All Questions

Why does everyone care so much about looks?

I like a guy...he's not gorgeous, but I really like him, he's sweet to me, makes me things, sends me random texts, his voice is definitely hot, but still my friends judge him like a contestant for a modeling company! It...

ApatheticApology

Xper 5 Age: 35

What is it that guys love so much about the sexy librarian/teacher look?

You know, the business casual-esque, glasses, hair up look. Why do guys find that so attractive? Or do you not like that at all?

justathought191

Xper 6 Age: 35

Ladies: texting female friends good morning texts most if not every day?

does that get annoying? I'm just curious how you feel about good morning texts in general, and how you feel when you get one from the same person (guy friend) most if not all days?

BlueBison

Xper 6 Age: 34

Relationships

Guys preferred - pet names?

The guy I like, (who's the subject of my past questions), has begun to call me "hun". It's completely unlike him. I've known him for four months now, and not once has he called me a "pet name". I've never heard him call...

K2111ATIE

Xper 4 Age: 33

Do girls find guys who ride motorcycles more attractive?

i ride a red ducati and I'm just really curious on whether it has any affect or not

JonnyK

Xper 5 Age: 33

Why don't men like western women?

There seems to be a undercurrent of distaste toward western women from a lot of guys on this site, why? As a western woman I find myself in the minority in that I'm family focused, and in my future household expect to do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have seriously lost all respect for my girlfriend!

Im not the kind of guy who sleeps around with strangers although I've had the opportunity to do so. I'm not religious or anything, I just find it appauling that people can actually have sex with strangers like it was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Butt sweat in the gym?

if a guy likes a girl, but their both in the gym and the girl gets up from a bike machine and she really worked up a sweat that day and she left a butt sweat mark on the seat. is that like really gross and should the girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she treat me differently than others?

Ok, so there's this girl who is somewhat on the quiet side until she gets to know people. I have noticed that with me she still acts nervous. She has a playful personality, most of the time she will be a bit of a smartass...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy sitting next to you is constantly adjusting his clothes, does this mean anything?

This guy and I just met and he sits next to me during lecture. He is constantly adjusting his shirt and pants during the whole class. Does this mean anything or could it just be a habit of his?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My laid back boyfriend is frustrating me... What should I do?

(in a long distance relationship) you feel like you're more into him than he is into you? like, he gives excuses as to why he can't meet your needs, but says he cares about you (with no BUT...), he really likes you, is...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

What's the difference between a fetish and an obsession?

Like when it comes to dating a race. Examples are Jungle fever and yellow fever.If a white guy wanted to date a black woman it would be a black fetish?!?! I'm kind of confused :P

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can't figure this girl out! I can't seem to tell if she is in to me or not.

Hey guys I can't seem to tell if a girl is in to me or not. She works with my bro so I see her on occasion. I really like her, we make eye contact a lot and she always seems to tense up whenever I pass her by. And usually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my guy friend constantly point out hot girls to me?

Just wondering if anyone can explain why a guy would comment on every hot girl that walks past to his female friend. He never used to do this, but now whenever any girl who is slightly attractive walks past or is on TV...

lottierose

Xper 6 Age: 31

How to tell if a man is secretly in love with you? We are friends and I think its becoming more!

I have a feeling a male friend of mine is falling in love with me but hasn't found the courage to tell me he has feelings for me. Do the following things mean he secretly loves you but hasn't spilled the beans yet?...

Hilariechristensen2

Xper 3 Age: 43

Health & Fitness

Upper/lower two day split: When should I do abs/core?

I work out with weight training four days a week: Mon - Upper body Tues - Lower body Wed - Rest Thurs - Upper body Fri - Lower body Sat - Rest Sun - Rest I do cardio every day for 20 minutes in the AM and an...

WeaponZero

Guru Age: 45

Girls , when a guys asks you if you want to go out for coffee does it imply it's a date ?

I'm not saying if one of your close guy friends ask you for coffee.I'm saying if you girls just recently met a guy and he asked you for coffee , in your mind does it imply a date ? If you agree to it , does it mean...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What occupation(s) make the best lovers?

There are no right or wrong answers. In your opinion, which do? I'd say occupations that involves a lot of math, like engineers(computer, aerospace,nautical,etc) and accountants. I've had a lot of good experiences with...

Vermi

Xper 6 Age: 41

Fashion & Beauty

How painful is getting a shin tattoo?

how bad does it hurt to get your shin tattood? I have a lot of tattoos already. both feet, calf, side piece, 3/4 sleeve and my back. I want to get one on my shin next but I want to be prepared for what I am getting into....

gweniffer801

Xper 5 Age: 40

How to politely turn down a second date?

i went out on a date with a guy about a week ago, and I didn't think it went that well. he picked me up and we went out for breakfast. he was fidgeting the whole time and was a little bit weird. we had stuff to talk about...

haleyyyyy

Xper 7 Age: 35

This girl texted me late last night because she "couldn't sleep".

I only talked to her for a little but she asked how my day was, etc. I felt like I was a d*** because I really wanted to sleep so I told her I was going to pass out sometime soon. She just said that I need the sleep and...

Wassup

Xper 6 Age: 32

Do you guys ever lie about not liking a girl?

Like if you like her & someone asks you, do you ever deny it?

May31

Xper 7 Age: 31

Flirting

Does it mean anything if a guy rubs your back while hugging?

I was wondering Because my ex hugged me recently and it was a long tight hug and he was just rubbing my back and it made me curious. Does it mean anything?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Question for tall guys - is 5'3'' too short for you?

I'm curious about what the tall guys here think about this. 1. is this too short for you to be attracted to a woman? are you just naturally more attracted to taller women? 2. have you dated a girl this short or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend chooses her friends over me? What should I make of this?

I always select my girlfriend and spending time with her over my friends, ALWAYS, without question. However, I have noticed a trend that my girlfriend will at times put friends or other people before me, and then claim to...

Anonymous

(30-35)