All Questions

Why would the guy you are dating that acts like he is into you keep his dating profile active?

The guy I have been dating for 2 months keeps his dating profile active and updated. We have great chemistry and things seem to be moving along nicely, but I can't continue (especially since we are physical) knowing that...

adeluxe

Xper 5 Age: 61

What are the signs my boyfriend has a crush on a co worker?

We have been dating for almost 2 years and I have this 'feeling' that my boyfriend has a little bit of a crush on a co worker. He said he thinks she has a crush on him, and she might. He is handsome. So I snooped and I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

When a girl mentions she does NOT have a boyfriend?

Alright, we all know what it means when a girl says she has a boyfriend. But what does it mean when she casually but explicitly says she DOESN'T have a boyfriend? Is that a strange thing to mention to guy? Also, this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He doesn't want to date anyone. BOYS! feel free to "decode" this guy!

wants to hang out & spend time together. no dates or anything but hanging out at each others house and some parties. says he doesn't want to date anyone right now. doesn't hook up with anyone else. why do guys want...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date a therapist? Why or why not?

I'm a mental health therapist and I've found that a lot of guys get turned off/afraid of this fact. They constantly think I'm analyzing them and diagnosing when I'm not! I've noticed they change the way they act around...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do men feel about women over 30?

I'm a single thirty-something and yes I do want a family and yes it is getting closer to biological clock cut-off time! I know that scares men and I do get that - but I don't think they understand how harrowing it is for...

Kadiboma

Xper 6 Age: 52

What does it mean when a guy says he's damaged goods?

I accidentally texted my guy friend saying I'm so happy with him but he replied back saying be careful, he's damaged goods. We're talking and kind of just doing things in the moment. We go out on dates and meet each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Valentines date......is it bad to ask a guy to be your Valentine? and if he says yes does he mean it?

is it bad to ask a guy to be your Valentine's ? and if he says yes does he mean it?

andrewlover

Xper 5 Age: 41

What Does It Mean When a Guy Invites You To Hang With His Friends?

If a guy invites a girl to hang out with his guy friends, does that mean he only sees her as one of the guys? Is it like a pre-date or what? I am confused My interpretation is that since he did this, he sees me as one of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does "Too Serious Too Soon" mean?

This is the song by Gareth Gates. What does it mean and when do we use this phrase? Thanks guy :)

Anonymous

(36-45)

What names/words do guys like being called or do you use on your man?

Guys can get away with calling girls so many different things like beautiful, cutie, babelicious (lol), sweetie, hun, etc etc... But, what do guys like being called OR what names/words do you use when talking to your man...

BeautifullyHazel

Xper 5 Age: 38

Fashion & Beauty

Why do his friends look at me?

So this guy found out that I like him back in October. He said he didn't want to rush into anything because last time he did that and it didn't turn out well. He said let's get to know each other as friends first. I lost...

Courtneyrawrz

Xper 5 Age: 32

He wants me to meet his kids. Is that a sign he sees the relationship as getting serious?

We have been dating two months and agreed to take things very slow. He gets his 5yr old son and 9 year old daughter every other weekend. ours is a long distance relationship as we live 150 miles apart for the moment....

countygirl

Xper 5 Age: 47

Being attracted to authority figures?

I know I have issues with male authority figures and I've only really started to realize now. In my family it is very difficult to get the absolute support from the father and if you cross him on issues communication can...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would he stand me up?

So I met a guy online on a dating site. We seemed to really hit it off , and texted and talked on the phone a lot. Then we were supposed to go out. He bailed on me a few hours before hand due to a family emergency, but...

whattothink

Guru Age: 44

How do I ask out the cute bookstore cashier guy?

So there is this guy who works at the local bookstore that I frequent every now and then. For about a year now I have noticed him, but more recently I have developed a crush on him. I would like to get to know him and...

bunnygirl8

Xper 5 Age: 43

WHY oh why do guys respond to intentional no contact?

I'm sure you've all heard of the "no contact rule." I was dating this kid Alex and we only went out twice on the weekend, no biggie. So he would text me every single day throughout the week and not even mention hanging...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend's ex stalking her for months! I'm being patient but I don't know what to do anymore? NEED ADVICE!

So the thing is: Her ex is mental, and obsessed with her. They were together for 1 month. Nowadays, she feels sick when she remembers that he exists. When she dated him, she was depressed and sad because her 1st...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Forgetting the Anniversary of a Death.

What are you suppose to feel when you realize that you didn't remember the anniversary of a death on the actual day, Like you make a mental reminder days or weeks before and you don't realize that you've forgotten it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when the guy says "ditto"?

This guy and I have been talking back and forth for awhile. Sometimes we flirt while texting, but nothing too much and we hung out a bit, but not much at all. He still seemed to kinda be into me. He always said that he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She won't accept my apology

so I was with my ex for 1 year and we were engaged to get married. she ended up leaving me for someone else, than I gave her 2 more chances after that, which she screwed up by doing untrustworthy things. she came back to...

krazEkid

Xper 5 Age: 35

Fashion & Beauty

What's wrong with the girl next door?

today I was lamenting to my guy friends about how my little sister (age 16) is always getting guys and being called hot and sexy, while I (age 17) am always getting ignored or called ugly. my friends said that I'm not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My boyfriend ALWAYS brings his friend around!

I wouldn't mind if it was every now and then but its like every time we hang out. His friend is cool but in doses and I really just wanna have quality alone time with my guy, I have explained this to both of them but his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She wants to hold hands when she's drunk?

I like this girl I'm casually hooking up. We got drunk at a party and hooked up and when we went to bed she grabbed my hand to hold it while we slept in your typical spooning position. I rolled over a little while later...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does a guy like you if he grabs you around the waist from behind?

me and this guy had a past and I ended it with him but are friends still, but we were on a trip and we were on a bus and I stood up in the asle to get something and all of the sudden he grabbed me around the waste from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend left me for another guy and now she wants me back. Should I take her?

We had been dating for 10 months and was the closest I ever felt to someone. To me everything was perfect until we left for college. about two weeks into school she left me and about three weeks later started seeing a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys: Would you marry a poor girl if you were really rich?

Hello everybody! My 1st question on here! My girlfriend is ridiculously hot (she REALLY is!) She's also caring, sweet, funny, and poor. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I'm good looking and I'm very very rich. I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend is a party pooper, should I be upset with him?

SO I have been planning my birthday party for a month now and my friend offered to throw it at her crib. The last time we hung out there was a big fight with my boyfriend and after that she said he was to never come over...

greengurl-e07

Xper 3 Age: 37

Why don't guys like curly hair ?

I have super curly hair, you can look at my pictures on here. And I always feel like guys like girls with straight hair, so I feel less pretty around guys. And no I don't feel like I should have to straighten my hair...

amilleman

Explorer Age: 32