All Questions

Are chubby tomboys really a huge turnoff?

I am a tomboy and I'm a little on the chubby side, I'm not gonna lie, and I don't think I look that bad..not completely fugly. granted I'm not the best but I don't think I'm the worst. so are chubby tomboys like myself...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls: What happens if both people are playing hard to get? What do you typically do when this happens?

You have the man pretending to not like the girl so she will be interested, so he ignores her. You have the woman, playing hard to get so she tries not looking at him too much as to not come off as a slut. SO both...

superdudeman

Explorer Age: 48

What should I do with a girl who plays hard to get?

Please answer :) So I like this girl, and I know that she likes me back (I know she likes me, but she doesn't know that I know). I think she probably guesses that I like her too, based on the fact that I sent her an...

TigerRoseBear

Xper 3 Age: 32

Society & Politics

I have bad grades, but I'm in the IB Program. Do I have a chance at college?

I'm a junior in high school and I come from a family that has always been successful in school and education in general. I feel like a failure for being the only one in my family (even my extensive family) to get such low...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does it mean anything when a guy walks you to your car and hugs you?

A new friend of mine walked me to my car then hugged me goodbye which he has never done. Usually we just talk, and I've never seen him hug any other female friends. But does this mean anything? Is he just being friendly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ideal height ? & your minimum and maximum height?

1. What's your SO's Ideal height ? 2. What is the minimum & maximum ? 3. WHAT IS YOUR HEIGHT ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of eyebrow piercings?

What do you think of an eyebrow piercing? I've recently got one - horizontal - and I'm just curious what y'all think of them. I have pics on my profile if you'd like to see an example. Thank ya :)

shelbysmile32

Xper 5 Age: 34

Shopping & Gifts

Christmas gift ideas that start with a C!!!!!!!?

i need to get me best guy friend a Christmas gift and I had an idea to get him things that start with the same first letter of his name. C... so please give me some ideas that are NON- FOOD! hahaha thanks:)

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are women such attention whores?

It seems like every girl I have any interest in just likes the attention.

lanoth

Xper 4 Age: 34

Is it a deal breaker if a woman has thin/limp hair? are guys turned off?

i naturally just have thin hair, that is super straight, it falls flat a lot even though I try to use volumizing products and curl my hair sometimes, but lets face it I will never have those victorias secret long full...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why am I so attracted to intelligent men?

I care about looks like others do, but sometimes if a guy is really smart, I'll be attracted to him even if he is not my type. Something about these men really turn me on, & could listen to them talk all day. If the guy...

LillyBear

Xper 3 Age: 35

The timing isn't right, it's nothing against you personally. Confused with how this guy is acting?

Was wondering if guys could help me with this? So this guy knows I like him, nothing has happened between us as the timing isn't good apparently, according to him. Since the night I've told him, we've been talking a lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I need to beat a guy... But how?

Fellow girls, I need your help please... I'm really into my tae kwon do & kick-boxing and have been entered into a competition by my trainer, but I've only just found out that it's a competition for guys AND girls and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will my girlfriend ever forgive me and think of me the same way as before?

I have been dating the love of my life for almost two years now, and everything has been going great. My girlfriends grandfather died on Tuesday before this Thanksgiving. She and her family went for the funeral but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy at gym and established eye contact - what do I do?

Today the hottest guy in the world, who I noticed but hid my interest, was totally trying to get my attention himself (looking at me a lot when I arrived, walking by my bike 2wice, he didn't have to, and looking at me in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys....What do you think about country girls?

First of all, I grew up with certain morals and principles that make me a bit different than most girls these days and I was taught to be humble and polite even in some of the worst circumstances. I'm old fashioned when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I find injured guys attractive?

I just do for some reason... Is this weird? Is it some kind of instinct, or what? Also, for some reason, anime characters attract me more than real 3D people, usually. Is this really strange for a girl or a guy? One of...

NotTellingYouMyName

Xper 5 Age: 31

He said he likes me so why is he ignoring me?

Basically there's this guy and we've been friends for 5 years, I've always had a crush on him but never had the guts to tell him until he kissed me at a party a year and a half ago - at which time I was at uni, nothing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy isn't that romantic and kind of rough around the edges is that a turn off?

Even if he is a nice guy would you still be turned off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Expensive gifts from the boyfriend. How should I react?

My boyfriend (27 years) and me (19) have been dating for about 4 months. We really love each other and planning to live together in the near future:) The problem is that he has always been giving me not only lot of small...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys mean what they say when they're angry?

An old flame and I recently reconnected after six months of absolute silence. We had gotten in a fight and he ended up yelling at me and saying he didn't care about me at all. He called me on my birthday six months later...

IUHoosierGirl

Xper 3 Age: 39

Society & Politics

Deactivating facebook a lot?

This is really random, but this guy that I know always deactivates his facebook for periods of time and then reactivates it. He did it for several months during the summer, and then for a week or so back in September. Now...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

If he says I'm like a sister to him, could he actually like me?

Unofrtunately this guy I've had a crush on since the first time I saw him (cliche, but true) is my current boyfriend's close-ish friend. The guy I'm crushing on has been having issues with his group including my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

How important is it for a guy to have a good body?

what do you think ladies? I want the honest truth, no lies to make anyone feel better. does a guy have to have a good body to be dateable? and what is acceptable for a guy's body? and when is it a turn off? I'm really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My friends don't like my crush?

supposedly he likes me but my bffls think he's annoying (wich he is but I like him anyway) I don't put my boyfriend before my bffls but shud I turn him or my friends down I don't know what to do only 1 or 2 of my friends...

alysaa16

Xper 6 Age: 32

Is being a tomboy a major turnoff?

I walk like a boy, wear cowboy boots and wranglers all the time, I keep my wallet in my back pocket, don't carry a pocket book, I have a thick southern accent, I'm always outside and covered in mud or somethin. I'm loud...

bekahleigh23

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

Gift ideas for my boyfriend's birthday?

Okay so my boyfriends birthday is in a few days and I honestly don't know what to get him. I ask him what he wasn't and all he can say is "I don't know?" Hahaha. SO!_ Since he doesn't know, how am I suppose to know? I...

KSmiles4U

Xper 6 Age: 31

Dating

Why do I get upset when my boyfriend wants to hang out with his friends and not me all the time?

I don't know if its because I want to spend my everyday with him or is it because I'm jealous because he's not with me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Guys, do you ever use ellipses in your texts?

If so, what does it usually mean when you end a sentence with ... ? If a girl texted you she had fun this weekend and you said "It was fun..." how should she read that?

Anonymous

(36-45)