All Questions

Why am I so attracted to intelligent men?

I care about looks like others do, but sometimes if a guy is really smart, I'll be attracted to him even if he is not my type. Something about these men really turn me on, & could listen to them talk all day. If the guy...

LillyBear

Xper 3 Age: 35

Flirting

The timing isn't right, it's nothing against you personally. Confused with how this guy is acting?

Was wondering if guys could help me with this? So this guy knows I like him, nothing has happened between us as the timing isn't good apparently, according to him. Since the night I've told him, we've been talking a lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I need to beat a guy... But how?

Fellow girls, I need your help please... I'm really into my tae kwon do & kick-boxing and have been entered into a competition by my trainer, but I've only just found out that it's a competition for guys AND girls and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will my girlfriend ever forgive me and think of me the same way as before?

I have been dating the love of my life for almost two years now, and everything has been going great. My girlfriends grandfather died on Tuesday before this Thanksgiving. She and her family went for the funeral but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy at gym and established eye contact - what do I do?

Today the hottest guy in the world, who I noticed but hid my interest, was totally trying to get my attention himself (looking at me a lot when I arrived, walking by my bike 2wice, he didn't have to, and looking at me in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys....What do you think about country girls?

First of all, I grew up with certain morals and principles that make me a bit different than most girls these days and I was taught to be humble and polite even in some of the worst circumstances. I'm old fashioned when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I find injured guys attractive?

I just do for some reason... Is this weird? Is it some kind of instinct, or what? Also, for some reason, anime characters attract me more than real 3D people, usually. Is this really strange for a girl or a guy? One of...

NotTellingYouMyName

Xper 5 Age: 31

Flirting

He said he likes me so why is he ignoring me?

Basically there's this guy and we've been friends for 5 years, I've always had a crush on him but never had the guts to tell him until he kissed me at a party a year and a half ago - at which time I was at uni, nothing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

If a guy isn't that romantic and kind of rough around the edges is that a turn off?

Even if he is a nice guy would you still be turned off?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Expensive gifts from the boyfriend. How should I react?

My boyfriend (27 years) and me (19) have been dating for about 4 months. We really love each other and planning to live together in the near future:) The problem is that he has always been giving me not only lot of small...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys mean what they say when they're angry?

An old flame and I recently reconnected after six months of absolute silence. We had gotten in a fight and he ended up yelling at me and saying he didn't care about me at all. He called me on my birthday six months later...

IUHoosierGirl

Xper 3 Age: 39

Society & Politics

Deactivating facebook a lot?

This is really random, but this guy that I know always deactivates his facebook for periods of time and then reactivates it. He did it for several months during the summer, and then for a week or so back in September. Now...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

If he says I'm like a sister to him, could he actually like me?

Unofrtunately this guy I've had a crush on since the first time I saw him (cliche, but true) is my current boyfriend's close-ish friend. The guy I'm crushing on has been having issues with his group including my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

How important is it for a guy to have a good body?

what do you think ladies? I want the honest truth, no lies to make anyone feel better. does a guy have to have a good body to be dateable? and what is acceptable for a guy's body? and when is it a turn off? I'm really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

My friends don't like my crush?

supposedly he likes me but my bffls think he's annoying (wich he is but I like him anyway) I don't put my boyfriend before my bffls but shud I turn him or my friends down I don't know what to do only 1 or 2 of my friends...

alysaa16

Xper 6 Age: 32

Is being a tomboy a major turnoff?

I walk like a boy, wear cowboy boots and wranglers all the time, I keep my wallet in my back pocket, don't carry a pocket book, I have a thick southern accent, I'm always outside and covered in mud or somethin. I'm loud...

bekahleigh23

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

Gift ideas for my boyfriend's birthday?

Okay so my boyfriends birthday is in a few days and I honestly don't know what to get him. I ask him what he wasn't and all he can say is "I don't know?" Hahaha. SO!_ Since he doesn't know, how am I suppose to know? I...

KSmiles4U

Xper 6 Age: 31

Dating

Why do I get upset when my boyfriend wants to hang out with his friends and not me all the time?

I don't know if its because I want to spend my everyday with him or is it because I'm jealous because he's not with me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do you ever use ellipses in your texts?

If so, what does it usually mean when you end a sentence with ... ? If a girl texted you she had fun this weekend and you said "It was fun..." how should she read that?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend has stretch marks on her hips and thighs?

I am turned off by stretch marks,they are just disgusting.Would it make me a bad guy or person to break up with her because I'm turned off by her stretch marks?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get my shy boyfriend to break out of his shell?

Ok, so I have been going out with this guy for about a month now. He's very shy and I have no idea how to get him to come out of his shell! We text way more than we talk. We talk, but there will be this long awkward...

countrygalcansurvive

Xper 5 Age: 32

We don't act like a couple ?

I just want to know why, cos he asked me out like a while back & he WANTS to act more, like one but he doesn't do it.& its kinda making me frustrated. we don't talk as much anymore, which is sad. & I want to know your...

beccakay

Xper 5 Age: 32

Older women/girls like buzz cuts?

Those under 18 feel no need to reply, because your taste in zac efron girly hair bares no weight. I'm in college and it seems that most guys around here that have chicks hanging around them have really short buzz cut...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy doesn't return a hug?

so basically, the guy I am interested in(who I hangout with regularly at school) walked me to one of my classes. I wanted to give him a hug good bye, so I did. But it felt kinda awkward because when I hugged him - he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We like each other, but he has a girlfriend...what to do!?

We have known each other for a bit over a month, and we've been hanging out together - just the two of us - quite a bit recently. We have both admitted to liking each other, and he told me that he wished he had met me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it possible an outgoing girl likes you and you don't know it?

Like the both of you don't talk much, if at all, especially since you're shy and don't really talk all that much.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I tell my boyfriend I cut myself?

Should I or not? If so how?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Astrology Compatibility..

Do you find yourself dating certain signs more than others? What's your sign and what's theirs? I'm a libra and I love pisces boys, but always get closest to aquarius boys.

powder_

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Sent my ex her stuff back in a box via Fed Ex, should I text/email her and let her know it's coming?

Should I give her a heads up to let her know it's coming? Broke up 8 weeks ago after two years together. When we broke she asked to take a break, so I didn't talk to her for 3 weeks. After which I found out she had began...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Peach Fuzz hair - on girls?

I know many people have different opinions but I'm feeling really self concious about my body hair at the moment. I'm not overtly hairy, but I'm pale with dark hair, so all of the hair on my body shows up more than it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Cancer man (zodiac sign) - How to provoke him to act

I made myself too available for that cancer guy because I like him very much and I wanna show him that he can rely on me, being there for him no matter what. Maybe I made myslef so available, that now he's taking me for...

Anonymous

(36-45)