfriend cried in front of you?

My girlfriend finally persuaded me to tell her about my childhood/ family. I told the whole history of cheating, divorce etc and how I’d felt like I was being used as a pawn by my parents against each other and how I’d...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does one second lip touching count as kiss?

Lets say A is a girl and she was talking to her boyfriend when suddenly her boyfriend move his face forward and touch her lips with his lips. But it was only for one second and after that the boy didn't give any reaction...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Would this haircut suit me? Please be HONEST!!

I REALLY want this kind of haircut link link I want the fringe a lot, but as my face is round, I'm scared it's not gonna suit me :( Please can you tell me HONESTLY what do you think... link link...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How do shy guys try to get your attention?

If you see a girl you like and are interested in, but she doesn't really know you well, how do you try to get her to notice you? Do you wait for her to notice you or do you approach her?

greenjello13

Xper 6 Age: 31

I don't want to give him my address... other options?

I've been talking to this guy for a few months but he lives across the country. We've never met but he's incredible (From what I can tell)... My birthday is coming up and he said he wants to send me something. Obviously...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he just testing my patience?

Hi. I am just very confuse with this guy. First, we have made plans to meet, but he backed out the day before we meet saying that he is very busy with work and that he is still at work when he texted me (past midnite). A...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can some girls be blind to Flirting?

There is a shy girl I know since 3 months, and when I say that "she is different" she did not take it as a complement but thought it in a negative way, later I somehow managed to get her understand that that is a...

neo4evr

Xper 3 Age: 36

Family & Friends

I feel awful about it but I just don't like black girls?

Is it racist to dislike only black GIRLS? I mean, I've had plenty of black male friends, I have nothing against them, I have been attracted to them and everything.. Beyonce, Hallie Berry, I love their movies and I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are there different types of hugs?

If so,then which one do you prefer best? I like the firm ones from guys with a build and/or those that are taller thean me. I hate the fake ones where we barely touch(The Church Hug) or the half hugs...

naima17

Xper 6 Age: 32

Ladies.. if a guy holds eye contact and smile at you .. do you think of him as a creep?

Basically, I read everywhere that if you want to show interest in a lady in a public place then one should smile and hold eye contact for couple of seconds. I have no major problems with eye contact. But I feel that...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Fashion & Beauty

Why are so many girls so fat?

Seriously, I see so many girls at university who would be really good looking... if they lost 30 pounds. What I don't get is--looks are way more important for girls than guys. Because, face it--guys need game, and to...

AndyWes

Guru Age: 35

Hanging out vs. Dating... Can you accidentally date someone?

A guy, a casual friend, asked me to "hang out" at an event on campus, which I agreed to do. During the course of the event, his behavior gave me reason to suspect that by "hang out," he might actually mean "go out" or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Do guys ask girls to be their girlfriend anymore or do it in a diffrent way?

So I don't know my dating life has always been a bit odd. I’ve never been point blank asked to be a guys girlfriend. Never had one do something sweet like my girlfriends guy their guys to do. Then again i’m really not a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is Mourinho attractive? (For girls)

In this vid, for example: https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=WjUO6ivJNDA eveyone's saying he's so incredibly hot. But what do you think makes him so attractive, andi is he attr. to you? Is it his eyes, hair, way of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Why won't people admit looks do matter?

This is something I have noticed from both genders. They say things like "It's about the chemistry" and "His appearance doesn't matter to me" or something about love. Yet these same people will talk about who is "hot" or...

Theguyoverthere

Guru Age: 41

Why did he cancel our first date? Am I overreacting or not?

Hi everyone, I have a problem. There's a guy I've been talking to for over a month now. We were suppose to go on our first date last weekend but because it was raining, he didn't want to go anymore and then I asked him so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex boyfriend keeps asking me to see him one last time.

We were together for 4 years and recently broke up a month ago because he had sex with another girl. Now he's calling me and emailing me that he wants to see me for one last time. Should I go see him or not?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my boyfriend's ex girlfriend reflect what he likes?

I saw some pictures of my boyfriends ex girlfriend and it made me wonder a few things. I noticed that me and her look completely different. I want to be honest but not mean because that's not right but She was on the big...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I found a deep scratch on my gf's breast that curvs up. Like someone got ruff from behind, is she cheeting.

The two scratches were deep enough to scab. When I asked her about it she said she did it changing, but she has no nails she chews on them...my gut has been thinking she is cheating for a while.

Grizzlwood1269

Xper 5 Age: 42