All Questions

How to start talking to this girl outside of class?

I've been sitting next to this girl in lecture and we always talk before/during. I just got her number and want to start hanging/going out with her. When I got her number she said we should study together or something,...

VaTechM6

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

You can't be "just friends" with someone you're madly in love with.

I believe that if you don't want to lose that friend that you went through so much, you still should be there for him/her. One of my guy friends fell "madly in love" with me. And I told him that I can't offer him a...

monangie890

Xper 5 Age: 35

My boyfriend is constantly on his cell phone, how can I get more attention?

My boyfriend is constantly on his cell phone. He always checks his Facebook constantly at least every five minutes, and answers to texts while out taking me out for for dinner dates, even when we do fun things together....

Lacedkisses

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Body language and sexual tension, please help.

There's this guy who's not really my type and when I look at him I can actually identify parts of his body that I dislike. I don't even think he's actually very attractive objectively. However, when I sit near him or if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to approach a girl in my lecture hall?

Ok I'm in college and in one of my lectures there is a girl that I've seen that I think is really hot. I've never really gone up to a girl just randomly before. I don't have a lot of experience with girls I have never...

Kayo512

Xper 6 Age: 35

Guy called me curvy. Is that good?

Title says it all. Is the fact that he called me curvy good?

camlop

Xper 5 Age: 30

Getting picked up while kissing...

Do you pick your girlfriend up while kissing/making out? Does your boyfriend like to pick you up? For the guys: why?

HeidelbergGirl

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy asked me out on my birthday, cute or not?

I just don't know if its cute or if he just asked me out to make me happy.

kaleikaumaka1995

Xper 5 Age: 31

My boyfriend still says single on Facebook, don't know why it bothers me?

He asked me to be his girlfriend this week we have been going out for 2 months. He tells me he is lucky to have me. Its been maybe two weeks and his fb still says single. And it bothers me, just in the sense that maybe...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when your boyfriend says "you're so dreamy"?

I was with my boyfriend of 9 months, just hanging out watching TV at his place. We had this really intense kiss and he looks at me, smiles and then says "you're so dreamy".. He's said it before as well but I just don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to make my boyfriend treat me better?

He makes me feel like he doesn't like being with me, and he rarely ever texts me, and he's said intentionally mean things twice to me now. He just makes me feel like he doesn't care as much anymore, and like he's taking...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Girls, how can I ask out a girl at a zumba class?

So this week I just discovered that my university has all these free fitness classes. I did a whole bunch of them yesterday to see how they were. The funnest one was the zumba class hands down lol. I've always wanted to...

dons220

Xper 6 Age: 35

Why do girls pack so much on trips?

Guys only pack maybe one suitcase full of junk, but with girls it's wayyyy more usually. what's the deal?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why do guys keep using me like a door mat?

So I am just really fed up now of guys treating me like I am a whore and a bit on the side and I've had guys who pretend they like me so I will have sex with them but other guys they are more honest about it but they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are foot tattoos trashy?

Do these look trashy on a girl or can they be cute if they have meaning?

LUCYLUCK

Xper 5 Age: 38

Do guys get mad when girls talk about getting free stuff from other guys?

like I'm not saying I'm a user or anything but me and my friends don't like to spend our money on drinks and food (I got rent and school stuff that pretty much takes up all my money) so when we go out we always find guys...

bunnyfrancis

Xper 7 Age: 35

What does it mean when a guy say 'you will always be mine'?

My boyfriend text me that after I stop answering the phone to him,he said something that made me upset. I didn't break up with him just didn't respond to him. So he text me and said "ok your ignoring my call I don't know...

patsi

Xper 5 Age: 42

Family & Friends

Awkward silence between best male friend and I?

I'm a girl. For the past few months, he moved away and we had to communicate via IM. It was on a daily basis and we talked about anything. It became apparent recently that we are now more than friends...and it became...

yingwanchua

Xper 5 Age: 36

Marijuana users! do you ever become less affectionate after smoking weed?

the guy I have a thing with gets less affectionate when he's high, and I get way more affectionate. he's all over me when he's sober, and I know people are typically more affectionate but I don't get why or how he could...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I ask him to hang out or wait for him to ask me?

I've been sort of seeing this guy now and then for a couple months. At no point have I asked for clarification about what's going on between us, and I haven't been pursuing him (i.e. he asks me to hang out too). We had...

ErroWorld

Xper 6 Age: 35

My boyfriend stood me up last night, again. What do I do?

My boyfriend stood me up last night, again. What do I do? We have been together 6 years, our anniversary is in a week! I know he loves me, but I think he feels like he can do whatever now since he has me. Please don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy lets you rest your head on his shoulder does he like you?

Just wondering , I sat with this guy I like on the coach for the whole time and we would sit close and we are comfortable with each other even though we're both shy. We already rest our arm or leg against each other in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

"Go make me a sandwich!" Why do some guys do that?

Guys, do you do that? If yes, why do you do that? I swear this one guy is getting on my nerves

laughingmmonkey15

Xper 6 Age: 32

"Putting a girl in her place..." What's the appeal?

I'm guessing it has something to do with male dominance or something? I've heard it all the time growing up, from simple jokes at school where boy classmates would kid about slapping girls to keep them in line, this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys suddenly grab your hips a lot harder when you're dancing?

this always happens to me! like they will have their hands on my hips as you normally do while dancing and all of a sudden they use a lot more force and some even pull me closer towards them by my hips. i'm surprised...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How does it feel to be desired by a s.o.?

I've never been extremely and fully desired. How does it feel? I'd love to feel that...to be wanted fully and wholesomely...how does it feel? I want a boyfriend to love me and care about me but that hasn't happened and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it appropriate for a married man to hold another woman's hand?

Is it a appropriate for a married man to hold another woman's hand? AND Is it appropriate for a single man to hold a married woman's hand?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do you think Britney Spears can't dance the way she used to anymore? why is she so shy now?

I love BS! I grew up listening to her music and she is the queen of pop! I really admire her for being a fighter and coming out of her depression and whatnot and getting back on top, and being a good mom to her sons,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He texts me first, but always gives really short replies!

He's really talkative in person and sometimes in texts. But he usually will only respond with things like "I see" or "Alright" after I respond to his texts. It's confusing because he always texts me first, but never seems...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get people to text you first?

I'm a 17 year old guy and I have to initiate every single texting conversation with almost all of my friends all the time. I want to talk to them that's why I text them "hey" or "what's up" a couple times a week. The...

Ineedyourhelp

Xper 5 Age: 31

She cancelled but offered to reschedule?

Trying to set a first date with a girl. She gave a pretty legit excuse and said she was really sorry and wanted a rain check and said how about the next weekend. I was chill with it, it didn't bother me, but I've been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Asian guy who prefers white girls.

I am an Asian-American guy living in Florida and, unlike most Asian males, I prefer white girls over all others. The reason why is because, also unlike most Asian males, I stand 6'3" which is taller than most of them and...

chc0009

Yoda Age: 36

Health & Fitness

Which of the 4 vices do you partake?

On a regular basis? And to clarify, regular basis means at least once every day. And I'll clarify each vice: Coffee-Any type of coffee with caffeine in it. Junk Food-Including soft drinks, candy bars and cookies....

Alexeiv

Xper 6 Age: 39

GUYS: What does it mean when a guy says you look different?

I bumped into a guy friend I Haven't seen for 2 months, I've always had a crush on him but he has never liked me. He said I looked different. Is that a good or bad thing? I felt nervous. I've been going to the gym for...

Anonymous

(30-35)