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He wants to meet my parents..

There's this guy I met about a week ago at school. We only ever talked for like 5 minutes after the bus dropped us off and we were walking home. Last Friday he invited me to go play volleyball with his friends. The thing...

Burnette01

Xper 6 Age: 31

Would a girl spend time alone with someone she is not interested in?

I'm sort of friends with this girl (who has a BF). One day while having our once in a blue moon chat, I mentioned that I was going to go somewhere for the entire day to check out some stuff. Even without me saying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Has someone ever rejected you because of your race or ethnicity?

Has someone ever rejected you because of your race or your ethnicity without ever meeting you, and you knew it would happen? Well, a couple of years ago this happened to me. One night my coworker suggested that I go on a...

STEPHGIRL

Xper 6 Age: 31

Now he wants me back?

So I was dating this guy for a few weeks and he seemed really into me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I figured why not and went along with it Because I liked him too. Well one day he texts me saying things were going...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He likes me, I like him, but we work together!! How can I convince him it's a good idea?

So this guy and I have been really flirty throughout the summer, getting closer as the weeks went by. We text often, talk often, always go on break together, he's very nice to me, goes out of his way to do things for me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

I'm so tired of thinking about her.

it has been almost 2 months since she has left me, but I cannot stop thinking about her, I'm so tired of thinking about her that I started to pray God to give me one day to rest, to stop thinking about her, I can't focus...

kayitli

Xper 5 Age: 41

Fashion & Beauty

What are your thoughts on skinny jeans for men?

idk why people think its gay. I personally wear them. I mean I can pull off the "sexy" look because I have a proportionate body. I do tons of squats and leg exercises which half of the gym rats out there don't do. And I...

sexyasianboi26

Guru Age: 109

Fashion & Beauty

Why do men become blinded by beauty?

Its almost as if an attractive woman can cast a spell over a man. Let me be clear NOT ALL MEN, OR EVERY MAN, but a lot of them. Its like you don't even know each other well but he's already head over heels and lost his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does he want my attention, what does he want from me?

3 months ago I told a guy I had been hanging out with as friends for awhile that I liked him romantically. I thought he was interested in me from the way he reacted when other guys were around and he couldn't take his...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy refers to you as his girl?

When a guy refers to you as his girl when he talks to you does that mean something? He has the nickname little one because I am a shorty but this morning he was referring to me as my little one. Reckon that is a good sign?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it bad to be a homie hopper?

So I just got to college a few days ago (classes start tomorrow!) and I met this girl from New Mexico, and we were talking about our dating experiences in the past. I told her that in high school I dated about half of...

RedSmartie

Guru Age: 32

Family & Friends

Do you find it easy to keep in contact with friends and family?

lovelivelaugh_s2

Xper 3 Age: 38

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend's mum is going in for surgery. I want to do something nice for her.

My boyfriend's mum is going in for surgery on Thursday. I want to do something nice for her while she's in the hospital (overnight) just to help her out. I was thinking of taking over some home cooked meals and just...

sammay

Xper 5 Age: 39

What does it mean when a guy calls you 'man'?

This guy has called me "man" a few times. He's a guy's kind of guy, he doesn't hang around females much, just hangs out with his buddies a lot. He flirts with me and he thinks I'm attractive and everything and always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it easier to get a girlfriend in college?

I'm a shy guy and was wondering this, I am starting college soon and I want to get a girlfriend. Some girls told me I look cute in high school but I never dated a girl. Will it be easier for me to approach girls in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Signs he already has a girlfriend?

what are some signs that a guy you are dating but not in a relationship with may already be involved with someone else? anything you can think of would help. obviously if they are not exclusive and he is dating other...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She sent me a friend request on Facebook. Is this a good sign or no sign?

I hit on a girl and got her number and 3 days later she sent me a friend request on Facebook.

loolool

Xper 3 Age: 34

Scared to call my boyfriend but miss him like crazy!

know it sounds ridiculous and kinda pathetic , but I am seriously scared to call him . but I have reasons: 1.| he has a big family , and the majority of his family doesn't speak English . he also broke his cell so now he...

TabiBerry1740

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guys do you mind if a girl has oily skin or has that shine/glow? turn off?

i have naturally oily skin, always did, and I try to wipe throughout the day using blotting sheets or just tissues, but I'm simply curious as to if men find this a turn off? I know a lot of people like "the glow" but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend called me ungrateful?

Ok I'll try to make this short. So my birthday is soon and we decided we'd spend around $70 on each others gifts. i had picked out this bag .Today he calls me and is like "I have 50 bucks right now, do you really want...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I get so nervous around him? How can I relax?

So there is a guy I like, we have known each other for a couple months and have gotten along great. The problem is that the moment I started developing feelings for him, I kinda changed how I act around him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He likes me but is afraid to go out because we work together?

We have been flirting pretty much all summer. Recently we started talking about hanging out and stuff. I know he likes me, he pretty much admitted in a number of ways. Ex: last week he said he thinks this other guy we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it a big deal to guys to hold hands?

I always grew up around women and girl-friends and I always have a habit of holding hands when I walk. It's just habit! I feel most comfortable linking arms, or inter-lacing fingers, or just clasping palms. However, I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women and men, feel like they have to be submissive to the other?

Like, why do women date men that tell them what to do and pretty much bark orders at them like they're there servant? And, same goes for men. Why do men date women who tell them what to do and bark orders at them like...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

If a girl texts you/responds to your text while she's at a party?

Does that mean she likes you? Or is she just extremely social? To be clear the guy that got texted/responded to wasn't at the party and the girl said she was having fun. Now what if the girl was bored at the party? And...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, if you did this with one of your ex girlfriends, what would your intentions be?

Me and my ex split up because he couldn't handle how jealous I was, after we split up I took the break-up really badly. I was beyond upset, couldn't sleep or eat. He was my first boyfriend so I had no previous experience...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is low self-esteem that big a turn-off?

Okay, so I'm fully aware that self-esteem is important and most guys want a confident girl for a girlfriend. But a recent bad experience with a guy has made me wonder: If a guy is physically attracted to a girl and has a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people think quiet people are dumb?

why do some people think shy,quiet girls/guys are dumb just because they don't talk as much.

TruleyBlessed

Xper 3 Age: 36

When a girl calls you a "meanie"....

is this a way of flirting or is she really trying to say you're a mean person?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He jokingly says "I hate you" ?

I was texting this kid and I said something funny and he responded "Hahaha I hate u" What does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

He keeps suggesting then cancelling dates!

I met a guy 3 Saturdays ago at a local bar, he was out with his parents and I was out with my mum, as soon as he seen me at the bar, he asked for my number and asked to take me out the following Tuesday, he even took my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

What do you think about plaid skirts?

Do guys like plaid skirts? Like in the movie Clueless, omg I love her outfits! Here you can see her outfits: h ttp://news.stylecaster.com/relive-cher-horowitzs-41-outfits-in-all-their-glory/ I would totally wear those...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 months. I'm so confused as to what is going on?

I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 months or so and him and I have had our fights just like every other relationship but him and I were all good telling each other how much we love each other and talking about our future...

xxshadowxx26

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

If a guy tells his friends you're a cool chick?

Is this a good thing or does it mean the girl has been friend zoned?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does an older man at work act protective over a young woman?

My boss always watches when I talk to other men. I can be having a normal conversation and I can just see him watching. He sometimes even comes and interrupts to make sure I'm OK. I am friendly with everyone and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he have to show off his new girlfriend to everyone?

Noticed lately how much my ex shows off his new girlfriend and it's p***ing me off. I know it shouldn't be but for the several months we were together he wanted to take things slow. He has only been with about six weeks...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Has anyone ever walked in on you changing?

A few days ago, my brother's friend walked in on me changing and it was like the most awkward thing of my life lol. He just kept staring at me and was like "Oh, wow sorry. I was just wondering if you wanted this painting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do if my ex girlfriend says she needs time?

She told me that I shouldn't keep asking about us because its stressing her out. she ask a favor just to give her time and stop worrying and paranoid at times I just wait. should I be positive about this? till when should...

carlroy

Xper 5 Age: 41