My roommates cheating on his girlfriend. What should I do?

[BroDawg]

My roommate is cheating on his girlfriend with her roommate. He went to visit her the other day and she wasn't there. Her roommate nvited him in and the talked a little. He ended up getting a bj. He has since gone back more than once. What do I do? Please Help me

[Darkfairie17]

To be honest, there isn't much you can do. Your room-mate is a jerk, but he is still your room-mate and if you tell his girlfriend he will more than likely make live a living hell for you :S

So you have to ask yourself if it is worth the trouble. It's more than likely that his girlfriend won't believe you. And the guy will flat out deny it, and of course the girlfriend will believe him. So I think it's probably better to stay out of it.

She has to figure this out on her own, and she will in time. Your room-mate will mess up eventually. He will leave a text message from the other girl on his phone, or something else.

I know it's frustrating, but sometimes it is better to stay out of peoples problems, unless they ask you for help. If she comes to you and is suspicious and asks you, you can tell her that you have see this chick over at your house. But until then don't say anything. I know it's hard because you want to because he's a jerk. But it's better if she figures it out.

[fascination_streak]

Keep mum. It will come back to haunt him in one way or another, I can practically guarantee it. IF you went and told his girlfriend, she may not believe you or think you want her for yourself. If she chose to believe you and confront him, he could deny it flat out and then nothing comes of it. Meanwhile, you're living with someone who will probably deem you a turncoat and there will be a lot of drama and tension.

I was in a similar sitch. It involved my best friend's husband. The first time, I blew it off because I thought it was in my head. Then, it happened again and I chose to tell her. She believed her husband over me. He denied what he did up and down. It caused a strain in our friendship, and trust was lost because I THOUGHT I was doing the right thing.

[amb3r]

ehh is telling his girlfriend, worth the conflict with him. You could warn him and then just wait for it to blow up in his face. This is always a tough situation. if he will be okay with you ratting him out then go for! It is wrong, but sometimes its best to just stay out of it.. :/

[kairon156]

as long as he's a roommate and not a friend. save up what money you can and prepare to move into a new place and tell them your roommate is a cheating bastard and than tell you're roommate why you are leaving and GTFO.

[curiouschica]

Wow! Thanks for caring! You are a decent guy! Can you maybe write an annonymous note or something and put it somewhere where the girl will see it?

[Anonymous]

F*** his girlfriend bro.