All Questions

I need a subtle way of asking out my ex boss!

I worked with him for 2 years, and most of the time it was just the 2 of us on shift. Sometimes I was terrified on him, and other times I enjoyed being at work with him because he made me laugh. I wasn't attracted to...

kisi85

Xper 6 Age: 41

Relationships

My boyfriend is making excuses NOT to see me? GUYS HELP

so my boyfriend and I just started our long distance relationship because I'm moving an hour away for college. we agreed nothing was wrong about having one as long as neither of us give up, and he said he wasn't. I said...

supervixxen

Xper 6 Age: 33

When someone asks what's your background?

What do they want to know? Is it where your parents were born / come from or your ethnicity (where your oldest ancestor comes from) E.g. Over several generations my family had "begun" in Italy, migrated to south America...

naturally

Xper 7 Age: 33

Why white women hate Asian and Latina girls?

for example like this...lol "I am a white woman . White women have problem losing a lot of good white men to other cultures. I lived in California and in a lot of areas Asian and latin women and many are very pretty...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Going with crush to cinema- how do I act about it?

Well basically I asked the girl I really like to the cinema and I let her choose the film and she said she would meet me near the cinema we were going to so I just agreed. So on Sunday I'm meant to be going to watch this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys? What is it about sassy girls that guys like so much?

my daughter, who is 15, asked me this the other day. she was commenting that her friend, who's she feels is pretty and really shy and just a really nice all around person, can't get a decent boyfriend to treat her...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do guys stare at girls legs?

When I go to school I either wear shorts or skinny jeans and this one guys, all he does he stare at my legs. Why does he do this?

rebecca123

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do girls like guys to be straight forward?

A few days ago, I was at the mall with a lady friend hanging out. We went to get some pretzels, and the cashier was a cute mexican-American girl; she had a very bubbly personality, which I think is very attractive. Well...

subatomicparticle

Xper 3 Age: 39

What do you think about a guy that cries himself to sleep?

Would you think that it is pathetic? Of course I don't talk about these kind of things with anyone, I won't admit it at least. What are your opinions about a guy that does this sometimes, when he feels pretty bad. :(

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why are my boyfriends friends so rude?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 21/2 years. We love each other a lot and hope to marry within the next couple of years. Since the beginning of our relationship meetings with his friends and us as a couple haven't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend's family smokes pot regularly?

I love my boyfriend very much. He's the first guy I've ever dated that I care enough about to see a real future with. I knew he smoked pot a ton when he was younger (he's 21) now, and that he smokes like once a month with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Sitting with knees up?

I was talking to this girl and she was sitting with her knees pointing up, her feet were on what she is sitting on, and her legs are together. Almost like she was curled up...if she moved her face a forward it would be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex boyfriend is giving me mixed signals. help!!

My ex broke things off with us three weeks ago. I have done evrything. Not called him. Not beg him back, he said he has been seeing someone already. We were doing amazing then one day he sais he needed to back away and...

Rhodna

Xper 4 Age: 55

How pretty is a rating 7.5-8 girl?

Often when someone rates me on Facebook I often get a 7-7.5 and 8's about how pretty is that. Is that pretty,really pretty,or gorgous?

oreo23a

Xper 3 Age: 30

What's so attractive about long legs...? Why do you find them attractive?

Basically self explanatory. Not complaining, or saying they AREN'T attractive. Coming from a woman who is SIX FEET tall, its a decent question to ask, no? :) Be friendly now!

gbutts120

Xper 3 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend took a break, she slept with someone, now I can't seem to love her.

Title is basically it. She was taking me for granted for a while, really treating me like crap. we broke up, came back to me asking to get back together, said she'd change, etc, I was overjoyed. I later found out she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Wearing a low cut top on a first date during the day?

Is this OK or will it give the (wrong) impression that I'm slutty? I would probably wear it with skinny jeans, uggs and a cardigan or something. It's just cos I'm a 32D so I don't know if it's a bit much. I feel like it's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So a girl gives you her number, what does it mean?

So I just got this girls number after talking to her for about an hour. We were laughing and she was talking a ton. Like I started the convo but she talked for 80% of the time. If there was ever a silence, she would say...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Marriage & Weddings

My best friend wants to marry me

I have a best guy friend that I grew up with but you can tell we have feelings for each other. We love each others' family and have so much fun together. We ended up going to the same college and he plays baseball there....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you give a girl your hoodie?

i was just curious. would you or have you ever given your hoodie to you girlfriend. say you two were alone at her or your house and she's a bit cold. a) would you like it if she wears it. b) and why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, does the "no contact" rule work on men, making you want us more?

I have been told that if things are uncertain in a relationship (however you define it) It's best for the girl to avoid communication and definitely not see the guy for at least a month in order for them to realize that...

StacieBoBacey

Xper 5 Age: 40

Society & Politics

Tarot readings and psychics - do they really product the future?

I have been to many of them and they all are coming out with similar results when it comes to love and career!? please tell me your personal experiences and advice :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Any confident guys attracted to shy girls?

I'm a shy girl with a slightly low self-esteem, but find myself attracted to confident, out-going guys. Do you think I'm wasting my time going after guys like this as they would prefer girls who match their confidence...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are beautiful white women beginning to prefer black men?

I've noticed the past couple months when I go out to the mall or other social venues that I'll see many more white women with black men than I would have seen say 15 years ago. Additionally, the women are usually very...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girl texted me twice after I ignored her?

She texts me first, is shy around me in person, etc... But anyway. We were talking today over text and she said something about an assumption she had about me which she would not say for fear of being wrong. Anyway, I got...

Heinekencoc

Xper 5 Age: 46

Relationships

Think I put too much pressure on a girl, what to do now?

Things were going well but then it she started backing away. I tried talking to her about things but did she didn't really seem like she wanted to talk...short, incomplete answers. I told her I'd give her space and...

Anonymous

(36-45)