All Questions

Why Do People Always Make Me Feel Guilty For Liking Older Men?

Look, I get tired pretty quickly of boys who don't know what's outside of their pants. Okay, I admit that's demeaning, but I'm trying to make a point. If and when I ever do decide to sleep with a guy, it sure as hell will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he turn me down?

My guy friend and I , have known each other for over a year. We met in college, and we immediately were butt buddies. we were definitely attracted to each other and ended up liking each other. At that point I was in a...

ramirezrebecca7

Xper 5 Age: 35

How to stop craving a physical touch?

So I know it's a stereotype for guys to just think about sex all the time, but what about girls? For me it's not even sex that is a main function of interest I just start craving interactions -- hugs, cuddling, late night...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Guys if you text an ex late at night, what does that mean? (we don't talk)

My ex I'm "friends" with randomly text me at like 12:30 and I haven't talked to him in months. And I'm confused.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are You "Conventionally Smart?"

Conventionally smart meaning high GPA, A's & B's in classes, taking higher level courses such as AP and/or IB? Do you believe that GPA, grades in classes & courses taken accurately indicate your level of intelligence?...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Is saying Jew-fro racist?

personally I don't think it is. because obviously saying "afro" is referring to African American people. my friends and I had discussions about this topic and teachers say its racist and students think its not. I say if...

TyGirl

Xper 5 Age: 32

Do guys like quiet and shy girls or slutty attention seeking girls?

I am a shy and quiet girl, I don't get involved in drama and gossiping, and am not very popular but have a lot of freinds, and will talk to anyone who wants to talk to me. I feel that most of the guys I know at my school...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I think my roommate let someone sleep in my bed when I was gone for the weekend!!!

So I went home for the weekend and the agreement between my roommate and I was that people may only sit on my bed if the bed is made (the comforter is covering the sheets). I got back today and she told me that one of our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

We just spooned, no kiss?!

I have been flirting with this guy for a few weeks, and a few nights ago I went to his house and we just chatted, and eventually we fell asleep. He spooned me as we were in bed together but never tried to have sex with me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What is type of physical contact is expected on a first date?

What do you expect on a first date? Kiss, sex, holding hands, hugs..? I'm new to this dating scene, and I don't know how much physical contact is expected and normal on a first date?

gettingbetter5

Xper 5 Age: 38

Would you rather have a roommate or live by yourself?

Which do you prefer and why? Any horror roommate stories you'd like to share?

MWalsh89

Xper 7 Age: 37

Do guys care about vpl?

Guys do you care if a girl has vpl? Or does it not matter to you?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Once you deem a guy "immasculine", will he ever be considered relationship material?

If a nice guy shows a soft side and lets you walk all over him with insults that degrade his manhood, have you lost all respect for him? Is he unable to be the dominant male figure you desire? I found that girls are more...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

He called me cuddly: good or bad?

We had been hugging etc. lots, just very affectionate. He later told me I was quite "cuddly." Is that good or just another way to say fat?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told my teacher that I loved him

i am 22 in college and I really fell in love with my teacher. I told him about my feelings and of course, he rejected me. later I learned that he's already married. I didn't know about it really. but it's been months...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does my male colleague love to wind me up so much?

I recently started a new job and my male colleague who shares my table with 2 others treats me very differently from everyone else. He seems to have an ego problem or something in that he never asks me how I am or greets...

girlygo

Xper 5 Age: 51

Clarifications on grinding

I get the gist of grinding but I would like to know what guys like better. So guys would you rather the girl just going straight back and forth with her hips or more hip movement? And would you rather the girl be like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls - thongs during winter?

Girls, do you wear thongs and g-strings in winter just as much as in summer, or rather less? Does it make any difference? Do your cheeks freeze in winter when you wear a thong? Just wondering...

MindPieces

Xper 3 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Why was he staring at me?

Ok, Thursday I went with my mother to pick up my brother from football practice like usual. When the boys were walking through the parking lot to the weight room or whatever they call it this guy from my grade started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break up? I told him I loved him, he's not there yet after 8 months?

We're both 29. This is my 1st long term relationship, he had a 5yr one where she cheated on him with his good friend, so he was hurt very badly. I have known I've loved him for a little while, but I was waiting for...

ChrisJeter

Xper 5 Age: 44

Girls: what do you think of the strong silent type guy?

Just curious. This is pretty much how I am. I'm an introvert at heart and don't talk much, mainly because I don't have much to say, that's just me. But once I get to know someone, I really open up and talk much more. In...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why does my brother not want me to date one of his friends?

I have a twin brother, we are both seniors in high school and I recently started seeing his friend. He freaked out when I told him, I've never seen him that way, he was really mad about it and I have no idea why. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think I look like barbara palvin?

one of my friends (he is gay and loves fashion) recently told me that I look like barbara palvin I didn't even know her until then! do you also think I look a bit like her?

magnifique

Yoda Age: 33

Flirting

Second date idea - dinner and bowling?

Had a first date last week, took her out for dinner and then to the theatre. Might sound a bit too much for a first date (I regretted it beforehand) but it went super well, we got on really well and I'm seeing her again...

onehitwonder

Xper 5 Age: 43

Is it wrong to flirt with a guy if he has a girlfriend?

Back story: I see Ryan every Wednesday for 3.5 hours for lab and every Friday for an hour for recitation and we sit right next to each other. He's attractive, smart, older, and we have so much in common it's not even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, when you are playfully mean to a guy?

What are the chances that you do it because you like him? This girl can be a little of a smartass to people but with me she really cuts loose and "lets me have it" and she never takes a break, its playful though, she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did ex block me after I deleted him as a friend?

my ex lied to me so I broke up with him. I then deleted him as a friend on Facebook. after that, he blocked me. why would he do that if he could no longer see my news feed? once I had deleted him as friend it surely was...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy look you up and down?

When a guy looks you up and down in a real obvious way because you can see his head moving, and when you get in line, he stands really close to you so that you're almost touching?

Anonymous

(36-45)