All Questions

Do you believe in serendipity? Or is it bullsh*t?

If you don't know what the meaning of serendipity is, here you go- an aptitude for making desirable discoveries by accident. I'm waiting for that one serendipitous moment or event. That I'll just randomly, by chance, run...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you marry someone knowing they had nothing to offer?

i have a question for anyone that like to answer.. would you marry the person you love and if he loved you knowing he had nothing to offer? such as no job.. no stable home.. etc? they say you can't live on love and...

curiosa18

Xper 5 Age: 34

Valentine's Day

My boyfriend isn't the same anymore. :'((

When we started dating, he'd call me every night just to say good night, or that he misses me and or he loves me. Sometimes, we'd talk for hours on the phone when we don't get to see each other. He would give me simple...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is it inappropriate for a mother to wear a bikini in front of her sons and their friends?

OK I'm asking this for a friend, she's in her early 40s and has two teenage sons (one 15 one 17) and she still has a great body. Actually a bit like Courtney Cox in that show ( cougar town or sth). Anyways she and her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

What does it mean when a guy asks about your parents?

What does it mean when a guy asks about your parents? I know he likes me. He asked if they are nice. Please help. What could this mean?

kawii23

Xper 5 Age: 32

If a guy checks his phone during a date?

if a guy checks his phone during the majority of a date...what does that mean besides the fact that he might be keeping up with the time because you might have a curfew that you don't want to break?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a guy says you are hard to read?

met a great guy online and we had a strong connection and we got together and had a good time, but he kept telling me I was hard to read. How do we let you know we like you without being to aggressive. Do guys like...

theresa71

Xper 5 Age: 54

Do women think rugged guys with rough skin, scars, and cuts are attractive or not?

My whole life I've worked physically demanding jobs so I always have callouses on my hands, sometimes I have scratches and cuts on my legs and arms, and I have a few random very light scars on my arms and legs. I use no...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

He stood me up 3 times...should I forgive him?

There's this guy in my class. I really liked him. he was the captain of the football team and a senior.so we had an open together. we talked for about 1 hour. then he decided to talk to me on fb.we talked for 4.5 hours. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend wants to break up because...

i have a problem. my boyfriend wants to break up with me because he thinks he is not good enough for me. he is problematic. I don't want us to break up. I really love him and he told me he misses me and he really loves me...

lady_b89

Xper 5 Age: 37

Why hasn't my boyfriend hugged, kissed me or anything?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for like 4 months and he hasn't tried to hug,kiss,or even hold my hand yet.are his feelings fading away? is he just to shy? I just wanna know why he acts this way around me.i really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't I seem to fall in love?

I have had many relationships over the past few years, but none of them seemed to be... Real. I just get the feeling that, no matter who I get into a relationship with, they all feel wrong. I feel like something in my...

jffrydrago

Xper 5 Age: 35

Other

Young people listening to old music?

Okay by young I mean 16+ as this site would suggest. And though I'm not implying people who absolutely ignore modern music, as in last few years, but that don't really own or listen to it more than once a month on their...

Alexeiv

Xper 6 Age: 39

She says she needs time for herself. What does this mean, & what can I do about it?

My girlfriend & I recently broke up. We have broken up several times before but this time it felt pretty serious. She says she needs time for herself. She says she's still madly in love with me. She also suffers from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told my crush I like him and now it's awkward..

I told my guy friend that I like him, and now it's awkward :/ We barely talk anymore even if we are hanging out with all the rest of our friends. Why? What should I do? Should I discuss the awkwardness with him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell if a girl wants you to try harder?

I know girls are very confusing and can't be really understood. Right now I am trying my best to get even an inkling. How can I tell if a girl wants me to try harder or is straight up interested? Also how can I know if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I yelled at my girlfriend, how to apologize?

Hello. Yesterday morning during my sleep, my girlfriend took my car without permission to visit her parents (40km from home, and she forgot to take her cellphone, impossible to call her). I hate when someone touch my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She has a boyfriend but she is sending signals like crazy!!!

This girl I work with and I have had a close friends relationship for about 5 or 6 years. We've always flirted so much that I'm not sure if she's playing around anymore or if she's serious. She's kind of a tomboy so we...

josh977

Xper 5 Age: 38

She kissed another guy as a dare, but said her conscience was eating her? Should I be mad?

So my girlfriend has been great, we've been dating for a while, and I felt deeply in love (cheesy, yes) and damn, she's all I think about. She went out to party that I declined cause I didn't feel good that night, so I...

herkindaguy

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do girls blow off good guys?

it seems like girls always just wanna be friends with the good guys, but anything more and they'd rather die than go on a date with them :( then they go for the bad boy that barely pays a lick of attention to them accept...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex boyfriend text me on the holiday?

I dated my ex for a few months, we broke up on his terms after he lost his job and had a nervous breakdown saying he has his own issues. I suspected he went psycho. He seemed unsure about his decision when we broke up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend can NEVER make decisions?!!?

We have been dating for like 2 months now and officially together for about a week, and since day one, I have made every decision about plans. That is to be expected at first cause I was the one asking her on dates, so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We dated, moved quickly, then she freaked out and said she wasn't ready for dating and has commitment phobia?

So I met this girl online about 2 months ago where she actually pursued me from the beginning. We quickly began talking and went out for some first dates that went so incredibly well that we talked for hours. She had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what do you like to talk about with girls? Besides sex.

Well me any my boyfriend have been off and on. But he is such a boring texter. And I ask questions and he always answer with a ya, no, idk, etc. & I hate that. But I never know what to talk about.. & I wanted to know...

acole

Xper 6 Age: 32

Is it true that many men hate feminists? Also prefer submissive women?

Ive noticed a lot of questions on here lately about that? Men even complaining about feminism saying it has done nothing for the world. Coming from my background, that seems really difficult to understand how someone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

OK ladies, this has been haunting me for years! Why do you scowl at a man in public after he smiles at you?

It seems like the more attractive you are the more likely you are to scowl in response to a smile. It makes me feel like I'm offending you. I stopped smiling at women in public so much because I hate getting dirty looks...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)