My ex boyfriend moved away to another country and now he won't talk to me.

Help...

I dated a boy here after he tried getting me to date him. I ended up falling in love with him and that's when everything went terribly. We started getting in to fights because I would get jealous or because his jokes were too cruel. I love him to death but I can't stop myself from feeling bad about things. He found out one day he had to move back to his country and I felt horrible and irritable every day as did he. I always tried to keep my anger at bay for him but we finally had another argument that made him stop seeing me frequently. He decided that he would fix himself and focus on school. He told me b maybe him and his ex from that country are meant to be. But that was 5 years ago and they were in 8th grade/Freshman in HS... However soon after, we ended up meeting again, for a final goodbye, and then we ended up going back to my place and kissing which then led to sex. We hugged goodbye and I gave him a letter saying I would wait for him then that night he ignored my message about me apologizing for everything. He read it (the messenger lets you know) but didn't respond. Then I just stopped talking to him. Three days later, he texts me that he really wants to see me before he goes home. But I didn't respond. Then shortly after I message him saying I will see him the morning he leaves. So I saw him that morning and he introduced me to his family then I left and he texted me that his family loved me and that maybe one day when we fix ourselves we can have a good family.

We kept in contact a few days on Facebook once he moved but then out of nowhere he BLOCKED me from Facebook, Skype, Snapchat, etc etc! No reasoning.

:( It's been 2 months now since he's blocked me and 3 months since he's left... I don't know what he is doing. Help.

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  • He's no doubt back with his ex, as he hinted to you. Live and learn...you didn't invest a lot of time with him, so it should not be hard to move on. sorry you had to learn the hard way..he's basically a playboy.

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    • Nope, I hear he is single.

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What Guys Said 3

  • He's moving on, he was likely unsure about how he felt, and the distance cemented that he doesn't think you two are compatible. Or he found a new girl. At the end of the day, you need to accept it's over and move on.

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  • He is your EX.

    Why would he talk to you?

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    • He has told me in the past that he remains friends with all of his exes.

    • A common lie.

    • Why bother answering? Yes he is an ex, but he kept texting her which meant he was giving her hope and he introduced her to his family. That isn't ex behaviour. What a stupid and unhelpful answer.

  • He blocked you cause it was causing him pain to be reminded of you. I think you should try your absolute hardest to let go and maybe one day if its meant to be you will meet again.

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    • I hope that is it. I just don't want it to be that he hates me and wants to forget ever having anything to do with me...

What Girls Said 7

  • Honey, I'll tell you now. Men even the ones you think are nice, can really hurt you. Don't ever get your hopes up with them, they'll only disappoint and use you.

    Forget him, you will heal eventually. Give yourself time. :)

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    • I know. Thank you so much. I never thought it would turn out like this with him, but this whole ignoring me thing really stings. I don't understand how a person could want to hurt someone that much.

  • He is your ex, you had an unhealthy relationship, and he is now in another country. He made it clear he thinks you both have some maturing and self-discovery to do before getting back together is even possible (which is still unlikely).

    He's moving on. You need to do the same. It will take time and it will hurt, but maintain your dignity and cease contact with him.

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  • You need to stop acting based on your FEELINGS. Do what is best for you. Your feelings are not the compass for your well being. Your your head, not your heart.

    Cut all contacts and move on to another

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    • Thank you. I am trying to think with my head now as hard as I can.

    • Dating someone new always help to distract yourself. Soon he will be in a distant past where he belongs.

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  • i don't believe his feelings are sincere. he was probably just leading you on to get action from you. keep your head up high and move on.

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  • maybe back w his ex, nothing you can do, try to move on and be happy yourself.

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  • He's your EX get over him.

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  • He's just trying to move on :( and you should do the same.. it's too bad you're dealing with this kind of thing.. I hope it works out for the best.

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    • Thank you... I hope so too. But why is blocking me out and no contact a way to move on? :( I feel like he thinks I'm a horrible girl, ugly, awful, and hates me. Because before I blocked Facebook, I would see him tell mutual friends he missed them...

    • Who knows what he thinks of you but, "OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND" Right? It may be easier for him to just keep you out of mind while he moves on. Can't blame him really..

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