All Questions

Why are girls so obsessed with their looks?

girls will do everything to be as pretty as possible to be a perfect 10--but yet their own boyfriend is like a 2. so why make a big deal outta looking good when your own boyfriend looks like Freddy Kreuger? why be so...

spideypool

Xper 4 Age: 44

I'm in love with my best friend, and it's killing me

I have been friends with him for three years, and have slowly fallen in love with him. We have become closer and closer, now to the point were we hang out almost every night. We use to hang out in groups, but the past...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Meeting A Guy Online? And him calling me "hun"?

I met a guy online who lives in my city. We both want to meet each other this week. Is that a good idea. I was thinking it OK, but before I go I would tell a person close to me where I'm going. He also calls me "hun"...

littleneko16

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

She keeps saying the word FRIEND!!

So this girl told me she's very interested in me. But she has feelings for another guy. So she said she needed time to get her feelings straight. After a few days, I wanted to keep my pride, so I told her it would be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does anyone know the meaning of slow dancing (in a dream)?

So I dreamed that I slow danced with my crush. We were alone in a class room and without music we just started to dance. ( in real life we've both been in that classroom together but with other people there. ) Can anyone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why don't shy nicer guys approach me?

I mean I get approached quite a bit, but its all by douche bags and assholes with a "nice mask" on... why won't nicer or shy guys ever give me a try ? I'm really not that bitchy of a girl and I would never reject a guy I...

koolaid22

Xper 3 Age: 32

Guys...if you were a lawyer, would you flirt with your pretty little client?

i've been getting some vibes from my lawyer...think he may like me...first he's very friendly, maybe too friendly. once after court, he tells me, "if you have any questions, call me. even if it has nothing to do with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do Girls like Emo Guys?

Why are they attracted to them and why do they think they are so HOT... Please give me Great details, description, and just help me get over this confusion... (Yes I am EMO... Not the bad Emo though... The Cute Fluffy...

RipperMetal

Xper 5 Age: 31

What's the worst way to break a girl's heart?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why doesn't my guy friend want to hang out with me?

We became friends a few months ago, and we talk all the time online. But he never wants to hang out with me. Every time I ask, he's always busy or doing something else. He's so nice to me when he sees me at school, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Haven't seen my girlfriend in almost a month for no reason, should I break it off?

So I haven't seen my girlfriend in almost a month for no apparent reason. I always text/call her and she does the same but for the last couple of weeks she has been working non stop plus she has doctor visits to go to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it okay to break up with someone right before Christmas?

I want out, but want to wait until after finals for both of our sakes, but this would mean I'd be breaking up with him a week before Christmas. I don't want to ruin his holidays or look like I couldn't be bothered with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

If a guy treats you like a baby, or treats you as if you were his own what could that mean?

This guy I know very well I can tell likes me. We have such a personal connection. We're like the best of friends. He treats me so different I can tell from the others around him. He always smiles at me, makes me feel so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it a bad thing to hug other guys when you have a boyfriend?

is it a bad thing to hug other guys when you have a bf?my boyfriend doesn't want me to but they are only friends..what do I do? guys opinions please

illneverleave

Xper 5 Age: 33

If a girl trips and falls in front of a guy that likes her, does that make him not like her anymore?

If you fall down, like, tripping over a backpack and falling in the dirt in front of your crush (who likes you back) make him not like you anymore?

Anonymous

(30-35)

It's been months since and we never spoke again. What is wrong with this chick?

my r/s with my ex didn't last very long but I know I was genuinely in love with her. still am. I never really knew where I stood with her though. she said she loved me but people throw the word around a lot nowadays. she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do guys think it's weird when girls have cats?

I love all animals very much and I personally (they aren't my parents they are mine) have a dog and a cat. Some guys I talk to think it's really weird that I have a cat, they also say things like cats are gross, cats are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

There is this guy who rides my bus that I really like. What do I do to get his attention?

I really like a guy that rides my bus, but I don't know what to say to him unless I asking him if he wants gum or a mint. I don't know what to say to him otherwise unless someone gives me an idea. I really want to get him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm 27, he's 20. Age difference?

We met at work, where we became really good friends. We traded numbers and never really talked outside of work when one day out of the blue he sends me a text asking when we were going on a date. I thought he was...

HardyGirl923

Xper 5 Age: 42

Fashion & Beauty

My boyfriend likes redheads and I'm a blond - should I dye my hair?

Would this make him more or less attracted to me?

sweetsparrow13

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why are light skin girls more preferred?

I know there are some guys who like darker skinned girls but most of the guys I know would clearly state that they like light skin girls and would not date a dark skin girl. I'm just want to hear from guys especially...

anonymous17

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girls, have you ever physically hurt a guy when he's annoyed you?

I ask this question because I was out with friends recently and we saw a couple arguing and she slapped him and stormed off, which led to a conversation of 'I would have done this...' etc etc. Have any girls ever...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS! Would you ever miss a date because you fell asleep!?!?

that's my situation now! and am so pissed! Should I forgive him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

If a guy you are seeing says you are smothering him, then what is the best plan of action?

We get on well and have a lot of things in common. We have known each other for a long time but only recently started seeing each other. He was always full on with me in the first few weeks, emailing all the time during...

Nokia10

Xper 3 Age: 52

Kissed another girl, in a long distance... when to tell?

Hi everyone, I have a problem that I created myself. I'm with my girlfriend since nearly one year, it is for me first really serious relationship plus the thing I think and hope I could spend my life with her, have kids....

StuartT

Xper 5 Age: 40

What does it mean that my ex girlfriend of 3 years responds to my texts?

I dated a wonderful girl on and off for 3 years. We broke up about 4 months ago, I wasn't sure what I really wanted and took her for granted. She always took me back no matter what I did, so I would leave her home, go out...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long to wait to ask a girl out after their breakup?

She is one of my best friends and I have known her for 5 years now, she taught me to dance and has always been there for me. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of about a year (a little less). How long should I wait...

randyc

Xper 3 Age: 34

Told my ex I didn't want to be friends...was that a good idea?

I dated this guy for a while and I was very fond of him. He seemed the same as he broke out the L word before me. Everything was going great then he decided we should break up. I accepted it and when he asked if we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How will South Asian (i.e. Pakistani) men show they really like you?

I have been seeing a very sweet Pakistani man for about 4 months now. Our relationship is a little confusing for me. I am Latina and am used to dating Latino/White guys, who tend to be very forward and upfront about...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Are chubby tomboys really a huge turnoff?

I am a tomboy and I'm a little on the chubby side, I'm not gonna lie, and I don't think I look that bad..not completely fugly. granted I'm not the best but I don't think I'm the worst. so are chubby tomboys like myself...

Anonymous

(30-35)