Tbh I’m surprised you’d even want a man who’s so possessive it caused his ex to leave him. Anyway, you can’t twist that man’s arm into submission and honestly you shouldn’t want to. Maybe it’s confusing as to why he’d want someone like her but we can’t help who we love, and for him his feelings for her are clearly unconditional. So rather than direct negativity towards her (bashing the lifestyle she lives), direct that energy towards the person who is actually betraying you and treating you like an option. Because she’s not going to stop because of you. I know, girl code and all that, but that woman has no loyalties to you and is all about herself. All this today, maybe you should give him an ultimatum. If he won’t cut her off and end that “friendship”, then you’re leaving. If he doesn’t pick you then you will know where his heart is at and you’ll have to just accept it, no matter how it hurts.
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What he doing with his ex you doing with him. He don't have self-respect he running behind cunt. You don't have self-respect either he leaving you for cunt and you still wanting him. So what's the difference between you n him?
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If he is secretly trying to get back with her confront him he is actively attempting to cheat or discard you and your waiting for it to happen
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