Sit on my lap and let's talk about the first thing that pops up?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean when a guy says that to you? Two guys at work use this joke with me a lot, and once when we were out drinking. I don't sit on their laps, I'm a good girl, but are we just flirting or could this go further? Also, one of them has become really close to me, we are always sitting close, touching hands, fake fighting over stuff just to be physical and close … texting all day and after work, including good night texts from him almost every day. I rarely initiate the texts, but I love that he texts me. He has been with a lot of women and I have only been with a couple guys. How should I take this?

[Anonymous]

a sexual joke. yes they find you attractive but if he's been with a lot of women he probably only wants sex from you and if you just want that then go for it

[Anonymous]

It's sexual. "The first thing that pops up" is gonna be his boner

[Asker]

does that mean he is attracted to me, or is he just having fun? They do make me blush. I don't consider myself attractive at all.