All Questions

Why do girls hate guys that are too available? why is it so attractive when a guy is busy, has things to do?

has a life, overall, why do they like, are attracted to guys who are a challenge? are hard to get? people say it is human nature to want what you can't have, that people don't want what is easy to get. Well, a girl can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What is a 5'8 guy supposed to do?

Don't give me personality bullsh*t... EVERYONE deep down knows it's all about the skin, not what lies within. Don't even kid yourself otherwise... I can't even get 5'5 girls and under to look at me, forget it if she is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How do you keep a conversation going with a bad texter?

I've been talking to this guy for a while and he obviously wants to talk to me because he always texts me first. But, whenever we text he always finishes the conversation with a "yeah" or a "haha" or a "alright".. with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is a hairy back a total turn-off?

I can shave it but it grows back all stubbly. What's better?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do people keep asking me for directions??

This is not a good thing for me AT ALL. It seems like I am a target for those who are lost in the city. No matter how I try to make myself look disinterested and not in the mood to help anybody, a person will inevitably...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy calls you baby?

What does it usually mean when a guy calls a girl "baby"? I know some guys use the word lightly and it means nothing but, in my case I'm not so sure. There's this guy who used to like me a lot but I'm not sure if he still...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Personal trainers is being really flirty part of the job is him trying to get laid?

I've notice the personal trainer at my gym (in his 20s) flirts with girls around his age and very friendly. He is also nice to the elder woman. So my question is.. Is it put of the job and where the line you shouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I wish luck to my crush before the exam, if we haven't talked for about 2 weeks?

About 3 months ago I texted the guy I like, that we should go to get coffee sometime. He agreed and we kept in touch through text messages for a couple of months. He used to always text me first.Then we went on a date and...

Greeeenteeea

Xper 5 Age: 32

Flirting

What percentage of people are you attracted to?

In whatever gender you prefer, how many of them do you think are attractive? When you're out and about, what percentage of them would you at least mull the possibility over if they approached you for a date?

Anonymous

(36-45)

In your opinion, what is the fine line between playing hard to get and not interested?

Both of them are too similar for me, I can't honestly take them apart and it seems that most women play hard to get, its rare to see a girl who shows interest.

Yeahhbro

Yoda Age: 37

Valentine's Day

My ex responds to my texts but doesn't initiate any.

We are in our early 30's, we built a house together, we were engaged. She ended it saying I made her feel unattractive. She struggles with her weight, however her weight was never a concern to me as ar as her looks. My...

AntonioTea

Xper 5 Age: 48

I have wide hips. Are hips a bad thing?

Are hips a bad thing? I always feel really chunky next to my friend who has a very thin body and straight hips. I wear size one to 3 depending on the brand but I feel much bigger than that because I have wide hips.. is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who is the coolest person you know/have ever met?

What is it about them that made you think "wow, this person is really cool, I really want to get to know them more"?

MILWJ

Xper 6 Age: 33

Do women like men who are bulky or lean?

Do Women like men who are bulky or lean? Which is better? Which would a woman fantasize being with?

GymStatus

Xper 6 Age: 38

How can you tell if a girl likes you or if she is just friendly?

I don't know how to read girls so I don't know how to tell.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy lightly brush against a girl's sleeve when passing by her?

There is this guy who is in two of my college classes. In one of my classes he sits on the same row as me. I am quiet and we hardly never talk. If he does say something, just to ask me a question about class. When he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Very intense eye contact?

there is this boy at my school and for the past 5 months we have been staring at each other and making eye contact and stuff. Also I know he likes me cause every body tells me he does and he had a conversation to his...

Bryannarocks227

Xper 5 Age: 31

My girlfriend doesn't know that I know her tumblr account and has posted something scretchy

Ive know my girlfriends tumblr account for a while now but she thinks its well hidden. I've found its a good way to learn all the things she won't tell me in person. Recently she posted something about getting a phone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Cheating Ex-GF sending subliminal messages?

My ex cheated on me about 8 months ago, left me for another guy and I've cut off all contact with her for about 7 months now. I've removed her from my life in all ways possible. So just today I noticed that she has...

brokeninhalf

Xper 5 Age: 39

Other

Ladies, do you flirt with your mouth open?

Sometimes when I see a woman who's interested in a man, and they are talking, usually at a bar or club, the woman leaves her mouth pretty wide open during the conversation. Has anyone else ever noticed this? And what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a girl brushes onto you when there is plenty of space?

Why would a girl do that? For example I was pointing out a car to a girl asking her if it was hers, and she was standing next to me. So when I pointed out the car and started talking she leaned in closer and brushed her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Haven't really seen or heard from my boyfriend in about 10 days and I'm feeling forsaken, what do I do? :S

we had a date planned last week that he had to cancel at the last minute because of work. He's a profession and he's really starting to break through in his field and so lately he hasn't had much time for anything other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Which gender "needs" the other more?

This is going off a point made in another question. I'm going to stay neutral for now, but I just want to know what you all think. Do you think men "need" women more or do you think "women" need men more?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What does it mean when a girl says she is blushing via text?

I was texting her before on fb she said that had a bad day. I ask her what was wrong? she said everything. I told her don't be upset and keep that pretty smile on your face. she replied back, "awwww... I'm blushing". what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it's weird that my aunt calls me "Daddy"

I am Hispanic and my unt calls me "papi", which means "daddy" in spanish. My girlfriend learned about this yesterday because she heard my aunt calling me like that and she told me that's weird and creepy.

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend plays minecraft alot.

My boyfriend plays something called minecraft alot, I don't know a lot about, but should I be worried. I mean whenever he's at home he plays it (but he's not a nerd ;D.)

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: if you hang out with a guy after he says he likes you... Poll!

If a guy says he like you a ton(and you were dating up until the point) but you say you "don't like him more than a friend" and that the "feelings aren't mutual", but you still hang out with him just a few days after he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Are men 'trained' to hate on women?

I read this article on cracked today about how men are 'trained' to hate on women: link Granted, its supposed to be humorous, but I was wondering how much truth is in this? (in your opinion) Here's the main bullet...

windy-rose

Explorer Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy says he has to deal with his demons before he can have a relationship?

What does it mean when a guy says he has to deal with his demons before he can have a relationship? What do you guys mean by having 'demons' you have to deal with? I'm confused.

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl HATES you, does that mean she loves you ?

I mean every time I go up and speak to her she ignores me and today I said "Hey" and she goes "We have nothing to say to one another". And walked off. I bumped into her later and said "Where are you going ?" and she just...

JacksonWonder

Xper 5 Age: 37

Losing interest vs getting comfortable?

What are signs of a guy losing interest vs the signs of a guy just getting comfortable in the relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend texts other guys. Don't I have a right to be upset?

My girlfriend texts other guys and I have told her to stop but she keeps doing it should I just dump her (I'm using my friend's account)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Do girls know when you like them?

I have known this girl for about 3 years now. We started to hang out a lot when me and my ex of 10 years split. After the breakup I started to have feelings for her. This went on for about 7 months. Then something...

drjrd711

Xper 5 Age: 44

For tall guys, about kissing? :S

Hello, I have recently gotten a boyfriend (well he's been my boyfriend for about a month now) and I've kind of put off the kissing thing only because I'm not sure how to kiss him :S He's quite a bit taller then me (by...

Lemonnie036

Xper 3 Age: 32