I fought my friend over a girl I won the girl and I won the fight but I lost the friend what should I do?

[Anonymous]

me and my friend had a fight over a girl I won the fight and I won the girl but I haven't talked to my friend in a long time. the reason we fought over the girl is because I was in a relationship with her for 3 months but then he tried his chances (even thought he's her ex) and I got mad and yeah. I don't know what to do. he didn't even care about me. but I don't know. what should I do ?

[everynameistaken]

so they 1st dated, then you & her dated, then he wanted her back, but instead you "won" her? if that is the case. why the hell did you go after her in the 1st place if they were dating first? & that girl doesn't seem to know what she wants anyways. this could have ruined your friendship forever. I don't think it will ever be the same cos obviously he would have to see you & your girlfriend together a lot & that cannot be comfortable. gf's come & go friends stay friends. try talking to him, doubt that would help tho.

[Asker]

she was with him before but they broke up and she was with someone else for a while and then there was me

[everynameistaken]

then you have the nerve to say that your friend did not even care about you? even if she dated someone else before you started dating her SHE WAS STILL YOUR FRIENDS EX! its still wrong

[Asker]

but he cheated on her the second day they went out

[everynameistaken]

oh well that was a dick move. clearly he did not care much about her feelings

[Asker]

he didn't she even forgave him and gave him another chance he said no and then out of nowhere he tries with her again ...

[everynameistaken]

i geuss he just doesn't like the idea of seeing you two together

[Asker]

i don't know if I even want a friend like that anymore. I guess I should just leave everything like it is now because I'm happy but stil unlike him I kinda fell bad for him because I know he tried really hard and stuff but after the fight like 5 min later we started talking it was like nothing happened but both of us were in pain and then the girl didn't know what to do at the start she decided she won't go near both of us but I won her heart again

[everynameistaken]

oh well. I don't think your friendship wil be the same again

[Luv2Dance365]

Well I don't know how long it's been since the argument...but no matter how long it's been, just apologize for arguing with him. Just explain yourself. I'm gonna guess you were insecure? You feel inferior by him? Let him know that. Therefore he's getting an apology and feeling like a god.

[Asker]

I don't want to aplologize to him because ehe knew I got hurt but he didn't care

[Luv2Dance365]

Hoes are temporary. Friends last longer.

[Asker]

true :DD its all over now

[Anonymous]

bros before hoes m8